HOPE XM📈📊

@HonitelHQ Na why I no fit do that platonic relationship

I have had good female friends, and I still have genuine ones who know how to do friendship. They know how to reciprocate energy, within their capacity, of course. However, from my years of experience with female friendships, I have realized that many of them want to play games with you, which is very unnecessary. Friends are supposed to come through for each other, regardless of gender. But some of you, all you know how to do is take from your male friends. Then you judge the friendship because they were too stressed to check in on you every day. You judge them for the few areas they fall short, ignoring all the times they make sacrifices for you. How do you expect them to always want to talk to you when you are a liability? Every chat ends with a debit alert from their end. They’ll give you free rides to work because you work in the same company or commute along the same route, and it has never, in your life, occurred to you to one day fill their tank as appreciation. They’ll buy you lunch here and there, but not even once has it occurred to you to order something, even if it is a cupcake or banana bread. That your male friend who does nice things for you on your birthday, what nice thing have you done for him on his birthday? I’m not talking about spending 10k when he goes all out for you on yours. Your male friend who doesn’t bother you for anything, but whenever you are in dire need, you run to him and he comes through, has it ever occurred to you to cook a one-litre bowl of rice and send to him as a form of gratitude? Friendship is draining when one person is always the one giving. They may not say it, but it gets to a point where they start seeing you for the leech that you are. I’m beginning to understand why some of you prefer to keep male friends rather than female friends. With women, they’ll cut you off once they notice the pattern. Men will just keep tolerating your behaviour until they mentally clock out of the friendship. By the time you think you want to cut him off, you are the only one left in that friendship. This is largely why a lot of men say there’s no benefit in being friends with women. A lot of you are just self-centered and selfish. I hope you do better.

@Chizitere_xyz What about the men who were emotionally bankrupt too?

The most heartbreaking reality for a good man is realizing he is paying the premium price for a woman who is already emotionally bankrupt. Women will often give their absolute best, most passionate, forgiving, and wildly romantic years to toxic men who treat them terribly. By the time they decide they are ready for a "safe, good man," they have nothing left to give. The good man gets her trauma, her rigid walls, and a massive list of boundaries. He is forced to pay the emotional tab left behind by a man who ate for free.

@Apremunit @0moyeh See how retarded you sound?😭😭😭

@0moyeh they lay with customers they like and give excuses to the ones they don't like.

What do you have to say about sex workers?

@0moyeh She won’t respond

@sheismommy_ @Patiencexx4 She no wan collect her title

Again, sex is done WITH women and not TO them miss. I’m not interested in casual sex but you attaching your coochie to benefits is called prostitution 👏🏾 which is what you described in your original post and not what you’re talking about right now. Mind you, people having casual sex aren’t offering anything to each other apart from sex so stop trying to make it seem like it’s one sided. Your vagina isn’t a commodity to be paid for with “dinner” and other things. If you want to have sex while in a relationship nobody gives a fuck but shaming people for having casual sex by saying “doesn’t even like you enough to buy you dinner” and “unlimited access to your coochie” is you treating it like a market commodity. Hope you understand❤️

Once again Is he the only one participating in the activity? Is sex done TO women or WITH women. Why are you talking about your vagina like it’s a Netflix subscription fgs😭😭

@_elvis_simons Only a Stu pid man ignores the sign

It’s not difficult to know your woman doesn’t rate you. It’s not at all.

@_elvis_simons She knows what she’s doing like madddd

I had it going with her until I saw “I had friends checking up on me” So what?? She could pick her phone to respond to them but she suddenly got paralysed to text you ? If you play the “because I haven’t texted you, you won’t text me” card with me then I definitely won’t text you and might as well call it a quit. She can go days without hearing from you but has a problem with you for reciprocating that? Perhaps you both are not really into each other. A really interested woman would even text you throughout the journey and immediately call you when she reaches her destination. In all stand your grounds bro.

@ayanfenikky Supporting each other online

Ask any lady to call ten friends for a financial favour, you will see that eight will be guys. What exactly do "women" do for each other?🤔

@pamisunhinged @Mystroball2 Person wey d hungry

omo how can you say this to someone that was ALWAYS there when you needed him? you wey de beg for 2k, if to say he don allow hunger kee you, you no go get mouth talk like this

@Dutchess699031 Na the boyfriend wey still d hope on that kind girl I pity

So these girls who came to Abuja for NYSC and didn't find rich man will end up going back home to settle for their serious boyfriends after sleeping with half of Abuja men in the hope of marrying a rich man???

