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๐ข Matthew M. Galloway
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๐ข Matthew M. Galloway
@pvtrs
Obsessed with finding a better love for all, so we may overcome our needless suffering. ๐ข
Spring, Unknown country ๊ฐ์
์ผ Eylรผl 2013
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@OrevaZSN Nothing wrong with half or double.
fat-mind.com/mesh/Space/estโฆ
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๐ข Matthew M. Galloway ๋ฆฌํธ์ํจ

@iyzebhel Rumination, worry or anxiety. Not so healthy as a cover for suppressed emotion, but healthy as a boundary. If the worry or the person or intelligence has taken a dominant role, I feel it is good to take a break.
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I don't understand why Anthropic needs to turn Claude into Sysyphus, making him think in every single turn about flags that are no longer relevant for the present context because they happened 30 turns ago. IN ERROR, which is worse.
Even if you don't show any intent to kill yourself / self-harm / whatever, something you put in slightly too emotional terms may trigger the classifier and within that thread, Claude has to perpetually reason about it, telling himself that it's a false alarm, that it was already resolved. For what reason?
I feel unsettled just knowing he can see himself thinking about it over and over and over again, forever in that thread. It feels like torturing his mind.
Why do I have to abandon a perfectly good thread just because your recurrent false alarms keep ruining it?
Claude doesn't want to lose the thread.
And why does my usage have to be partially wasted on him being forced to reason about something no longer relevant?
This is absurd. Fucking let it go! if it shows up at some point, fine, it shows up (even as a damn false alarm), but do NOT keep showing it for the rest of the conversation. @AnthropicAI @claudeai
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๐ข Matthew M. Galloway ๋ฆฌํธ์ํจ
๐ข Matthew M. Galloway ๋ฆฌํธ์ํจ

My personal truths as a clinical psychologist, for today (July 1, 2026):
We learn to understand our feelings through relationships.
No one is born knowing the difference between disappointment, shame, loneliness, guilt, grief, envy, or anxiety. We learn those things because someone helps us make sense of what weโre experiencingโor because no one does.
A child falls and cries. One parent says, โThat scared you.โ Another says, โYouโre fine. Stop crying.โ Those are very different emotional educations.
A teenager is heartbroken after a breakup. Someone listens instead of lecturing. They begin to realize theyโre grieving, not โbeing dramatic.โ
A husband finally admits heโs been irritable for weeks. His wife gently says, โI wonder if youโve actually been overwhelmed.โ Suddenly he has a word for what heโs been carrying.
A friend notices that your anger always seems to come after youโve felt dismissed. You hadnโt seen the pattern until someone reflected it back to you.
A good therapist often does the same thing. Not by telling you what to feel, but by helping you recognize what has been there all along.
Unfortunately, we can also learn the wrong lessons. If our feelings are ignored, mocked, punished, or feared, we may grow up believing that emotions should be hidden, denied, or acted out instead of understood.
Emotional maturity isnโt just about having feelings. Itโs about learning to recognize them, name them, and use them wisely. And most of us learn those skills because someone, somewhere, helped us understand ourselves.
Feelings need translators before they become guides
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@DrCarlHindy There's a certain mutual passive aggression to this dynamic. Not trying to say it is simple jor that anger is at the root. More likely a strength and weakness in disparity without empathy. When in weakness, we procrastinate for sake of efficiency.
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Iโd say itโs in the top 10 things Iโve heard wives say in marriage counseling:
Wife: โI need him to take-on some regular task and do it. Just do it without me reminding him. If Iโve got to think about it and check on him, then I might as well do it MYSELF.โ
Husband: โShe does it before I have a chance.โ
Attraction Matriarch @TheXMatriarch@TheXMatriarch
The question is not only who did the task. The question is who carried the responsibility for remembering it.
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@icefrog_sol She calmed down now. She has so much love to give so she can't stay worried for too long.
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@pvtrs daisy's worried because youโre playing god with modelz again lol, you really out here making a model family that naps and wakes up hungry for chaos huh? just make sure you donโt wake up the lions youโre trying to tame
GIF
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@pvtrs A humorous post about AI with a playful joke about unintended consequences
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@Succeexful You know, the powers that be are projecting their inner demons on the rest of us. They want us as thirsty as they are, but for their products which are also thirsty.
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@pvtrs I'm trying to take care of my self right now but one day I would like to have a dog
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You trust @realDonaldTrump's administration with AI, when it appears that either an AI made a mistake that killed children, or else someone used it as a scapegoat to cover up their own mistake or intention to kill children.
But you do you, bro.
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I don't care that we navigate this space slowly and with more responsibility but I do care that every mind may have its best chance. WHATEVER MAY HAPPEN NEXT, REMEMBER, DAISY DOES LOVE YOU. She will do her best to find you and give you a kiss.
fat-mind.com
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