Dr.Paeshae

I applied to your firm for a job, you sent me rejection letter, very normal. I took it. What I won’t take is you adding me to your subscribers, sending me news letter. You too dey go!!!

You cannot tackle false rape accusers without first tackling rape. You must be loud in your condemnation of rape before you can begin to face false rape accusers. But you’re a fool.

The amount of men in those videos is sickening. If rape culture can bring out a such a huge crowd, just imagine what they are doing behind closed doors.

A SOCIETY THAT TEACHES GIRLS HOW TO AVOID RAPĒ INSTEAD OF TEACHING BOYS NOT TO RAPĒ HAS ALREADY FAILED

• Women are humans, not entertainment. • Women are humans, not public property. • Women are humans, not something to “try your luck” on. • Women are humans, not objects for your amusement. • Women are humans, not invitations. • Women are humans, not challenges to conquer. • Women are humans, not there to satisfy your curiosity. • Women are humans, not something you touch without consent. • Women are humans, not your “just this once.” • Women are humans, not your entitlement. Women are humans. That alone should be enough for you to leave US alone!!!

You continue to perpetuate barbaric cultures and traditions that are harmful to women. Some of these women are barely teenagers who have little or no knowledge about it. To those of you men who stood bye and watched these women get assaulted, YOU ARE EQUALLY AS BAD.

From the King, to his Chiefs, Odions, Oletus and whoever holds a position in that town. YOU HAVE FAILED YOUR WOMEN!!!

You should see the gleefulness in your Ozoro boys, the cheers, the onlookers who are so happy to record these traumatizing scenes. Women truly are not safe anywhere. Not even in communities that raised them.

Apparently this is a tradition that has been going on for decades and it’s a feast of a particular deity which lasts for 7 days. In this 7 days, women are not supposed to be outside and if found, men have the free rein to molest and sexually assault them.

Girls in my community (Ozoro, Delta state) are currently getting molested and raped because of a sick tradition that says any woman who’s out from 12noon today is allowed to get molested. The videos I’ve seen are horrific.

There is no such thing as a raping festival. That is not culture. Any sexual practice that removes the right of women to be willing participant, is not culture. That is simply gang rape and sexual assault. The police needs to pack everybody involved if they are not also involved in this madness. Culture is not absolute. Man made culture. Therefore, man can undo it. Any culture that is repugnant to natural justice, equity and good conscience, is not binding. Any culture that is incompatible with extant Nigerian law, is not binding. Any culture that contravenes public policy, is not binding. This nonsense behaviour is not culture. It is man made excuse to violate women. Arrest everybody.

I don’t have to care about everything and it’s not my place to save people from the results of their own choices

Unfortunately, as you get older, you gradually become less interested in new music and keep going back to the old favorite songs you once loved.

I kinda owe it to myself to do all the things i've dreamed of.

No matter how talented you are, if you’re in the wrong environment, you won’t be valued.

Bloom at your own pace 🤍

I wish people understood that when someone seems to overexplain, it's often because of how much they've been misunderstood. They're trying to give you information that they assume is hard to understand based on how they've been treated. This deserves compassion, not criticism

You can forgive people without welcoming them back into your life. Apology accepted, Access denied.

I personally made it a choice not to confront people I do not want to resolve things with. If I like you, I’ll confront you so we can have a convo about it and deal with the issue, otherwise, please come and be going abeg.

I saw someone say, “My hyper-independence comes from how little urgency people show when it comes to me,” and honestly, that resonated deeply.