Biatchy

We waited and we are finally here! hugs to all my Army friends 🤗

I can listen to Swim all day! #BTS_ARİRANG #BTS_SWİM

Gosh! scrolling through social media and suddenly wishing I were in Korea right now

Are they still acting?

@therealdwinsss I read all the books

@Bbiatchy Yes seated ako nito since chasing in the wild pa. Better watch po book 1-5 po para pag Book 6 na gets natin lahat bakit ganon sa book 6 ang ending

Went off the grid for a bit because life got swampy. Came back online and instantly got hooked on WilBea.

@therealdwinsss Sobrang kilog and ganda ng GSOT

@Bbiatchy Hello po welcome back this time WilBea tayo Ngayon ✨

Should I fly straight to the Philippines or make a detour somewhere in Asia first?

How’s everyone doing, by the way?

But on a serious note, papers are finally sorted which means I can finally go home, breathe, have a vacation and enjoy the Philippines.

They rejected my resignation last month & instead insisted I go for another promotion, and I got it. 2 promotions in 1 year. Am I happy?
Let’s just say I feel deeply validated. Every ounce of hard work I poured into the last few months decided to show up as this 2nd promotion.

Finally!

Aside from negotiating my December leave, I’m also torn on where to spend Christmas. Samar, Cebu, Davao, or Manila? Since I get bored easily when I’m not in the city, Manila is tempting, but wherever I choose, my parents will go with me. Samar – My entire bloodline, childhood friends, and schoolmates are there which means my liver should be ready for battle (bootle😜) Cebu – My Cebu family and bestest friends are there so expect house parties, beach trips, and zero sleep. Davao – If I want to rest (like actually rest, not pretend-rest), this is the only place where it might be possible. Manila – City lights, city buzz, endless noise, and of course all those trending TikTok restaurants screaming “must try!” My December dilemma!

Trying to negotiate my December leave because,I need to uli to Pinas. I want to hear Christmas songs blasting everywhere I go like a true Filipino holiday experience!

I’ve always admired Ellen Adarna, not just for her looks, but for her confidence and her unwavering sense of self-worth as a woman and a partner. She lives by her own words “You deserve what you tolerate.” And she proved it. The moment she felt even just in her gut that there was something off with Derek, she walked away with her head held high. No drama, just dignity. Also, a reminder for everyone, regardless of gender, financial independence is not optional, it’s essential.When a relationship starts going downhill, you should be able to walk away from the chaos with your pride intact. Not trapped. Not staying out of fear. And definitely not staying because you’re financially dependent on someone else. Stand tall on your own. Love is beautiful, but self-respect and independence? Those are non-negotiable.

So you’d better be honest with me. If I did something that upset you, just say it. Don’t make me guess, I'm not a tarot reader, and I’m definitely not a manghuhula. Clear words solve more problems than silent treatment ever will.

So if I suddenly stop talking or stop responding, don’t be surprised. I’m simply matching the energy. I reached out, I got ignored, and now I’m just returning the favor. The ball always rolls, and right now, it’s sitting perfectly in your court. What you do with it? That’s entirely up to you.

I’ve noticed something about myself, the moment I feel a shift in how someone speaks to me, or the instant I sense I’m no longer needed, I quietly step back. I don’t force myself into spaces where the energy says I’m no longer welcome, elegant exits are my specialty. My instincts? Razor sharp. I can feel when something’s off even if I can’t quite name it yet. And that’s why I always say, honesty isn’t optional. Whether the truth brings calm or chaos, it’s the only thing that keeps misunderstandings from turning into full-blown disasters. Because how can anyone fix a problem they’re not even telling the truth about?

Gosh! I still can’t get over how fast my kilig got cancelled. 
Better luck next time, self!

Fine! Anton and Charlie, go make me kilig! Hahaha! 😂