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@tigas_ia @agsurtos Mas aí os homens que CONTRAÍRAM o fogão obviamente sabe como eles funcionam.
E tbm comparar uma MULHER com um objeto é totalmente sem noção da sua parte.
Seria melhor se vc estudasse melhor a biologia feminina em vez de falar merda na Internet tentando justificar a sua burrice.
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@AjayRife @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h Omg, cant even undestand without exploding.
Broski, do you know i am talking about a imaginary person, right? I think you thought i was talking about you.
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Just like I didnt say "over and over" but look at your interpretation. It is the words are violence doctrine that attempts to mingle verbal persuasion with the concept of force, which is what you suggested. So how about you go back to school and take your stupid commie gobbledigook back with you?
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Ok, when I said "light touch" do you think I meant finger-banging? No. How about gentle caresses of the shoulder or waist? That's not rape. That at most would be assault. And requesting sex is not rape. That's the distinction that defeats the premise and the distinction that makes rape the horrible act that it is, and why this type of rhetoric waters down and detracts from actual victims. Those people shouldn't be in intimate relationships until they're fully socialized. And for the most part, I suspect they're not in relationships cause the woman would have to be an idiot to pick him, but that's why the distinction is important: If you're a woman who's annoyed by your boyfriend's constant advances, break up. Zero point in complaining to the world just cause you picked an imbecile to be in a relationship with.
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@eosalchipao @agsurtos Bicho sabido demais desse tem que falar pq eu vou passar vergonha
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@Ashlima91028 @agsurtos Não queira falar sobre mortes ou hormônios, vc vai passar vergonha, por enquanto estou só zoando vc, se eu for falar sério, vc vai passar vergonha.
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@AjayRife @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h And i did not say that Words are violence. That is another level of illiteracy.
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Yeah I understand you've imbibed the "words are violence" doctrine but it's a false doctrine and totally anathema to the 1st amendment and all free speech principles, so yeah. I don't "know" that because I've actually investigated that doctrine and its merits and criticisms and have found it to be lacking. If you wanna believe it like some worthless schmuck, be my guest.
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@AjayRife @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h Calm down 😭- i am not saying that u are a rapist or somethin, but it did sound wrong. Im glad you have respect for your girl and that is what a good man does.
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@Ashlima91028 @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h Yeah, and those men that don't care don't deserve a girlfriend! Glad we agree!
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@AjayRife @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h And i dont think you are understanding the point of the post and what i am saying. If you are playing before sex with your girl..that is normal. But touching and pressure when the person clearly does not want..thats rape. Simple.
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My sister in christ. My experience is the common one. What you're describing is some queer fringe bullshit that almost never happens and nobody makes excuses for. It's not pressuring someone to do something harmful or illegal. It's mostly play dynamics in a fun and flirty back and forth where either can be cat or mouse at any given time deemed appropriate by the participants who are in a committed relationship in which sex is an element. This ain't rocket science.
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@AjayRife @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h Calm down, homophobic. All i am saying is that what you said was that what you said was weird. But i think you need to look out for a psychology book. Again, manipulation is a thing.
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@AjayRife @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h Omg..you dont know that forcing is not only about violence. Got it.
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@Ashlima91028 @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h This is where you demonstrate your fundamental misunderstanding of force. There is a distinction between words and actions which you are totally ignoring. We're not talking about sex trafficking victims here.
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@eosalchipao @agsurtos E vc ainda não me mostrou um fato válido sobre mulheres que criam contas oara xingar todos os homens ou até parar pra falar sobre hormônios masculinos. Sei lá né.
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@Ashlima91028 @agsurtos - mulher odiando homem:
"é pq ela é vítima gente 😭".
- homem odiando mulher:
"prendam ele 🤬".
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@eosalchipao @agsurtos Tem a diferença de um homem que abusa, estupra ou sei lá das quantas pra um homem normal. Se vc ficou irritado por causa das mulheres falando desses homens...vish. mas quem sou eu ora julgar né.
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@AjayRife @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h "Giving into pressure because you're annoyed by it is not "force" tho. Rape is forced sex."
That's what u said.
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Pretending that's anything close to the common experience and then attributing it to me like I'm the one who's advocating for it is extremely dishonest. If it's such a common thing, why are women hanging around such losers? Sounds like a self-fulfilling prophecy that could be fixed by women making better partner choices. I never said begging for sex is good.
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@AjayRife @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h Not everything is what it seems.
Many men/women act innocent so the partner gives in. Manipulation is a thing..and the person who is saying that probably had contact with that kind of person. Its not hard to undestand😮💨
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@AjayRife @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h I get that you have a amazing love with your girl, and that is cute! But not everyone have a nice girl/boy, u know? You can tell when someone does not want to do something, but some men or women just dont care.
Like i said, sometimes a person only looks for a hole.
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You mean some men can't take no for an answer? I think it's kinda reasonable to be able to have a rough idea of when sex can be expected, if you're in the kind of relationship where that happens, but men and women also both enjoy spontaneity, so if you actually both enjoy sex with each other, the next time sex happens could be totally improvised. It's usually a more playful back and forth than "not until I say so".
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@AjayRife @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h Oh wow. Ok, so..asking one time is a thing. Repeting over and over so that person gives in is other. Idk what u are on but all i am saying is that if she says no its a no.
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Is asking someone for something force or not? How do you consent without the question being asked? I responded to your original post because you didn't differentiate between asking and making, basically equating making and asking, which is how a psychopath views the purpose of words. Are you a psychopath, or do you wanna make the distinction between suggestion and force?
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@AjayRife @the_amnes1ac @honeythief_h And you said that rape is forced sex. So the girlfriend who is being pressured by having sex is also rape. By asking (many times) or by touching her so she gives in..😊
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I think that's you putting words in my mouth. I said "pressure". You're the one saying "over and over". And I'm gonna take it you meant "pressure" in your last sentence. The way you're framing the dynamic is 100% illogical: the stupid loser dude hat has to beg for sex but somehow is the woman's chosen partner despite him being a stupid horny loser only exists in your imagination. Couples actually tend to love and respect each other, but at the same time, with the scenario as presented, something's gotta give, and asking a man to give up his reasonable sex drive isn't really on the table. You got the dude easing down for the moment, the woman acquiescing, or resisting the advances but trying not to be annoyed by it, or staying annoyed to the point she wants something to change, to varying degrees up to and including separation. The cartoon of the man childishly begging over and over "are we there yet?" style while the woman shoots him down repeatedly with zero interest in ever relinquishing yet still stays in a relationship with him only exists in your head. It's utter nonsense to believe that's the norm or even a common instance, but then again this is Twitter so go on.
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