👳🏾‍♂️Mufti Of Ilorin Online 👳🏾‍♂️

Tell me about your week in four pictures. Please don’t air me 🙏🏾 Here’s mine:

May Allah protect us and direct our paths to the right way.

If you see this, please quote with anything 🙏

it's not exactly my jurisdiction, but i have marriage advice. hear me out now.

To get a partner in UK is easier than US. Aanu Olohun with connection ni US 😃😃

If you’re financially stable and buoyant, how many wives can you realistically marry and take care of properly?

I can see the reactions to my this post, where I said that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ married single mothers and listed those among his wives who had children before marrying him. Some people felt I had disrespected them by referring to them as SINGLE MOTHERS. First and foremost, these are women I deeply love, admire, and respect. I have spent years studying their lives, including their lives before they married the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. I have read more than ten books about them, and I am still learning. That is precisely why I am careful with my words. As I said in my previous post, they were single mothers. The wives of the Prophet ﷺ who had children before marrying him were raising those children without their fathers, either because they had been widowed or divorced. This is not an insult. It is simply a description of their circumstances at that point in their lives. One fact we need to establish is that “single mother” is not a derogatory term. So, I will say it again: the Messenger of Allah ﷺ married women who were single mothers. By the standard definition, a single mother or a single father is a person raising their child or children without the other parent, whether due to widowhood, divorce, separation, or, in some cases, children born outside marriage. I did not call them “baby mamas” or suggest they had children outside of wedlock. Those are entirely different things, and I would never make such a statement about the Mothers of the Believers. Lastly, I think it would benefit us to remove the stigma we attach to the term “single mother.” From many of the responses I received, I noticed that some of the strongest objections came from people I have previously seen making derogatory remarks about single mothers. Perhaps that underlying bias is influencing how they interpreted my words. Describing someone’s marital or family circumstance is not the same as diminishing their honour. The Mothers of the Believers remain among the most honoured women in the history of Islam, and nothing about their circumstances before marrying the Messenger of Allah ﷺ reduced their virtue or their status in the sight of Allah and should in the sight of believing Muslims.

Single mothers, widows, divorcees, and older women were all among the wives of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. Today, every muslim honour them and we accept them as Ummahāt al-Mu’minīn (Mothers of the Believers). Their marital status before marrying the Messenger of Allah ﷺ did not diminish their honour, reduce their virtue, or make them any less deserving of respect. On the contrary, Allah elevated their ranks, and they remain among the greatest women in Islamic history. As Muslim men today, one of the worst things we can do is speak down on women simply because they are widows, divorcees, single mothers, or older. It is perfectly acceptable to have personal preferences when choosing a spouse. You are not obligated to marry someone you do not desire. But we must be careful not to speak down on or belittle the types of women we do not desire simply because of their marital history or life circumstances. Our preferences should never become an excuse to disrespect any woman.

Men who love breast, may you be blessed financially.