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@onlywithn Why do some people tie kindness to expectation?

why are guys only kind to you as long as they think they have a chance with you, then become so mean the second you reject them

@TatianaSnead When do comments stop affecting you?

you really can’t internalize people’s projections & misdirected energy on these apps. you don’t know these people.

@amandaperera What changes when you start loving yourself?

When you truly love yourself, you don’t fear getting old. You get excited about getting wiser, having more beautiful experiences, & watching yourself evolve exactly as God intended. Just take good care of your body and health, and don’t let go of your innocence

@Koriuma What does inner peace feel like for you?

Even around tension, doubt, or people who misunderstood me, blessings can still reach me. My peace doesn’t depend on everyone liking me.

@muheediva01 When is ghosting ever justified?

Let's stop sugarcoating it. Ghosting is rude. It's immature. It's selfish. And it's pathetic. I don't care if it's a friendship, a talking stage, or a relationship. Disappearing on someone who's been consistently showing up for you is not "protecting your peace." It's avoiding accountability and honest communication.

@pallnandi What challenges modern relationships most?

Don’t let this generation fool you. Building a life, loyalty, peace and real love with one person is still one of the most beautiful things in this world.

@Zoemkoena How does solitude build strength?

Once you stop being afraid of the possibility of spending your life alone(romantically), you'll stop tolerating a lot of nonsense

@tarynxofficial What does “not settling” look like for you?

It’s so important to have community because when you have people around you who love and care about you, you are less likely to settle for anyone coming into your life trying to give you less.

@SoledadFrancis What pulled you away from reading?

Get back on your head in a book era. If you have to listen to everything on audiobook, do audio, but get the right information into your subconscious mind. By any means. Get back on your journaling, writing out the vision for your life. Get back to your goals. Get back to you!

@Heyitshassan What’s your strongest body signal for feelings?

We romanticised the wrong organ; the stomach is more emotional than the heart. We feel butterflies in our stomach, and when we are sad, we lose our appetite, our stomach gets affected by emotions way more than we realize

@karefreekeri What does “flow with control” mean to you?

Flow with control, flow with discernment, flow with discipline, flow with purpose, flow with love.

@sadgirlyboss What made you stop being nonchalant?

i’m over being nonchalant. speak with conviction. send the letter. take the flight. ask the question. love out loud. people are afraid of looking foolish for 5 minutes and it’s costing them their entire lives.

@Feralfairy13 Why is accepting death so difficult for families?

Wish people honored & didn’t fear death so much. One lady I was working with visibly had one foot on the other side. She told me shes ready. I tell family to consider home hospice. They want her to keep fighting. Week later she passes on the vent in the hospital- worst way to go

@xygort When did you notice your old coping habits failing?

Matter of fact, I realise I have grown when I start realising that my old ways of coping with some things no longer work.

@OrevaZSN How do people reconnect with slower living?

@Gabbrielxzn What makes someone feel truly heard?

I love that feeling when you talk stuff out with someone and you both become aware that neither of you were wrong. You just saw the scenaric differently. Talking really should be about seeing things from their perspective, rather than the need to be right.

@karefreekeri What wisdom came to you later than expected?

Every single day I gain some wisdom that I wish I had before but no matter when it arrives I am just happy to have it so that I may journey better. In any case, when it comes is the right time anyway so that I can use this new knowledge resourcefully, properly, and with purpose.

@bluewmist What does genuine kindness look like daily?

I cannot express this enough, you have NO IDEA what other people carry with them EVERYDAY. You have NO IDEA what someone's life is like.Don't create more pain & stress to others. BE KIND. BE GENUINE. Stop being so mean to people to fulfill whatever it is you don't like about you

@Markmanson What helps you finally take action?

Procrastination promises relief but delivers regret. Action avoids regret and delivers relief.

@oosafarnama Why do simple routines help so much sometimes?

When you feel your mental health is going bad again, try random things. Clean your room, take a walk with no destination, enjoy your favorite ice cream flavor or just ghost everyone. Sometimes, the smallest things can help you feel like yourself again.