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Coventry, England Katılım Ekim 2011
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A.Y.O@YusufAsunmogejo·
Hello Lola, I am a Muslim, and our spiritual tradition has a very deep approach to raising children. I want to share some tips from our scholars that will be beneficial to you regardless of your faith. First of all, our theology teaches the concept of Fitrah. This means that every child is born with a pure heart. At six years old, she is not a criminal mastermind. She does not have a wicked soul. If she doesn’t have all these, then what is happening? The truth is that she is just lacking impulse control and testing boundaries. By this, if you look at her as a manipulator, you will fight her. However, if you look at her as a pure soul making mistakes, you will be able to guide her. Secondly, for every problem anyone faces today, it has been solved in history. The only problem is how to locate them. A classical scholar named Al-Ghazali wrote about child psychology over 900 years ago in his famous book “Ihya Ulum al-Din.” In his section on disciplining children, he gave a practical rule I want you to adopt going forward. He advised that parents should never push a child into a corner where they are forced to lie. When you ask a question you already know the answer to, her survival instinct kicks in. She cries and she lies to defend herself because she is scared of you. Stop interrogating her. Just look at her and state the fact. Say, I know you took this, and we are going to return it right now. Again, another scholar and sociologist Ibn Khaldun addressed this exact behavior in his masterpiece titled: “Al-Muqaddimah.” He warned that when a child is raised with harsh punishment, they learn deceit, trickery, and lying to protect themselves. This is why she is covering her tracks and crying to manipulate you. The fear of a harsh reaction is making her a better liar. Lola, do not attach a label to her. Do not ever call her a thief. If you attack her identity instead of her action, she will internalize it and grow into that dark label. Tell her the action is wrong but protect her dignity. Make her return the item. Do not fall for the tears. Hold her hand, walk her back to wherever she took it from, and make her hand it back and apologize. The discomfort of returning a stolen item teaches a much better lesson than beating her will ever do. Finally, I don’t know if you are a Muslim, but never underestimate the power of your own words. In our faith, we believe the prayer of a parent for a child goes straight to God without any barrier. Pray over her. Pray for her heart to be content and for her character to be straight. Keep doing this consistently and the habit will break. Allah knows best.
Lola💎@ComfortLolaa

How do I stop a child from stealing? She’s just 6 years old, but she steals like an expert, covers her tracks perfectly, and denies it with teary eyes so much that you start to feel bad for her and even second-guess yourself as an adult.

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no raga da una parte mi dispiace dall’altra godo perché almeno leclerc ha l’opportunità di salire di più senza cercare di fare un 2v2 ad ogni gara..
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NO LEWIS💔

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Trust Black women *We tried to tell you*
They mad coz the sisters married white men. Chile, yall done called them ugly & masculine their entire lives. Now that they found men that adored them, you mad. Black women do not deserve love & soft life huh? 🤷🏿‍♀️😢 I wish them both happiness! They are loved and adored ❤️🥰
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the Williams sisters are both married! 🥰✨

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ladies and gentlemen, megan thee stallion.
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Mimi the music blogger@mimitheblogger·
Summer Walker called this album Finally Over It for a reason. It tracks the full cycle Pain. Boundaries. Patterns breaking. Real love that feels earned. A proper narrative arc. LETS BREAK IT DOWN!!!
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MS BANKS@MsBanks·
“4C” Music Video OUT NOW! 🤭🪮
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@RealEmirHan Who is this guy at Tony's funeral? I can't remember him... he's not a superhero... I would remember that. Does anyone know?
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Emir Han@RealEmirHan·
Did you know Tom Holland didn’t know this was Tony Stark’s funeral. The directors told him it was a wedding to keep Endgame’s secret safe.
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A student asked me if I was pregnant, nope, I am just fat and bloated. Never wearing a dress to school again. Kids are mean! 😩
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We bet you’ve not experienced such yet; a night filled with stellar vibes, fun and energy! Let @pulseplaygambia grant you the best there is! Introduced is the Speed Friending Night ☺️🔥
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A reflection of the pulse in every smile and play ☺️☺️ Feel the 💓
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Madame Tussauds Hollywood unveils Viola Davis wax figure.
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