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“It always seems impossible… until it’s done.”
That line isn’t just motivation.
It’s a pattern.
A thread on how to make an impossible outcome become possible.
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Busayo Ladipo
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Busayo Ladipo
@Bejiwale
Founder @thrivetia & PerformConV | 🗣 Insights on peak performance, communication, and sustainable growth
Katılım Mart 2011
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@Bejiwale This is the point where you need to take a pause and reflect on what's actually happening, then realign.
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You are not always stuck because you need more.
Sometimes you are stuck because your life is not aligned with what you say you want.
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It is hard to focus when your heart is troubled.
Sometimes stepping away is what helps you return with more clarity.
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A lot of people are not ignored because their ideas are weak.
They are ignored because their message is unclear.
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@saint_cosmoss This mindset is the trap that has enslaved a lot of people.
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You see that urge to be in everybody's good books, K!ll it before it k!lls you.
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Busayo Ladipo retweetledi
“It always seems impossible… until it’s done.”
That line isn’t just motivation.
It’s a pattern.
A thread on how to make an impossible outcome become possible.
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@JunaidAltaf092 @MushtaqBilalPhD I think what he is explaining is to "let AI tools generate the structure of the writing while the human behind the tools do the actual writing"
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@MushtaqBilalPhD it's possible to Give more example i can't understand
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Here's a smart way of using AI for academic writing purposes
Ask AI to generate a write-up on a given topic.
Take that write-up and start writing your own sentences based on that.
Along the way, fill in the gaps the AI left, and add citations.
Your text will be 100% human.
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@MushtaqBilalPhD This is very strategic.
There has to be a commesurate human effort to leverage AI tools for academic writing.
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@im_tolumichael Making intentional effort to stand out is the real differentiator
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You’re not bad.
You’re just easy to ignore.
Nothing you say is wrong.
Nothing you do is terrible.
But nothing stands out.
So people scroll.
Not because you lack value.
Because you don’t interrupt anything.
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@olumuyiwaayo I have found the lack of knowing what is possible, understanding where to start, and fear of rejection to be some of the factors holding most prospective applicants back.
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Unpopular opinion: most students start their scholarship search way too late — and with zero strategy.
What's the #1 thing that held YOU back from applying? 👇
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The early understanding of hidden curriculum in grad school is a huge leverage.
Unfortunately, these are not explicitly taught in the classroom and the cost is often quiet but deeply significant.
It shows up in missed opportunities, reduced visibility & unnecessary self-doubt
Dr. Banda Khalifa MD, MPH, MBA@dr_bandak
Graduate school has a curriculum no one formally teaches. The syllabus covers the coursework. The unwritten part shapes the experience. ➤ That curriculum no one teaches is learned quietly, often the hard way. It includes things like: → How to network without sounding transactional ↳ building real professional relationships → How to ask for help early ↳ before small problems become major ones → How to manage ambiguity ↳ when the answers are incomplete and the path is unclear → How to walk rooms with powerful people ↳ speaking with confidence, listening with care, reading the room → How to receive feedback without losing confidence ↳ improving the work without collapsing your sense of self → How to recover from rejection ↳ and still keep showing up ➤ Some students do well in class and still struggle with the environment. Others learn how to do both. ➤ That difference often shapes: → who merely finishes ↳ and who leaves transformed by the process Looking back, many of the lessons that stayed with me were never graded. ➤ They still shaped me the most. 💬 What is one unwritten lesson you learned in graduate school?
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@dr_bandak Thank you for highlighting these so well.
So many grad students are already excellent.
What is often missing is the understanding of the hidden curriculum, access to the right rooms, and how to be part of conversations that shape opportunity rather than limitation.
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Graduate school has a curriculum no one formally teaches.
The syllabus covers the coursework.
The unwritten part shapes the experience.
➤ That curriculum no one teaches is learned quietly, often the hard way.
It includes things like:
→ How to network without sounding transactional
↳ building real professional relationships
→ How to ask for help early
↳ before small problems become major ones
→ How to manage ambiguity
↳ when the answers are incomplete and the path is unclear
→ How to walk rooms with powerful people
↳ speaking with confidence, listening with care, reading the room
→ How to receive feedback without losing confidence
↳ improving the work without collapsing your sense of self
→ How to recover from rejection
↳ and still keep showing up
➤ Some students do well in class and still struggle with the environment.
Others learn how to do both.
➤ That difference often shapes:
→ who merely finishes
↳ and who leaves transformed by the process
Looking back, many of the lessons that stayed with me were never graded.
➤ They still shaped me the most.
💬 What is one unwritten lesson you learned in graduate school?
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The audacity it takes to bet on yourself when everyone around you is playing it safe is genuinely underrated.
Nobody talks about how lonely that part is.
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@WordieWriter Exactly. Ambiguity in communication is counter-productive.
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@Bejiwale Good communication isn't about sounding smart and using bogous language. You really have to be clear enough so that your audience can understand and flow with you.
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Anyone can try to sound impressive.
Good communicators make the effort to be clear enough to be understood.
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I will be speaking at TEDx University of Greater Manchester next Thursday on the topic: “The rooms we build matter more than the seats we take.” This session promises to be insightful as I’ll be sharing perspectives on building spaces that create opportunities and drive lasting impact.
I will explore what it means to move beyond simply occupying positions, and instead focus on shaping environments where others can grow, thrive, and lead.
This event is an opportunity to learn and connect with great minds in various fields. If you’re interested in attending, here is the link to register 👇🏾
eventbrite.co.uk/e/tedx-univers…
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I’ve got one of the most important meetings of my life in about an hour, wish me luck!
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