certified boogieman

i think i singlehandedly brought Charlene back to Anthony Hamilton’s #1 top song on apple music

Charlene

ugh

@Clitortoise ahhhhhhh what i will say is you can’t tell a person how something you said made them feel isn’t xyz. you may not feel that way, but their feelings are valid.

I hate when people misconstrue something I do or say as disrespect, like I’m very direct with disrespect I wouldn’t even leave no room for you to question it

@abike1999 rug doesn’t make sense unless you take off your shoes and only put clean socks on your rug. if you wear shoes in your house then you might as well let the animal on the rug. However, my cat is not allowed in my bed, ever. i mean ever. i have traumatized that cat so he won’t try.

Pets on furniture. You people are not wiping their feet EVERY TIME they come in from outside. You are not wiping their behinds EVERY TIME they poop or pee. That is all over your bed, couch, rug, etc and it's disgusting.

proud of you keep going

A real apology is remorse followed by silence, space & changed behavior. A real apology is less speaking and more personal work on yourself. A real apology is looking within and addressing what caused you to hurt & disappoint someone you love.

this shit sucks

yall an owl tried to attack my girl Jackie i hope Shadow pulled up gangsta and murked that mf

You guys actually underestimate what the previous generation went through. You can’t even boycott Starbucks but you think you can fight against slavery

Me trying to leave things unsaid:

my mom didn’t raise a quitter, she raised someone so scared of failing that they hesitate to even begin

Lean into the Villain in you. Unless you’re a clinical sociopath, this is the best thing you could do for yourself. Your good side will have your back if you face morally difficult choices. But in general, you need less of that side and more of the evil one. That motherfucker has more grit. You need to stop overthinking everything and follow a rigid moral compass. It either aligns with what you believe in and with your best interests or it’s out of question. This is what creates real tunnel vision. Fuck your plan A and plan B. Those won’t work because they’re too complex. You need to operate on pure instinct and the only way to dial that is simplifying how you operate. The good guy in you wants to please everyone, that’s too many things to consider. You need to focus on yourself and what YOU need. And for that you need to do what others will call selfish, inconsiderate or even evil. You will be painted as the Villain anyway. So be it. Lean into it.

2025 year recap jan - don't remember feb - don't remember mar - don't remember april - don't remember may - don't remember june - don't remember july - don't remember aug - don't remember sept - don't remember oct - don't remember nov - don't remember dec - don't remember

I’m really clocked out emotionally lol

So you think you can hurt me? I’ve stayed alive through nights that ive fucking drowned in my own tears, mornings ive wanted to disappear and ive been betrayed by people I’d die for. The only thing that kept me going was my own raw stubbornness and faith in God. So tell me again, how will you break me?

I’ve learned that when someone is grieving, there’s absolutely nothing anyone can do to make them feel better. All you can do is sit there and listen to them talk. A grieving person doesn’t want to hear “you need to think positive”.. A grieving person just wants their person back and they’ll never be able to get that… So let your grieving friend/family talk about the memories, let them cry, let them laugh, let them feel. It’s the only thing they can do. ❤️‍🩹

@Moonlight_myths You don’t know whether you’re a good person until you see who you are when you’re angry. Love isn’t proven in good times alone. It’s revealed in how you react when you’re upset! how you speak when you’re mad, how you treat people when you’re hurt.

@catrisej @Normani @ciara Now THIS is being a GIRLS GIRL!!!!