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@AniebietChrist3 If you meet a girl below 28 to 35. Marry her instantly if u like her n tame her. U see 18_26 age eeh. Everything dey sup

I was 31. Business was good. She was 24, working in a salon. Met her when I went to barb. Smart girl, but struggling. She told me she dropped out of school because her dad died and her mum couldn’t pay for her and her two younger brothers.I liked her. Not just her face. Her hunger. She wanted more. First I paid her school fees. She went back to school — part time program. ₦280k per semester. I covered 4 semesters. Bought her laptop, paid for data. She called me “my destiny helper.” Then her brothers. One wanted to learn tailoring, the other wanted to write WAEC again. I paid. ₦60k for the machine, ₦45k for the exam runs and lesson. Their mum fell sick once. Hospital bill was ₦190k. I cleared it. No complaint. For her, it was the best life I could give. New apartment — I paid 2 years rent. Monthly allowance: ₦100k. Hair, clothes, iPhone 13. I took her to Ghana for her birthday. Introduced her to my sisters. Told my mum “this is who I want to marry.”I wasn’t doing it for thanks. I thought we were building. I believed if you pour into a woman, she’ll protect your name.Year 3, I traveled for business. 6 weeks in Turkey. We talked every day. Video calls. “I miss you,” “come back soon,” “I’m praying for you.”I came back unannounced. Wanted to surprise her. Got to the apartment 9pm. Her key was in the door. I heard a man’s voice inside. Laughing. I opened it. She was there. Wrapper tied to her chest. With her “course mate.” The same guy she said was “just a friend from school fellowship.” On my bed. My bedsheets. The one I bought from Dubai.She screamed. He ran out wearing only shorts. Didn’t even look at me. She didn’t beg. She just said: “You were gone. I was lonely. You don’t own me because you pay my fees.” That line broke me more than the cheating. I walked out. Left everything. The apartment, the TV, the fridge I bought. Never went back. Blocked her. Told her brothers to forget my number. Their mum called me crying. I didn’t pick up.I checked my account that night. In 3 years I’d spent ₦6.7M on her and her family. Not as investment. As love.

@AweniOnibata He wan use disguise chop u free

Had a heart to heart talk today with an Ex and found out he’s unhappy in his marriage🥵🥵🥵

@AdageorgeA She shud beg him n change d name. If she comes out now,who wil marry her,if she is not married she might die, so to avoid all that, she shud do what he says

Make una help me judge this case, because I believe some men are moving m@d sometimes. You are married to your husband for 15 years  no property, no land anywhere, no major investment. First time, you saved up money as a woman and told your husband, “Let’s go and buy land.” He collected the money, ate it, and apologized. Second time, you didn’t tell him. You went and bought a landed property, registered it in his name, and he went behind your back with his sister and sold the land. You found out, got so angry, yet he didn’t beg. Then lastly, you finally bought land with your children’s name and hid it from him. One day your son mentioned it and your husband found out. Oga is angry and threatened that you’d leave his house. In fact, he has gone to his in-laws three times to report you to them and has threatened to return your bride price. Since he found out, there hasn’t been peace in the home. He told the wife to change the name on the land to his name and she refuse since this incident he hasn’t been at peace. Please, as a woman or as a man, what would you advise this woman to do? I know you are angry yes, I am. Much more angry than you. I am actually short of words with this. What’s the best solution to this?

@ButterBibi And he meant all he said

One time my mom tried to match make me with one guy…. She was really happy cos she thought, yes, my daughter has finally found a rich man. As a good daughter, I met the man and I knew immediately that I can never date him talk less of marrying him. Now, how to convince my mom that I can’t date this man proved abortive. I explained and explained his behavior to my mom, she no gree. She said I’m being stubborn that I should give him a chance. Fast forward to my birthday, my mom came over to celebrate with me and this guy called me. I purposely put it on speaker. That’s when he started spilling gibberish, first he said I’m doing Shakara cos I was still young, once I clock 30, my body will calm down. He also said once he marries me, I will stop working and I will give birth to 6children. That he also noticed that I’m a mummy’s girl, hope I know once I marry him, I won’t be speaking to my mom everytime . When he dropped, my mom used her hand to dial his number and told him that her daughter is not interested. The man begged my mum and dad so much, my mom refused. Even my dad was surprised Anytime I tease her about the matchmaking, she would say, that useless boy wants to stop you from talking to your mother? The marriage can never work😭

@dammiedammie35 That her friend is a good friend.

They proposed to her and she removed her wig and started doing this 👀

@___Nonyelum @a__vanita If Mt mom give u d side eye ee

@a__vanita Just one side eye look is enough for him to keep quiet the first time 😂😂

One ‘Why did you wake me up - 1 slap Two ‘Why did you wake me up - 2 slaps Three ‘Why did you wake me up - 28 slaps

@popple_black @a__vanita 😀🙂😀😀😀😀😀

@a__vanita If you put enough force in that one slap, it’s supposed to do the reset. No need to try again

@pymesTHEplug Wedding. My husband shud collect his certificate n join d wedding

Your husband is graduating with his master’s degree on the same day your sister is getting married. As a woman, where do you show up?

