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JAY THANK U AGAIN 🥹🤍 💬: please tell me how to love your own insecurities + recently i’ve been worried about my thoughts and appearance 🐈‍⬛: i’m not exactly sure what you’re referring to, but it really depends on how you think about it 🐈‍⬛: if you think about why we use the word “flaw,” 🐈‍⬛: it’s because a certain trait of ours causes harm to ourselves or others, so we call it a flaw 🐈‍⬛: things you’re born with can be improved through self management, which is good 🐈‍⬛: but for other issues, it might help to try changing your perspective 🐈‍⬛: everyone in the world has their own shortcomings 🐈‍⬛: but if you think about it well, there are definitely moments when what we call a “flaw” can work as a strength 🐈‍⬛: it’s okay to overcome your flaws! or, on the other hand, you can think about how to use that trait to your advantage 🐈‍⬛: i think our lives, depending on how we see them, can be turned into something with multiple choice answers, or on the contrary, something we solve like an open ended essay. 🐈‍⬛: choosing to change yourself is also important sometimes, but… 🐈‍⬛: i think it’s also important to consider how i can interpret and prove myself right now. 🐈‍⬛: effort always comes with results. fighting!