The Autistic Coach

Most autism support teaches you to survive a world that wasn't built for you. My workshop asks a different question - what happens when you stop fitting yourself to a life that doesn't work, and start building one that does? theautisticcoach.com/newly-diagnose…

A meltdown isn't a tantrum. It's the alarm, not the crash - your nervous system saying your needs went unmet. Learn more at my online seminar on autistic meltdowns, shutdowns & burnout. theautisticcoach.com/autism-educati…

Allyship isn't a feeling. It's a practice. Most advice given to the families of autistic adults doesn't work - because it was never built by autistic people. Autistic-led, for partners, parents, colleagues who want to support us. theautisticcoach.com/allies-autisti…

Most rooms ask you to lead with one identity and leave the rest at the door. This one doesn't. Free monthly circle for autistic trans, nonbinary, and autigender adults - no translating, no picking a lane. theautisticcoach.com/autism-discuss…

You're not bad at relationships. You've just been measured against a script that was never written for you. Join me for a 2-hour virtual seminar on autistic relationships: love languages, boundaries, unmasking with the people closest to you - plus Q&A. theautisticcoach.com/autism-educati…

Peer support coaching from someone who isn’t trying to change you.

Most autism support teaches you to survive a world that wasn't built for you. My workshop asks a different question - what happens when you stop fitting yourself to a life that doesn't work, and start building one that does? theautisticcoach.com/newly-diagnose…

Come connect with others who are experiencing autistic burnout. My free discussion & support group is open to all autistic adults. theautisticcoach.com/autism-discuss…

Not a group for parents of autistic kids. A group for autistic people who ahve kids, doing it without a script anyone wrote for us. Free monthly circle on zoom. Come have a space for you. theautisticcoach.com/autism-discuss…

I don’t believe autistic liberation begins when society accepts us. It begins when autistic people stop seeing ourselves as lifelong self-improvement projects. That’s exactly what industries built around “fixing” us don’t want.

You've spent your career holding space for everyone else. Autistic doctors, nurses, therapists, clergy, coaches - trained to support others, rarely given space to be supported themselves. That's what I'm here for - supporting my peers theautisticcoach.com

We're told our inner lives are either too literal for mysticism or too rigid for faith. Neither's true. Free circle for what autistic spiritual experience actually looks like — whatever tradition, practice, or none, you bring. theautisticcoach.com/autism-discuss…

ABA isn’t just abusive. It’s an industry. An industry built on the assumption that autistic people are products to be improved, corrected and made more acceptable. Our bodies become PE asshole’s business model for printing cash. That should disturb any decent human being.

Masking and religious performance ask for the same thing - look like you belong, don't ask why it's hard. This free circle's for autistic Jews to talk about that overlap without explaining either half of it. We meet 3x a month - come join us. theautisticcoach.com/autism-discuss…

The autistic community talks a lot about boundaries. We talk much less about grief. Every boundary contains grief. The friendship you couldn’t keep. The family who preferred the masked version of you. The career that only loved your productivity. We lose entire futures.

AuDHD brains don't run on neurotypical energy rules - and most advice assumes you're fighting one system, not two. 6 weeks on energy, inertia, masking, and burnout, built by someone who lives it, not someone who read about it. theautisticcoach.com/audhd-group-au…

Most spaces for autistic adults are either overly clinical or a free-for-all of trauma dumping. This one's neither. Free monthly discussion circle. Structured enough that you're never spoken over, open enough that you don't have to perform for it. theautisticcoach.com/autism-discuss…

Autistic people are often told to become more resilient. I’m interested in making our communities less traumatising towards us. One changes the person. The other changes the world for everyone.

A meltdown isn't a tantrum. It's the alarm, not the crash - your nervous system saying your needs went unmet. Learn more at my online seminar on autistic meltdowns, shutdowns & burnout. theautisticcoach.com/autism-educati…

Allyship isn't a feeling. It's a practice. Most advice given to the families of autistic adults doesn't work - because it was never built by autistic people. Autistic-led, for partners, parents, colleagues who want to support us. theautisticcoach.com/allies-autisti…