Onyebuchi

drop a mistake you’re not proud of but learned from.

So there was this Nigerian lady posting mouth-watering food content. Me, I like food, and honestly, good food is my biggest headache whenever I’m in the UK. I spend like £250 a week for my weekly food supply from Enish. When I saw her page, I thought, “Ah, finally! Someone close to me in London who can cook proper Naija food.” I slid into her DM, we started talking, and somehow we agreed that she’d come over to my place and cook for me. I was genuinely excited, problem solved, right? Out of pure goodwill (she didn’t even ask), I sent her £50 for transport. Just to encourage her. She didn’t acknowledge it, didn’t say thank you, nothing. After a while I called and casually asked if she saw the money I sent. Her reply? “Oh yeah, I saw it. What’s it for?” I said, “it’s for your transport fare.” This babe looked me in the eye (well, through the phone) and said £50 is not enough for her Uber. Meanwhile, from her place to mine is literally £15.50 on the Piccadilly line plus one short bus ride. I was shocked but I calmly asked, “do you take Uber everywhere you go in London?” Because in my head I was trying to understand, is this DJ Cuppy level? As in a Billionaire daughter vibes? Because from everything I’d seen, she didn’t look like it. Her exact words were, “If you can’t afford Uber for me to come, then I’m not coming again.” I just calmly said, “Okay, no problem. Please can you send the £50 back?” and dropped my account details. Two days passed. Nothing. No refund, no message, nada. It wasn’t until I made a random general post (no names, or @ ) just educating people that collecting money from someone with a promise and then disappearing can actually be treated as fraud in the UK, that’s when she flew into my DM cursing me out left and right. She sha finally sent my money back. There are good Nigerian women o but the very entitled ones outnumber the good ones and that’s probably because Nigerian men are simps and the women have been conditioned to see every relationship as transactional. They treat every man approaching them as a cash cow. I am much older now so I can’t simp for any woman. We need to teach our young men never to simp for any woman. It limits your prosperity. Spend that money you are spending on that ungrateful babe on your family members. I have many interesting stories of my escapades with Nigerian women. One day I might write a book😂

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Dating a financially stable lady is a blessing. When she says "I love you" you know it comes from the heart and not an empty stomach