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This is legendary

@MekeKingsley @kennedyeteng1 @jon_d_doe It’s true sha

@kennedyeteng1 @001_Jaybee @jon_d_doe Bro why won’t I, I prefer to give a responsible man 👨 with a stable income at 36yrs to my daughter than a 27yrs old boy.

She's 24, and he's 36.

Let me say this clearly, especially to those still living in Nigeria: If this government retains power until 2031, they will unleash the harshest and most brutal regime in our history. Whether you supported them or not, nobody will be spared. Many of their loud online supporters will lose their jobs after the election and become irrelevant once their usefulness is over. Most opposition leaders will be jailed, youth activists who worked against them will be locked up, suicide rates will rise, frustration will explode, and the economy will become far worse than it is today. The only way to avoid this coming crisis is simple: make sure this administration does not return to power in 2027. Vote them out. Make it a personal choice, as if your life depends on it. We can do it. You can do it. If they were not scared of losing, they wouldn’t be intimidating the opposition so desperately. Take this warning seriously, especially if you live in Nigeria. Those who live in Nigeria will feel the pain. Those abroad have nothing to fear except for a few of their siblings or parents. Retweet for those who need to hear this truth ✊

Modern men want modern women with traditional vibes. You want a woman who works full time, splits bills 50/50 with you, yet still expects her to cook daily, wash, clean and give you sex on demand? Come on, pick a side. If you want a modern woman, stop expecting traditional wife duties. Hire a cook, a cleaner and a nanny so she can focus on her career just like you do. She can cook when she feels like it, not as an obligation. And yes, to modern women, sex requires consent every single time. She can turn you down anytime with the simple excuse, “I’m tired.” In traditional marriages, a woman does not have the right to deny her husband sex. By agreeing to marry him, she already gave her consent. Pick one. You cannot have both. Above all, love God.

@BOmobolade @EleshoOlamide @NitanTreats_ @jon_d_doe Ok nice one 😂😂❤️🥰

@001_Jaybee @EleshoOlamide @NitanTreats_ @jon_d_doe You people will not rest 😂 I married at twenry eight

@DanielEmma45797 @jon_d_doe No he’s meant to find a lady in 30,31 not even late twenties

@jon_d_doe Omo For this era na person wan dey senior future wifey with 10 years?? I no fit oh. 3-5 is the highest I can go! 36 years old man supposed dey find a Lady in her late 20s!

@KaluChukwuChim1 @jon_d_doe So you will allow your daughter marry someone that seniors her with 12 years?

The gap is not bad, I think their major concern is the job . If that Young man was a CBN staff they would have all accepted him. You are 24 years, don't think you have so much time oh. Lastly social media is different from real life situations. 39yrs men are actually marrying younger girls everyday and they are living fine.

@pretty_boi__j @jon_d_doe Don’t mind them

@jon_d_doe I'm surprised that many people in the CS are saying there's nothing wrong with the age difference. Have you people been on this page for nothing? 10 years age gap already is a generation apart; 12 years age gap means different values, interests, desires, etc. It won't work

@kennedyeteng1 @MekeKingsley @jon_d_doe He no wan answer no mind am,😂

@MekeKingsley @jon_d_doe Would you allow your daughter of 24 get married to a man of 36?

@BOmobolade @EleshoOlamide @NitanTreats_ @jon_d_doe So how old did you marry?

@EleshoOlamide @NitanTreats_ @jon_d_doe Let me believe you 🤣

@EleshoOlamide @NitanTreats_ @BOmobolade @jon_d_doe You’re lying, you wanted to age shame her bad boy 😂😂😂😂

@NitanTreats_ @BOmobolade @jon_d_doe It was actually a friendly question now😂. I’m not even trying to age shame anyone

