Blue Eyed Cosplay

I hate that “why masturbate if you’re in a relationship” argument. do you think you have unlimited access to someone’s body and vice-versa? what happens when your partner DOESN’T want to or CAN’T fulfill that need? I swear we’re regressing. I argued about this at like 15!!!

Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in not out.

this whole "should you watch porn in a relationship" discourse could be solved if y'all just realized you're supposed to sit down and set clear boundaries with your partner that you're both comfortable with

Everyone wants to be a pervert until a real pervert shows up, then everyone starts clutching their pearls

just a reminder for all fandoms, but definitely western ones: canon dont mean shit to fandom. doesn't matter if something was never actually going to happen, if a ship isn't and was never canon, whatever this is the space for freaks to do what they want, embrace that, not canon

REJECT DIGITAL ID AT ALL COSTS! REJECT DIGITAL ID AT ALL COSTS! REJECT DIGITAL ID AT ALL COSTS! REJECT DIGITAL ID AT ALL COSTS! REJECT DIGITAL ID AT ALL COSTS! REJECT DIGITAL ID AT ALL COSTS! REJECT DIGITAL ID AT ALL COSTS! REJECT DIGITAL ID AT ALL COSTS! PASS IT ON!!!!!

This is looking more and more to be the case.....

“And suddenly someone will come who will dance with you”

y'all hate ongoing fics so bad but dont realize that your support and love is what makes those authors keep going lol when I was 14 I read a fic that hadnt been updated for 5 years & no one was reading and interacting w anymore & still commented letting the author know I loved it

Reminder that the sex work industry is built on women of color, disabled folks, and the queer community so racism, ableism and homophobia is absolutely abhorrent behavior from any and ALL sex workers.

Stop calling ADHD and autism a trend. Many of us didn’t get diagnosed until adulthood, and finally talking about it isn’t a fad. It’s survival. It’s clarity. And it’s overdue.

hahahahha

I LOVE TRANSGENDER PEOPLE AND PEOPLE OF COLOR AND QUEER PEOPLE AND DISABLED PEOPLE AND AUTISTIC PEOPLE AND MIGRANTS AND BIRTH CONTROL AND ABORTION AND IMMIGRANTS AND HAVING FUN AND BEING KIND TO OTHERS. DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU WOULD WANT DONE TO YOU

and for the lady, perhaps a fucking break

I made a zine about why AI sucks I thought people might enjoy looking at it

porn is important because every crusade against porn is secretly a crusade against every “perverse” thing which inevitably will encompass gays and trans ppl. btw. just in case u didn’t see the fascist writing on the wall

i implore the hot bodacious babes in my life to please refrain from these awful ai trends. i'm starting to go crazy for all the slop and to see some of my favs do them makes me feel insaneeee ill suck a toddy ill clean yer house please please please cease

everyone start thinking like this so we can have some peace

So, just a reminder that OF is not a dating site, and it is extremely creepy to ask to meet me in person. If you do not respect my boundaries, you will be blocked. Idc if you've paid for a subscription or not. There are so many weirdos out there, and it's crazy to me that people don't see how inappropriate it is to ask me where I live or when they can see me in person.

I was a virgin in uni and I knew more sex styles than my sexually active friends. Also, I could describe them very explicitly. This isn’t 1980. Even virgins have access to smut books and corn movies.