Androphilos

I love how the lefthand guy has his tie well loose, showing off the symmetrical shape of his Windsor. Given the fact that he's wearing a neatly positioned tieclip, I don't think he started off the day with his tie tight & nonchalantly loosened it later on. I think he loosened it like that, then fitted the clip, looking in the mirror, before he left home. As he's got his arm round his friend's shoulder I guess the friend would like to be shown how to tie a Windsor, but is too shy to ask...

This poor guy. Look, being a man is really simple. Being a gay man is even simpler. Problems arise when men approach life the way a woman needs to approach life. Women have a whole host of things that they need to focus on and worry about. Their bodies and minds are vastly different from the male body and mind. This does not make women weaker or less than, just different. He thinks that "gay dating" is the problem and maybe it is. Modeling homosexual relationships on heterosexual courtship rituals may not be the best for gay men. If we understand how men need to be around other men, be seen by other men and engage with a brotherhood, does the current "model" of gay dating even work? This guy looks close to a breakthrough and perhaps he will realize that he is the problem. All he has to do is be a man. And then he will attract another man.

If you are a gay man and not having a fucking fantastic time with your life, please contact me and I will give you a wonderful pep talk that will change you forever. Or you can stay miserable.

Do you think love is naturally meant to be shared with ONE person, or can it genuinely thrive equally between three people ? 👇