Crystal Lancer

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Crystal Lancer

Crystal Lancer

@CPokedude

Young Writer/Youtuber just trying to make his way in the Universe. The Fact he's talking in 3rd Person Probably tells you enough about him.

Katılım Temmuz 2020
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Crystal Lancer
Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@lady_valor_07 How dumb do you have to be to expect a home intruder to announce they have a gun before using it on you?
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LadyValor@lady_valor_07·
Even if an intruder is unarmed, should you still be allowed to shoot them for breaking into your house?..
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Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@ShowanW @thechosenberg It's not name calling, it's pointing at her actions. And again, abandoning her spouse because she didn't get her way over a temporary arrangement is the perfect example of why marriages don't last in the modern day. For better for worse means nothing anymore.
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Showan@ShowanW·
@CPokedude @thechosenberg her life, her choice no matter the name calling, she know who she is and what she wanted. him: hey honey. i know you dont like kids but, im MAKING you sacrifice your mental health, money, way of life, and EVERYTHING else in between for this. me/kids benefit but ur gonna suffer
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rosey🌹@thechosenberg·
You are evil and he is a good man
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Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@ShowanW @thechosenberg Again, he's putting someone else above his own needs, and she's being selfish, full stop. You can repackage it however you want, but that is the core of the matter.
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Showan@ShowanW·
@CPokedude @thechosenberg he admitted that it would be hard. and fully aware that she not only doesnt want kids but also dislikes kids. a build up of mental health issues and more disdain. possibly treating kids like crap. fighting w/him everyday. whatever choice she makes isnt wrong
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Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@ShowanW @thechosenberg Again, the husband doesn't want kids either, but he is putting his own wants aside to help these kids who can't defend themselves. Of course he considered her feelings, he shares those exact feelings, but the needs of the kids outweighed his own desires, so he stepped up.
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Showan@ShowanW·
@CPokedude @thechosenberg she really does have the right to act upon those feelings. did he consider her feelings? ur turning a 2-way street to a one way only. she nor he are wrong for whatever actions that they respectively take. there is no wrong doing from either sides choices. 🤷🏾‍♂️
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Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@ShowanW @thechosenberg Again, there's no issue with how she feels. The issue is how she intends to act upon those feelings, which is to try and weaponize them against her husband to get her way or to run away like a toddler who didn't get their way.
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Showan@ShowanW·
@CPokedude @thechosenberg she is not evil for the way she feels. also, how do you know these kids will suffer? they could literally end up at some super rich folks who wants kids. im not even sayin he is evil nor she. he is entitled to say yes w/o hesitation and she is entitled to anger and leave.
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Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@ShowanW @thechosenberg So what? You'd rather everyone else suffer because she has to put in work if they temporarily live there? That's the definition of being selfish, putting your own wants above everything else no matter what. People like you defending this have made real people think it's okay.
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Showan@ShowanW·
@CPokedude @thechosenberg this isnt about a temporary loss of a job. this is about centering your life around taking care of the lives of kids. and doin it from a place of love.and doin it suddenly. if she stays and puts effort into it, everyone will have gained besides her. she will be the sacrifice.
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Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@ShowanW @thechosenberg But you're defending the idea that she should weaponize her husband's love for her to get her way. That's the end point of this mindset, to put more pressure on him to so he caves. That's why so many marriages fail nowadays, people are too selfish to compromise.
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Showan@ShowanW·
@CPokedude @thechosenberg no child deserves a rough life. i never said that. i said, she also has the right to feel the way that she feels. even if that feelings are possibly divorce. it still doesnt make her evil that is an super epic life changing event.
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Crystal Lancer
Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@ShowanW @thechosenberg Neither factor changes the fact that you seem to think it's okay for these kids to suffer when you wouldn't wish the same upon your own. I'm consistent, no child deserve this. Again, this story is clearly fake, but people like you enable women to act like this in real life.
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Showan@ShowanW·
@CPokedude @thechosenberg now lets entertain this. 1. What if even 1 of those kids is a nut job? 2. What if they lived a “work hard, play hard.” lifestyle? This is just 2 things on the list. 1 mental and 1 monetary. This is a real life altering event for all involved.
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Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@ShowanW @thechosenberg Isn't leaning on your partner for support when things get hard what marriage is about? Like, this story is obviously fake, 95% of Reddit stories are, but it's more believable than most because it's way too common for women to act this way, to demand support and return none.
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Showan@ShowanW·
@CPokedude @thechosenberg it still doesnt make her evil. 1. She stays: He will LEAN heavily on her for support. He/Kids gain from that. She does a great deed but she loses from that. 2. She leaves: She gave up everything she loved. She loses from that. She is jumping on the grenade no matter what…
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Crystal Lancer
Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@ShowanW @thechosenberg Nobody said she can't be upset. People are calling her evil because her mindset is incredibly selfish. Her husband is being selfless putting the needs of innocent kids above his own wants, and she is being selfish by threatening to leave him if he doesn't toss them aside.
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Showan@ShowanW·
@CPokedude @thechosenberg she has a right to her own feelings. it doesnt make her evil. rather she stays or divorces, her life just DRASTICALLY changed and she got zero say in it. she has an absolute right to be ticked.
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Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@ShowanW @thechosenberg So in other words, yes, you are a fucking hypocrite. You acknowledge that no child deserves to be tossed into the foster system like this (you wouldn't want that for your own kids), but jump to defend a woman nuking her marriage unless her husband does that to his nephews.
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Showan@ShowanW·
@CPokedude @thechosenberg my wants isnt an obligation to the respective person…. anyone would want their kids to stays within their family, especially if there is good family members. she still has the right to be ticked. this is a drastic life altering event for her too
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Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
This discrepancy leads to arguments like the one you're seeing unfold in the comments, so while the story itself is fake, it reflects reality quite well.
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Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
Men are raised on the idea that they should put the needs of others above their own, while Women are raised on the opposite, that their needs come above all else. There are obvious exceptions (the marital status of their parents is usually a factor), but nonetheless.
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Crystal Lancer
Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@ShowanW @thechosenberg Quick question; If something were to happen to you and your wife, would you rather: A.) Your sibling in a "childless marriage" break his rule to take care of the kids. B.) Your kids get split up and sent to foster care. If you answered A, you're a fucking hypocrite.
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Showan@ShowanW·
@thechosenberg Im a Father of 3. He married a woman, knowing full well she doesnt want children. She is NOT evil for something that he already knows about her. She does have every right to be ANGRY. She is not evil for that. husband is literally abruptly changing her life too drastically .
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Crystal Lancer@CPokedude·
@SiddharthKG7 There's a difference between "not wanting kids" and "not wanting kids to suffer." These kids do not deserve to be thrown to the wind because their mother is a drunk, full stop. They need somebody to step up, and husband couldn't let them suffer.
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Siddharth's Echelon@SiddharthKG7·
Don’t think anyone who loves kids should marry anyone who does not want kids. At some point, avoid thinking from your loins and get it straight in your relationship. Tell her/him that you want a kid or two or three or more. Whatever it is! If it does not sit right with them, move ahead. Also, there is an immediate repulsion from someone who does not wanna have kids with you. You just have to put it in clear words. See the “magic” of all those sweet talks & nice gestures vanishing after that.
rosey🌹@thechosenberg

You are evil and he is a good man

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