Andrew GOH ✪

Sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us. You never know, so always look optimistic in every situation. Everything happens for a reason.

So be careful where you invest YOUR energy. It’s one of the most valuable things YOU own.

So you have to start asking yourself, “Is this worth what it’s costing me?” Because at the end of the day, you can always earn money back. But the energy you give, the time you spend and the parts of yourself you pour out… those are things you don’t always get back the same way

There are people, places and situations that quietly DRAIN you, leaving you exhausted without understanding why. And then there are those that pour back into you, making you FEEL lighter, inspired, and alive. The truth is, where your energy goes SHAPES the life you experience.

Energy is also a real currency. Not you can count or deposit, but the kind you spend every single day without even noticing. You pay for things with your attention, patience & care. And just like money, you can either invest it wisely or waste it on things that give you nothing

Everybody ISN'T your friend. Just because they hang around you and laugh with you DOESN'T mean they are your friends. People PRETEND we'll. At the end of the day, REAL situations expose fake people, so pay attention.

Your life DOESN’T need to be broadcasted for approval or understanding. Let actions, NOT words, define your story, and let your peace remain untouched by those who cannot stay loyal.

Let others REVEAL themselves while you stay focused on what truly matters. Trust is earned, NOT assumed. If someone plays both sides, it’s a reflection of them, NOT you. Quiet moves and limited talks show strength and wisdom.

Keep your circle small and your words measured. Not everyone deserves your time or your trust. When you move silently, you avoid chaos and prevent others from using your actions against you. Your calm presence can speak louder than arguments, confrontations, or explanations.

Choose being alone OVER fake connections. Peace feels better THAN forced company. You don't have to fit in with people who DON'T match your energy. Real peace is better than being surrounded by people who AREN'T genuine.

May God protect you from eyes that are secretly NOT happy to SEE you win.

You may not control others, but you CHOOSE how much they affect you.

You can't control people, and you CAN'T change who they are. But you can learn to see them clearly. Their patterns, their habits, and their reactions. When you understand this, you STOP taking everything personally. You step back INSTEAD of reacting. You protect your peace.

LIFE GETS LIGHTER when you stop resisting it. The rain will fall. Traffic will be there. People will do what they do. Stress doesn’t change reality — it only disturbs peace. Stop fighting what you can’t control. Start focusing on what you can. And your energy where it matters.

That detail — the silence after you left — is more damning THAN any accusation. Because it confirms the relationship was always TRANSACTIONAL. You were a customer, NEVER a student. Revenue, NEVER a success story they were invested in building.

You're not theorizing. You're not observing from a distance. You PAID. You showed up. You got nothing back EXCEPT a lighter wallet and someone else's growing course revenue.

You didn't leave angry. You didn't post a public callout. You just quietly WALKED AWAY. And nobody came after you. Not a single "Hey, how are you doing?" Not a check-in. Not even a courtesy message. Just SILENCE. Which proved everything WITHOUT you having to say a word.

The person teaching you how to make money… IS making their money teaching you.

If your mentor's main income is teaching people how to make income — what EXACTLY are they teaching you?

The universe removed you from a table where you once belonged, NOT to punish you, but to protect you. Sometimes what FEELS like rejection is actually redirection saving you from harm you couldn’t see, and guiding you towards something healthier, safer, and meant for you.

So please understand that it’s NOT bitterness, it’s boundaries. And sometimes, the kindest thing you can do for someone is to help them move forward, NOT remind them of what they had to leave behind.