Anita Dim

When we talk about co-habitation, "Christians" start running their mouths about how it promotes fornication and how it is not expected of believers. The same "Christians" sleeping with each other, who lie everyday, commit fraud, are very wicked, abusers of children and subordinates. When has not co-habiting stopped people from having sex? You haven't told us what you're running from in co-habiting. Sex is not your problem because you're having a lot of it. The reason for co-habiting is simply to experience your partner completely and be naked to each other on all plain. You cannot know anybody well enough until you have lived with them. The question is, why are you afraid of your partner knowing and experiencing you? What is it about you you're worried they will discover? A lady once argued with me that she doesn't like that kind of vulnerability, that they can get married first before discovering all those things and whatever they discover in marriage, they will learn to live with it. I told her God forbid. You can as well just marry a stranger. After co-habiting, you'll be sure about your decisions. Some of you will still see red flags while co-habiting but go ahead to marry because you don't want to appear to waste the other person's time. Then turn around to say "co-habitation does not guarantee successful marriage." It was never meant to guarantee successful marriage. It was to help you know your partner better in deciding whether to progress to marriage or not. If you don't want to co-habit, fine. Leave Christianity out of it. It is not the reason you're not co-habiting when you're having sex all over Lagos and Abuja. How many of your body counts came from co-habiting?

"The New Testament is NOT the word of God' UCC Bishop says we need a 'Third Testament' because the first two are 'problematic,' and contain bad theology. As a result, "we need to pull those pages out"

Nigeria Is Bleeding From Within It is deeply troubling to read recent World Bank reports indicating that, while Nigeria’s Federation Revenue surged to ₦84 trillion in just three years, a staggering 41% —amounting to ₦34.44 trillion —never reached the Federation Account. This sum exceeds the combined ₦34 trillion earmarked for capital projects in the 2024 and 2025 Appropriation Bills, a comparison that underscores the gravity of the situation and signals that something is fundamentally wrong. This is not a mere oversight; it points to institutionalised corruption on a massive scale. In 1994, when the Okigbo Panel reported about $12.4 billion from the Gulf War oil windfall as unaccounted for, Nigerians were outraged and the nation shook with indignation. Today, an even more troubling situation appears to be unfolding, yet it is met with a disquietening silence. We are trapped in a lethal paradox: Earning more as a nation, yet having less to invest in healthcare, education, and infrastructure. From 2025, systemic “deductions” have allowed agencies to capture more resources than entire states and even critical ministries. These leakages explain why countries with fewer resources are out-performing us across key development indices. With such a broken system, how can we fix power, strengthen our schools, build resilient healthcare, or develop critical infrastructure? Nigeria has no business being poor. We must stop these leakages through disciplined, transparent leadership driven by character. It is time to redirect our hijacked resources back to the people and move Nigeria into the league of developed nations. With our collective resolve to change this corruption-infested system, a New Nigeria is POssible. -PO