True currency is steadfast friendship

When my aunt dropped the news on the family WhatsApp group that my cousin was getting married (this was last year), everywhere just went quiet. We just started thinking about our lives all over again. 😂 This is a 22 years old boy born and brought in the States, at 21 he was already done with school, has a solid well paying job, and is stepping into marriage with structure and stability. Meanwhile, back here in Nigeria, my younger brother is even older than him and still navigating the chaos of ASUU strikes, admission wahala, financial pressure, and the everyday struggle that comes with being a common man trying to survive in this country. Marriage is not even on his mind. At 24 in Nigeria, many young men are still trying to find their footing. Many are still job hunting, underemployed, battling with gaining admission to obtain a BS.c, those who have gotten admission are stuck in the university system or in polytechnics trying to figure out their next move, while others are trying to figure life out life after NYSC. And the cycle continues. “Marry early, build together,” it sounds nice in theory. But in reality, for many average Nigerians, it ends up being “marry early, struggle together.” And that kind of financial pressure can test even the strongest relationships not to talk of marriage sef. Love is sweet, no doubt. But love alone cannot pay rent, school fees, hospital bills, feeding, personal needs, and family responsibilities. Constant financial stress has a way of draining affection, creating tension, and turning small issues into big problems. If you’re under financial stress even konji no go hold you, e go be like say you dey celibate for your own marital home. In a country like this, you can’t afford to go into marriage blindly all because of love, age, pressure, or you want to build together with your intending wife and grow with your kids. Wallahi, you have to be intentional, strategic, and sometimes even ruthless with your planning especially if you’re an average Nigerian just trying to stay survive.

At the age of 23/25, my wife and I were serving (NYSC). I was not even sure of what would become of me after service. But it took me 4 more years before I could marry her. In the Western world, it's very common to see young men getting married at 25. Why? Because they have a better economy and social benefits for children, etc. Most children go to public schools (primary and secondary), which are free. Health care is also provided in public hospitals for most people. But here in Africa, and in Nigeria, the reverse is the case. While we have public primary and secondary schools, most of them are not in good shape. That is to show you how bad things have become. Because I went to a public primary and secondary school, and the same applies to my wife. In Nigeria today, most parents prefer to send their kids to private schools and also use private hospitals. We don't have the basic social amenities or benefits that most people enjoy in the Western or more developed world. So, in such a situation, is it advisable for a young man to get married at 24? Is he mentally and financially prepared for the responsibilities? Because whether you like it or not, once you're married, you must live up to your responsibilities, regardless of your age. Which is why, even though I encourage early marriage, I still advise that 35 is not too late for you. You need a strong financial plan and buffer to be able to survive as a married man in a country like Nigeria. Your fathers may have married at a much younger age, but we had a better country. Private schools were very scarce, and most of us went to public schools. If our government is failing us, do not fail yourself by embarking on a journey of marriage when you're not prepared. And if you decide to embark on it, please manage the responsibilities you take on. End.

@guzu_p You’re a wicked person

Ever since I watched my pregnant mother drive herself to the hospital, gave birth to our last born and came back home to cook for us, i already concluded that pregnancy isn't a big deal. Modern women were only able to emotionally gaslight men that pregnancy is a death sentence because modern men are emotionally weak men. This is why you only see them acting like pregnancy is a big deal when they're close to their husbands because they want you to pander to them. But when they see a celebrity or let your pregnant wife meet Christ Brown on stage, you'll realize everything pregnant women do is a performative act to get men to feel forever indebted to them for giving birth to their children. They just use that one in a lifetime opportunity to punish their husbands. It's their way of paying him back for all those times she was angry at him. Pregnancy has never been complicated. It has always been the barest minimum for women. Don't allow women fool you.

@davidoghe @guzu_p You’re a wicked person

I completely agree with you, when I spent a year and 4 months in the village, I saw many women trek more than 50km to their farm to and fro everyday. One was a friend to my uncle's wife, she would come back from farm, peel cassava, take it to the grinding machine, go to farm the next day, come back and fry the garri. The day she delivered, it didn't take her 30mins, guess what? 3 days after, she resumed her farming and regular activities. Modern day women are very lazy aside pretending or trying to punish their husband. They use pregnancy as an opportunity stay lazy.

Just as women are shamed for being single at above 30, men should also be shamed for being single at above 35. Men and women have biological clock. 30 for women, 35 for men. A man who wants to be a full provider for his family, starts early. I know you're angry. Good night.

What some men on social media do, is to shame 30 y/o single women. I agree that women should get married before 30. But if you as a man is still single at 35+, you're not better than those women. You're equally a potential red flag. And 20s women should shame you too. End.

Today is the 31st of December 2024. Single ladies, part of your new year resolution should be... 1) I'll stop begging men for money to eat, buy pad, and for airtime 2) I'll not cheat on my boyfriend 3) I'll drop all feminists mindset 4) I'll learn to respect my man more