@a__vanita If my mom wake u by that time,it wil b cane for d girls n Broom for d boys cos she wil first ask u if u think she is Ur maid to do chores for u while u sleep til 11am.

That video of that boy tapping his mum crying and saying ‘why did you wake me up’ is pissing me off badly. Are you people sure about this motherhood thing? Because my patience is not built for nonsense at all. My eyes are really deadly and dangerous

@Nazannwa U wil train d girls n spoil d boys. Tomorrow divorce go full everywhere..I like Genz sha. They dint hv time n patience to train Ur dog for u

everyone is calling this gentle parenting meanwhile, there is no parenting here at all. she's raising a rottweiler & it will eventually bite her. also, my problematic opinion is, she wouldn't take it if that child was a girl. ☹️

@oku_yungx Silence

I need a nonchalant response to “I am done with this relationship”.

@a4lasade I appreciated the people who didn't send me money but called to check up steady more. Hard times reveal tru friends.

@a4lasade An intimate friend I hv known for 4 years n counting, called him that I was in d hospital..had a surgery n spent 2wks ..not a single call or text to check up. I didn't even ask him for money..he only saw me after 1 month n sent some money cos he saw i was angry

“ I had a medical emergency last year. Hospital was asking for ₦75,000 before they would proceed. I called my boyfriend of two years first. He said he would sort it. One hour passed. Two hours. I called again “I’m working on it babe.” My friend who I hadn’t spoken to properly in months somehow heard and sent ₦60,000 immediately. No questions. Just “I saw your message, here’s what I have.” My boyfriend eventually sent ₦10,000 at 11pm with the caption “this is all I could do for now.” I was discharged before his money even arrived. We broke up two months later. Some things you cannot unsee.” @ Opeyemi

@eezharhh What if she cooks better. Cleans n makes d things easier n he dosent want all the stress on you? Look at it from another angle

Since I lost my job in October last year, my husband never seemed bothered. He was not even encouraging me to look for another job. Last month I told him that since I'm home full time we should let our help go cause I can do all the house chores and take care of the kids as well. Ever since then he has been sending me links everyday and encouraging me to apply. I asked him why he's interested in me finding a job out of the blue. He says it's because he cares. I don't know if I'm overthinking, but I think my husband doesn't want our help to go back now I look at her differently. I might be wrong but my husband's actions is fueling something inside me. Anonymous

@Kecyy U wil understand while d rich only mingle with d rich.

One of the most painful experience I have ever felt was when I went to Abuja last month I requested uber from my apartment to get food. Trip cost was 2500 naira. Uber guy arrived and decided to branch filling station to buy fuel before heading to destination… He asked for 5k fuel and I was quite surprised he asked for a fuel that small considering his tank was empty empty. I asked him why so and he said country is hard and he was struggling. So I asked the fuel guys to fill up his tank which cost approx 70k. In addition to that I also gave him 50k as a gift. He told me I should always feel free to contact him if I ever need a ride and I asked if he was free next day cos my flight was for 7am. He said sure. Next day he picked me up and dropped me off and to my greatest suprise man asked me to pay double the fare to airport because ‘he picked me up early’ My life flashed twice. I couldn’t believe what I heard. Humans are ungrateful and tbh everyday I am reminded that the major reason some people are far from their blessings is simply because they are unwilling to make sacrifices or just simply pain greedy. Till today I still have that flashback and I get angry over again when I remember it. Not exactly angry because of the money given because I mean I did so with zero expectation and will do so again and again but because it hurts soo much that said young man just lost a beautiful opportunity to know me better and probably get an opportunity to work with me beyond that day. GREED sealed his fate It is well.

@toshine4u Give the wife papers to sign as the new tenant. Accept d payment.

My tenant called me last week from Nigeria that he has relocated to abroad, leaving his wife and children at home in Nigeria. He said he doesn't want to have anything to do with them again and ask me to help him evict his wife from the house and threatened that if i fail to evict his wife He will will SU£ me for adultery cos he is the one who paid for that apartment and i have no right to let them stay there since he is not there anymore Meanwhile, the wife called to renew the rent this morning not knowing that the husband has called me not to accept the renewal I ask her to hold the money and promise to get back to her this evening Pls, I want to know if i can accept the rent renewal from the wife cos i don't want any case.

@ObaDeleke Is she blind or crippled. U go see signs n wonders

You took her out on a 1st date, she refused to order anything, She said give me the money there's no food at home. What is your next move?

@Shola_dlb Can I play Nigeria jaga jaga by Edris

I’m looking for a lady to co-exist with me in my space for one week. The vibe is strictly low pressure.. you do your thing, I do mine, whether that’s work or scrolling on your phone. Your feeding and comfort are fully covered, and your boundaries will be strictly respected. I’m simply looking for a calm female presence around the house for the week. Please DM if interested.

@GloriousGod01 Hmmmmmmmmm

I met this girl three days ago at ShopRite, we talked, vibed well. Everything has been going really well since then until she dropped this... What should I do next?