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@Call_Me_Bastian
Ur digital pen friend ✉️ There is nothing we no go hear. Stories, hot takes, human behavior & uncomfortable truths. I will always write with an open mind.



WORLD BANK IS ACTUALLY A FOOLISH INSTITUTION. When you give out loan to countries for certain projects, don’t you carry out audits?

Should men keep their purity also before marriage? A lot of men demand a virgin but live like stray dogs. We want the absolute truth and a clean slate from her, but we refuse to look in the mirror. To be very honest, it is the highest form of discipline. Especially for a man who was previously sexually active.

Co-wives celebrate as they show off the rams gifted by their husband, while praising him for treating them equally and maintaining peace in their home


Listen, I was talking with a friend who recently became successful. During the conversation, he opened my eyes to why some rich men suddenly change their environment and circle. He looked at me and said, “Bro, I need to move.” I asked him why. He replied, “My condition has changed, so my environment must change too.” I still didn’t understand, so I asked again "why?" That was when he stared at me for a few seconds and said something that genuinely unsettled me. “I don’t want to die.” Fear gripped me immediately. I thought maybe my guy had enemies because of his money. But he shook his head and explained. “I’m not paranoid. I’ve simply seen people get hurt because those around them could not handle their sudden success. Some people smile with you until your breakthrough becomes bigger than their comfort.” I stayed quiet. Then he gave me an example I could not ignore. “In school, when you pass from Primary 2 to Primary 3, you don’t return to the same classroom block. You move up to another level entirely.” That was when I started understanding where he was going. My friend continued "Familiarity breeds contempt. Success mixed with familiarity can breed envy and jealousy too.” Then he said something that really stayed in my head. “When people watched your struggles for years, some of them unconsciously become attached to the version of you that was beneath them. The moment you rise too far above that version, discomfort begins.” I asked him, “So your solution is to disappear?” He laughed. “No. My solution is distance. If your old neighbors see you every day, envy may grow naturally. But if you establish yourself in a new environment, people there meet you as you are now, not as who you used to be.” I sat there quietly for a while. Honestly, I was convinced. But I know many people will not be.

“What do you do when you fall out of love with your husband for not providing?” Every man in the world needs to see this. 💀


UNPOPULAR OPINION: Some women stay in abusive relationships because some mothers trained them to accept any rubbish in relationships

"If what you are doing now is being a 'runs girl' to make money, you don't have to stay there. I understand it, I never judge. If you go be a$h*wo, do am well, HOWEVER don't stay there." - Shaffy Bello

Omo how much is nylon??????? God pls 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️

Fast rising game


You people should read o 😆😆😆 They said you should grow with your man , now they’re blaming you for waiting for 5yrs. If you wait less than 5yrs =impatience Wait more than 5yrs =you lack insight 😆

Nothing like support, they provide. Your uncle’s wife a wee drop in the ocean. They foot major bills like school fees,rent and feeding. No matter how you twist it, women are main providers in their homes now. Lazy men aside, the economy isn’t helping so their wives have stepped up. Even your mum won’t cough about it cos she knows she’s meant to cover her husband. You’re just trying to shield your ego.. Only a lower percentage have men as the only providers ..

“If you have a husband that chases you , you are lucky , I left my husband’s house and he did not beg me to come back , I asked him for Rent for the kids and he sent it” - Lady

“Being a sugarbaby can make you a lot of money, but it's almost never going to make you wealthy” — Media Personality Raye



Chidera Eggerue says marriage is “the lowest-paid form of sex work” for women and claims wives are often expected to perform sexual favors for their husbands just to get things done 😳👀 “Women are expected to perform sexual favors for their husbands in order for things to be done…”
