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no reaction, just distance

I avoid drama because I am afraid of me, not you. My temper goes from zero to prison real quick 😂

At random times me really memba seh me a big ooman

😭🥹 I just saw a TikTok about a girl who moved in with her friend for 6 months to get her life together. The friend told her rent was $350 but she paid $400 anyway. When it was time to move out, the friend gave her the entire $2,400 back 😭 and said she never needed the money… she just wanted to help her save and get back on her feet. My God 🥹 THIS is what love looks like. This is grace. This is what it means to be human. 🤞🏽❤️

Accountability is so important to me. Nobody is perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match.

i ain’t losing me again for nobody

Don't make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that you overlook the fact that you’re being disrespected.

once i feel like i spoke on the situation too many times, ima just let u do u

Once i mentally separate myself from a situation you'll never get the same me. I'm somebody you gotta do right by the first time because my mental detachment doesn't allow reconnection. Especially because at my age its hard to make sense out of another grown person trying to play

cooking up the nastiest rebrand of my life rn brb

even at my most drained i’m considerate

maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. It's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you.

Narcissist (n.) A professional liar, emotional thief, and world-class victim when caught. They twist the truth so easily that lies become their language. They steal your energy, your trust, and your peace, then act wounded when you finally see through them. To the outside world, they wear the perfect mask — charming, confident, misunderstood. But behind closed doors, they drain you with manipulation, gaslighting, and blame. When the mask starts to slip, they quickly switch roles, painting you as the cruel one for daring to hold them accountable. It’s a cycle of deceit wrapped in fake remorse. But once you understand their tactics, you stop playing the part they’ve written for you. The truth doesn’t need to scream — it just needs to be seen.

Spot a narcissist: they confuse manipulation for affection, criticism for attack, and boundaries for betrayal. Your clarity is their kryptonite.

A narcissist creates an atmosphere of instability, insecurity, confusion, frustration, and fear, all designed to keep you off balance and make you live life on their terms.

Until death removes you from this world, reset button is forever pressable.

You just have to get stronger I’m sorry.

My Instagram is filled with green circles and I realise if I wasn’t in their close friends, I’d think a majority of them have all stopped posting. Which shows social media is still heavily active, people are just becoming a lot more selective and private about it.

Kinda hard to build emergency funds when everyday is an emergency.

UPDATE ON THE CRUSH Speed kills💔💔💔😭😭😭

lol , me overwhelmed 🧍🏽‍♀️