G.L. Lambert

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“Our vibe is crazy” Nah, your lust is on 10 and you’re confusing sexual energy with genuine interest. That’s why you fall too fast for people you barely know… It’s time to start being WISE not Romantic: farfrombasyc.com/2026/05/vettin… 📌

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“Options are limited out here” is a lie that will keep you going in a circle of heartbreak and settling. Dating is a competition. Instead of putting your eggs in one basket: audition them! Be picky instead of folding the moment a few boxes are checked. Real trophy’s aren’t handed out, they’re earned! But but but— stop the excuses. Don’t say you’re the prize cus it’s trendy. Prove that you have high standards that don’t bend!

You can’t force anyone to be greater than what they are or grow at the same rate you are growing. They can talk big. Cosplay as ambitious. But they’re never going to walk it like they talk it. LET GO. You can’t tie yourself to mediocre. Let them waste their time, never yours…

Ask questions. Dig deep. Get to know them! If a person’s story keeps changing then it’s only a matter of time before they change up on YOU: farfrombasyc.com/2026/05/vettin…

You are enough. You don’t need to hold on, fight, or struggle to keep someone who doesn’t want to be kept. It’s okay to walk away! It’s not “your loss” nor was it their “fumble”. Let go of that negativity. It was a life lesson that you’ll look back on and appreciate…

The truth we don't want to hear ‼️

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If you have to interpret his behavior, ask others what they think, or do any kind of mental gymnastics, then you're avoiding the truth: That Man Doesn't Want You. Love is simple. Any person who has given you endless excuses about not being ready is a liar. If he wants you, he makes it happen. Simple!

Tell a man what you've been through in the past, and he'll hold your hand, promise you the world, then use that information to break you down. Stop seeing these men as your "friends" and recognize that the best defense is offense. Make them chase. Make them invest. Make them pour so much equity into you that they can't victimize you because you've gotten way more than you've put in.

That stage where other people are calling your confidence, “delusional” is the God Tier. You MUST believe 100% that you can have anything you want and achieve anything you focus on… “be realistic” is how peasants talk. You have to hit different!

Humble women get passed over. Nice girls get used. This is why that internal voice inside your head MUST be arrogant, snobbish, and disgustingly cocky. When you walk around like you’re the center of the universe, it attracts success! Stop trying to fit in and be HER. 🔌 farfrombasyc.com/glpodcast

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Get your mind right. Tune into the latest episode: farfrombasyc.com/2026/04/honeym…

“I refuse to ask a man for anything. I have my own,” she types while pumping her own gas on her way to get cracked by her unemployed “friend” who won’t commit but proudly bums money from her paycheck every other week… Pick Me Pride and Sugar Mama energy won’t make you wifey, it makes you just a fool who overcompensates in the name of love…

“Can I do better?” Asking yourself that early and often in a relationship is crucial. Most people aren’t happy, they’re content or stuck. You call it love but truth is you don’t want to find better because you’re afraid of starting over with no guarantees. That’s a COWARD’S mindset. Stop convincing yourself that nothing else is out there when the person you’re holding onto is mediocre at best.

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Modern relationships move too fast. Vibing turns into being up under each other every weekend. Sex. Promises. Soul Ties. A few months later, your texts are being ignored and "busy" is the excuse. It FELT like love, but it wasn't. That's the price you pay when you don't take your time…