Ariana Christine 🖤

You deserve a calm relationship that's good for your mental health, heart, and nervous system. A lover who's your bestie, your safe space, and soothes your soul during stressful situations. Life is tough enough – you deserve someone who brings you peace, not problems.

you're not needy for asking to talk through conflict. you're not too much for wanting consistent communication. you're not annoying for wanting clarification. you're not overly sensitive for needing to be heard. these are called standards.

for your own sanity, you gotta just let shit be.

If he can go ghost, switch up, and sleep peacefully at night, you can remove yourself from his life and sleep even better. Don’t hand power to inconsistency. If he can detach that easily, you can detach for good. ALWAYS choose yourself babygirl.

Me going back to sleep because there’s still 52 seconds left before my alarm goes off

Girls, stop draining yourselves over a man who turned out to be inconsistent, inconsiderate, and insensitive.

i’ve started appreciating days where nothing dramatic happens. no bad news, no stressful interactions, no overwhelming thoughts. just a normal, quiet day where everything is calm. those are the days that actually feel like rest.

Me as a wife 🩷🤣

I stopped explaining… and everything got quieter.

And just like that… everybody stopped talking about the Epstein Files.

You weren’t “too much”… they were just not enough.

Ending a connection sucks but you know what else sucks? Feeling deeply disappointed in yourself for holding onto someone whose behavior breaks your heart and also humiliated that you still want to “make it work” despite how they treat you. THAT shit sucks. And it hurts. End it.

me ready to crash out because i can still feel the oil on the plastic container after the 5th wash:

This is your reminder to stay in your lane.

How it feels when i talk about something i'm really excited about and they just don't care at all

Maturing is realizing that when you're in a relationship with someone who genuinely wants to grow with you, they will always bring up problems that don't sit right with them to your attention. It isn't a personal attack. It's a healthy sign that they value the relationship and want to make it work. All they are doing is bringing it to your attention to avoid the same mistake, so the relationship doesn't go down the drain.

thinking about when justin bieber told an orchestra exactly what he heard in his head and brought it to life.