Dzata Nelson, CSG,YA,SC@TheDzataNelson
The cousin to Joana, @PassionFeva, who is speaking on the space, is very biased.
I could tell from all indications the bitterness she has against RNAQ.
Her claims are mere conjectures and unsubstantiated. She keeps saying, “I think” instead of telling us emphatically what the matter is on the grounds.
Sadly, the host @tailorMARIQUE has refused to ask the necessary questions.
I have taken note of his previous posts where he was in pure of support of the ex-wife. His bias is without doubt but out of respect for the audience, I expected him to do better and not make this the usual agenda…..
But internet people are not stupid.
They are very discerning and can see beyond the veils.
People are asking whether this is just a setup to seek public empathy for the lady. For me, I am indifferent.
According to her, RNAQ doesn’t feed his kids and they are hungry. But she also mentioned later that the same RNAQ sends money to the elder daughter whenever she calls. I have also taken note of the daughter’s post on TikTok where she was in private jet. That confuses me because, I have never seen a hungry person in private jet before…. But well…..
She also said, categorically, that the direct brother to Joana doesn’t agree with Joana’s decisions and has taken a strong stance with RNAQ. She called the brother selfish and stated that Joana intends never to speak with her biological brother again.
This is where I draw the line.
For we men, we are bold to defend the truth, and brothers typically will not support their sisters when they go wayward. That could be the main reason there is tension between the two.
And for this cousin, who happens to be a long-distance relative, I am surprised she is unconcerned about the tension between the two siblings. And instead of being a mediator or working to get the siblings on the same page, she has taken a stance and has joined to fuel the tension more. Such family members need to be watched carefully. In Ewe, we call them “afegbalawo” to wit, home breakers.
Sadly, the space has been interrupted. When they return, I have 100 questions to ask the cousin, who is now the spokesperson for Joana:
1.I want to know her real interest in this matter.
2.I want to know whether she has the approval of Joana to bring their family problems into the public domain.
3.I also want to know the real intention behind bringing this case into the public domain.
We are ready to support, but we shall not be bought with emotions.
We need pure logic in this matter.
Lastly, I think the divorce PR is unnecessary. Legal avenues should be explored to demand any needed justice.
16 years is not a joke. The attempt to drag the reputation of your ex-husband is not in the best interest of the kids and the union shared in the past.
I pray for peace and healing for everyone including the online in laws.
May we all be great.
A for Akpe!
