
Oluwapelumi Adekola
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Oluwapelumi Adekola
@Arabella_OP
Graduate Student|| Personal Blog || Digital Marketer





I’ve been following the conversation around Diary of a Kitchen Lover and her cooking show, and this is a textbook example of why creators need actual crisis management, not emotional defense videos. And I don’t think it’s from hate or jealousy. It is feedback that keeps repeating from different people. When multiple viewers and past participants say the same thing, it’s no longer “people misunderstanding you.” It’s a perception problem that needs to be addressed properly. If I were on her marketing or PR team, here’s what I’d do. 1) I’d stop the defensive response cycle. Every time you come out to explain how much money you’ve spent, or how okay you are with certain views, you lose the room. Because the issue isn’t money or the views. The issue is experience. Once people feel dismissed, anything you say after that sounds condescending, even if you don’t mean it that way. 2) I’d acknowledge the feedback without arguing with it. Not “some people liked it.” Not “others enjoyed it.” Not “you can’t please everyone.” Just a simple, grounded acknowledgment: “I’ve seen the feedback. I hear the concerns around judging, tone, and how participants felt.” You don’t have to agree with everything to acknowledge that people are reacting to something real. 3) I’d immediately review the judging structure. A cooking show lives and dies by credibility. If judges don’t understand food, technique, or critique, the audience checks out. Influencers are not the problem. Unqualified judges are. You can have personalities, but they need to sit alongside actual food experts. Chefs. Culinary professionals. People whose opinions add weight. Otherwise, the show feels unserious. 4) I’d stop centering myself and start centering the participants. When participants come out saying they were treated poorly, the response should never be “this is my platform.” Yes, it’s your platform. But it’s their experience. 5) Probably contact @AdeRichards_ of Rage because no one handles crisis better than Him. I’m just a marketing girlie that likes to see another side of such events and give feedback.
















