Andrea

long-term relationships really require a lot of forgiveness... don't think that you will have a perfect relationship with someone for 3+ years. we all have flaws and toxic properties, so find someone you can grow up with, open to change, and better off

I saw a video and a girl said "my biggest realization was that both him and I loved him but neither of us loved me". Imma leave it at that.

Jus know if she’s a Taurus, she’s a bad ass bitch 👸

Ngl my whole life has been a lesson of independence and detachment and yet im the most loving and emotional person i know

Why Real Love is Never Peaceful: Fake relationships are peaceful! No fights.. No expectations.. No effort. But True love? It's fights over small things, late-night overthinking, blocked numbers, unsent texts, "let it go" that never actually lets go. You get hurt.. You cry.. You say "I'm done" a hundred times. But you still come back! "Because real love isn't calm. it's messy, emotional, exhausting.. and yet somehow it all feels worth it

In a relationship we beg, we apologize, we unite and we fix things. Don't let social media fool you.

I don’t judge nobody situation. I'm too busy trying to pray through my own.

Sometimes you need your feelings hurt so you can wake the fuvk up and focus on yourself.

Picking and choosing when you wanna show up in the relationship,or parenting. How you love someone, but have no type of consideration for them , or thought to fix it . I am not the fixer all the time.

Everybody wants you to love yourself until you actually do.

This why you don’t ask people for NOTHING but they will through it in your face what you didn’t do for them, it’s sad 😔

I don't mind being corrected or told about myself but don't wait until you mad at me to do it😐

Gaslighting is when they repeatedly cause u to feel crazy & confused. They play the victim by blaming YOU when u address their toxic behavior. They avoid taking responsibility by lying, denying, & making u question your feelings, sanity, & facts. It's manipulation …

I don’t understand how people are ok with themselves knowing they emotionally destroyed someone...

No revenge because I am the love I give… not the love I receive.

When the world tells you to shrink, expand.

Imagine standing up for yourself, and expressing yourself and it turns into your partner resenting you for it 🤯🤯😢

Unfortunately, I am a girl who takes words to heart ! So yes, I remember every little thing you said & it stuck with me, whether it was good or bad !

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sometimes the most dignified thing you can do is let people have their narrative. you know what happened. the right people know what happened. your silence isn’t agreement, it’s just a choice not to burn someone down even when you have every right to.