Billy💫
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For me to be your friend is 5 million, To know me better is 10 million — lady to guys hovering around her
Your thoughts?
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"I am a man of 35 years old, but today,I feel like a stranger in my own house. I live in a one-room apartment with my wife.
Last year, when my wife gave birth to our first son, my mother and my younger sister moved in to help with "Omugwo" (postpartum care). I was so happy. My mother is a widow; she sacrificed everything to send me to school, so having her around felt like a blessing. But it has been 14 months. They haven't left. Every night, my wife and I sleep on the bed with the baby, while my mother and my 22-year-old sister spread their mat on the floor right next to our bed. We are all breathing the same air in that small room.
I'm frustrated, my mind is burning like fire inside & can't hold this to myself anymore. For one year, I have become a "celibate" man in my own marriage. Anytime I touch my wife at night, she jumps like a snake has bitten her. She will whisper, "Are you mad? Your mother is right there! Your sister is watching!" I got frustrated and did something I now realize might be strange. I went to meet my mother and sister to talk to them "man to man."My mother laughed and said, "My son, don't mind her. I am your mother. I have seen it all. Just do your thing, I will cover my ears. It doesn't bother me." My sister even joked about it, saying she would put on her headphones so she wouldn't hear anything. I was relieved! I went back to my wife and told her the "good news" i explained things to her, i told her mom & my sister says they wouldn't mind and besides they're not kids
Instead of being happy, my wife looked at me with pure disgust. She said, "You went to discuss our private life with your mother? Have you lost your shame?" Now, she won't even let me hold her hand. She has turned her back to me for 3 months straight. She says if I want "action," I should rent a separate house for my mother. But how can I throw my widowed mother out when she has nowhere to go in this Lagos? Is it wrong for a mother to stay with her son? Why is my wife making this look like a crime? My mother says she is comfortable on the floor, so why is my wife the one complaining?
I feel like my wife is using this "shyness" as an excuse because she secretly hates my family and wants them to suffer. Am I supposed to choose between my mother’s comfort and my wife’s "shyness"? this is exactly how women push a man out to another woman yet start complaining! I love my wife and i honestly don't want to cheat on her but the way things are going i might have no choice "
Husband from temu
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BIG SISTER - TO BIG BROTHER
1. What you have done for yourself will keep her more than what you have done for her. Invest in yourself more.
2. You can give her the world, but a little thing from a stranger can make her forget about you and all you've done for years.
3. Build yourself don't build a woman, she will leave you for a man who built himself.
4. Without money, you are not special to any modern-day woman. Invest in your finances, women are unfair to broke men.
5. Mind you, if she loves you, everything is free and if she doesn't love you, everything is monetised.
6. If you cannot change her, at least change her for the sake of your sanity.
7. Being a nice and soft guy doesn't keep a woman.
8. Women forget kindness easily, only a few have a grateful heart.
9. Learn to tell a woman you don't have enough to spare, you are not a bad person.
10. If you prioritise yourself, she will prioritise you.
HeartMattaz
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@Fedrickkkkkk 6yrs of relationships do you mean good or bad for this lady?
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I am forced to believe that not all girls cheat.
I don link tire. I never see anything for my girl phone.
We have been together for 6 years now.
I don’t believe she hasn’t cheated atleast once but I have no proof at all.
SEUÑ@YKoluwaseun9
One time i linked my gf whatapp to my laptop, i saw crazý numbers of guys texting her As a man, Only one thing is certain, They must paste your babe
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@Sanyaa011 Boil water that will do the justice...to all ..then chop off the head and freeze
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@agihomar1 A woman who's into you won't allow you go down.... they're very intentionally motivated by your responsibility...if you're not, just forget it
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@mediaablogg Exactly what I will do as a father ...no matter the age my daughter gets pregnant I will welcome her and train her if her man is irresponsible..
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“If you get pregnant don’t hide and abørt it o” those are the words my dad told me when I was pregnant with my first son. To think that I was hiding it from my dad not know that he was observing me then he gave me money to go for check up so when I got back I told him I had malaria then he insisted on seeing the result and I told him I threw it away cause I didn’t think it was important then he asked for medication I told him I took injëctïon instead. The moment he said those words, I knew that is what I needed to hear then I went to him immediately and kneel to apologize but he didn’t take it too hard he just asked for my husband .” — Lady shares the story about her father’s reaction when he found out about her pregnancy😯🥺
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If you are AA and O+,
Please flex your muscles in the comment section.
You are the PRIZE
HeartMattaz
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@verysweetgirl88 Na lie oo ..this lady is tall oo forget the s. 2
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@RaymondMukazika Hmmmm run for your dear life ,they don knw how to wipe clean 😩😩😫😫
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@Jesii_ca_M Flies /bee don't petch on chemicals...
I believe the white stuff is natural
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