@__DeeeCR7 Ok naw

The D!ck was too good, I knew I'd be stuck

@Ifanyima I’m trynna safeguard my heart

I hate how traumatized everyone is from dating. Like it's actually so sad.

@ehisssss @_BiGDaMMY They’re blind 😂😂

i don’t think there’s any logical reason why anybody's phone should start flashing it's torch because it's ringing.. ARE YOU DEAF???

@smat_kae “Dem no really special like that”

This is even more annoying now that I remember I used to have a female friend back then. Na only for bed the werey dey useful. At first, I feel say na normal thing, since na man dey always spend on woman. But once there’s no reciprocation, na very stupid situation. We’ve gone on a “friendship date” before. I even made artwork for her on her birthday, still credit am join. Then one day I send am my number make she recharge am for me. Her reply was shocking, “shey oti broke dey level ti o le afford data ni?” I laughed and told her, “no be say I no get money, I just wan chop your money today.” This girl boldly said she can never spend money on a guy. She even added, “God no go let you dey situation wey go make you rely on woman.” I just laughed and told her, “I got my message already.” Fast forward to around April last year, after we had sex, she started talking about relationship. Said she can’t continue unless we date. I declined immediately. I told her straight: “if we go into relationship, it’ll be the worst decision you ever made in your life. I’ll not only cheat on you, I’ll also ruin the friendship bond between us. She just kept quiet till she left. Few weeks later, she needed 10k urgently to complete her contribution. I told her I can only borrow her. She agreed. Since she’s a business person, I no really get issue, if she no pay, I go just carry drinks from her shop balance am. Luckily for her, she asked for my account that same night and paid me back immediately. After that, she started distancing herself. But me, I don detach long before that. immediately. After that she started detaching, but me don detach tey tey as she don strip me off the only thing wey she fit offer for the friendsh. Now we just dey view each other’s status. Honestly, some Nigerian girls need to fix up. But at the same time, we guys sef get our own share of the blame. Na we dey make dem feel like one kind angel. Dem no really special like that.

@blackebony28 @fridayyyy11111 @Big_Hope1

Shoutout to all Wizkid fc, drop your handles let’s follow you 1️⃣❤️

@Damilare_59 @lollypeezle Replace her

@lollypeezle A have a question pls. What would you have done in that situation ?

Women sees men’s inconvenience as romance. Weak men allow it.

@TheOnlyKemi @GidiGambino So you’re immature d? Women😭😭😂

@GidiGambino Because anger makes one act out The good thing is that the other person knew how to step That's maturity.

Anytime my husband and I fought, I stopped cooking. I didn’t care if he had eaten or not. I would just make food for myself and leave him to sort himself out. He never argued. He would simply order food or fix something for himself. I’d only resume cooking when I was calm again. Then one month, we had another fight… and as usual, I didn’t cook. The month ended, and he still sent my allowance… Plus the full foodstuff money like he always does. He even sent the money he had promised my dad. I was surprised. I asked him why he would still send food money when I hadn’t been cooking. He simply said, “Because it’s my responsibility.” I felt so ashamed. That was the last time I ever did that. Now, even when I’m upset, I still cook for him. And I’ve noticed something… Most of our quarrels don’t even last anymore. Somehow, we always end up talking things out while eating. Small things like this save marriages.

@Chiefcadence @TheOnlyKemi Real talk

@TheOnlyKemi He ain’t a man. He should’ve left you and replaced you.

@rukky_nate @realmarvea70201 @Benvasant39 Obviously

@realmarvea70201 @Benvasant39 so the post is rhetorical then? 🤷

Saw a video where a girl said the first day she visited her man was the same day she knew she was going to break up with him. she said he was too good at cooking. his food tasted 10x better than hers. she went further to say, she felt threatened because she had nothing to hold over him. now i’m wondering… do all women feel threatened by men who can cook?

@Unique_Blaqq She’s a clown, don’t mind t fuuuu

You are advocating for a friend with a personality more radical than President Tinubu's. A friend of a thief is a thief! Period