TheBloomNetwork™️

l've been a relationship counsellor for more three years, and here are 20 wholesome habits I've noticed amongst successful couples. It gets better as you slide, I promise:

The greatest form of love might be consideration, but the greatest proof of love is care. When you love someone, you care in ways that are beyond words and really about actions, big and little. You prioritize their wellbeing, protect their joy and guard their safety. That’s love.

You are phenomenal! Quote me anywhere! If only for today, I hope you’re able to bask in joy and pride. I hope you’re able to view yourself through beautiful, shining crystals. And I hope you’re able to give yourself pats on the back with no reservations because you deserve! A splendid Mother’s Day to you❤️❤️❤️

I want you to know that you’re doing so well, MORE THAN ENOUGH. You’re doing a terrific job! And I want you to know that rather than shame, you have every single reason to be proud. Be proud of you for staying and being present. Be proud of you for trying. Be proud of you for giving it your best even on days when you feel clueless and powerless.

Today, my Mother’s Day wish is specifically for the mothers who have to do it all by themselves with little to no help. The mothers who chose to be the parent that stayed. The mothers who fight so hard every single day to make life better for their child(ren), just so they can prove everyone who’s ever told them they’d fail, wrong.

So, rather than burying it all under the proverbial carpet, the question you should be asking is, “How can I get better at managing conflict so that it becomes an opportunity for better understanding and deeper love, rather than chaotic explosion?” If this resonated with you, let me know your thoughts in the comment section.

They’re causing more harm and making you miss out on true intimacy, because if you never speak up about the things that matter, nothing ever gets fixed. You never feel heard, seen or acknowledged and eventually, you end up feeling lonely even when the relationship remains. And let’s not talk about the resentment buildup.

Six years ago when my husband and I decided to take our friendship to the next level, we launched into a series of serious conversations. One of the conversations we had was about our individual approach to conflict. I remember telling him that I’m a very conflict-positive person and how I attribute that to my upbringing.