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My dear friends on the TL,there is a quiet strategy many big accounts use daily. I call it "Borrowing Brilliance". I watch small accounts post excellent thoughts every day, yet few borrow this approach. The truth is, your faves are not better than you. In many cases, your posts already carry stronger quality. Want to know how they grew? Pull up a seat. 1/4
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Do you know that a man who was hyperactive sexually but chooses celibacy until marriage is more powerful than a lifelong virgin? Why? Because it requires owning your past, rejecting entitlement, and proving you value discipline and character over convenience. But let me burst your bubble: Most of these men clamouring for virginity before marriage while sleeping around themselves aren't looking for purity. They're looking for inexperienced girls. Easy to control and manipulate. Women who won't compare them or challenge them. So yes: keep your purity before marriage. Not because your religion said so. Not for tradition. But to prove your discipline isn't just a demand you place on someone else but a mirror you refuse to look away from.
Walter 🇳🇬 🇵🇭 🇨🇦@gamerwalt

Should men keep their purity also before marriage? ​A lot of men demand a virgin but live like stray dogs. We want the absolute truth and a clean slate from her, but we refuse to look in the mirror. To be very honest, it is the highest form of discipline. Especially for a man who was previously sexually active.

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A.VICTOR@Lifeof_AG01·
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When I was growing up in Onitsha (n'ime ogbe otu Nkwo), I was surrounded by weed smokers. I got so familiar with the process that I could roll igbo (local weed) and use saliva to seal the wrap. But I never smoked. Do you know why? There are actually two reasons—and they saved my life. Several of my friends and seniors lost their lives at the hands of SARS. Others joined bad gangs and went into robbery. One junior boy lost his life simply because he was smoking when SARS showed up. He ran away, leaving his bike (a "Ladies' Machine," as we called it). When he came back to retrieve it, the police grabbed him and fatally shot him—right in front of his family. He wasn't a thief. So here are the two reasons I never smoked (and probably why I'm on X today): 1. I was a leader in our Block Rosary Center. Not just the Center leader—I was also the Zonal leader, overseeing 30 or more centers in that zone. I didn't want to lead by bad example. From childhood, I've detested ignominy, and I still don't fully know why. 2. This is probably the most important reason: My dad. He would have killed me before I finished one wrap. He beat my younger brother bloody just for hearing that he picked up a cigarette butt and smoked it. So fear of my dad always sent shivers down my spine. He didn't beat us often—maybe once or twice in two years but each beating was so memorable that I can still recite every detail as if it happened yesterday. So all these Gen Z kids with their new parenting guides and schemes of work? Your methods will likely disappoint. What we see in the Western world is already quite disappointing. My dad was a great deterrent. We practically had to beg our mom to punish us for any wrongdoing before our dad got home. Another tip: If you can, get your children registered in a Christian organization. The results these days are mixed, so do that at your own discretion. But no training will ever be like the one you give as a parent. If you find this interesting, share your own upbringing by quoting this post.
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Listen, I was talking with a friend who recently became successful. During the conversation, he opened my eyes to why some rich men suddenly change their environment and circle. He looked at me and said, “Bro, I need to move.” I asked him why. He replied, “My condition has changed, so my environment must change too.” I still didn’t understand, so I asked again "why?" That was when he stared at me for a few seconds and said something that genuinely unsettled me. “I don’t want to die.” Fear gripped me immediately. I thought maybe my guy had enemies because of his money. But he shook his head and explained. “I’m not paranoid. I’ve simply seen people get hurt because those around them could not handle their sudden success. Some people smile with you until your breakthrough becomes bigger than their comfort.” I stayed quiet. Then he gave me an example I could not ignore. “In school, when you pass from Primary 2 to Primary 3, you don’t return to the same classroom block. You move up to another level entirely.” That was when I started understanding where he was going. My friend continued "Familiarity breeds contempt. Success mixed with familiarity can breed envy and jealousy too.” Then he said something that really stayed in my head. “When people watched your struggles for years, some of them unconsciously become attached to the version of you that was beneath them. The moment you rise too far above that version, discomfort begins.” I asked him, “So your solution is to disappear?” He laughed. “No. My solution is distance. If your old neighbors see you every day, envy may grow naturally. But if you establish yourself in a new environment, people there meet you as you are now, not as who you used to be.” I sat there quietly for a while. Honestly, I was convinced. But I know many people will not be.

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Marriage is the oldest human institution, yet in the 21st century we’re still getting it wrong. Some men say cheating is just physical, no emotions attached, so the woman should still feel like she’s “winning.” Others say when a woman cheats, she brings her whole heart into it. But why all the excuses? If marriage is such a favor men do for women, why do men pray for wisdom, and seek God’s guidance to get a woman that is right? Meanwhile, some women turn “provision” into an entitlement checklist. When the man stumbles, they feel justified to cheat or check out. So I ask: Why is something so basic and old still being messed up by both sides? I’m listening✉️
Oku@oku_yungx

“What do you do when you fall out of love with your husband for not providing?” Every man in the world needs to see this. 💀

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Make men be men and make women be women on this app. Is this even hard? Why is their a gender reversal war?
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@ifyumez00 Do you know love is a habit? Most people endure abusive relationships for so long because they've formed a habit of loving nonsense and don't know how to stop loving the long person. It takes a long separation for someone in such a habit to start seeing well.
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The only notable take away from all the sermon she preached is "don't stay there." My question is; Is a$hawo so easy, safe and bankable that every struggling young woman has to consider it as a career to succeed? If the answer is a YES...pls do it with your full chest. But if a$hawo is not any of the above, why do young women choose that as the only way out of poverty?
@𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆@OneJoblessBoy

"If what you are doing now is being a 'runs girl' to make money, you don't have to stay there. I understand it, I never judge. If you go be a$h*wo, do am well, HOWEVER don't stay there." - Shaffy Bello

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I really want to say "their lives their choice but I couldn't vomit the words. Original African games are always stupid to watch. And that is why oyibo man gathered two African slaves and put them inside a cage to fight and entertain them. And that's how we have boxing today.
Destiny Kay Onwe@Destiny_kayonwe

Fast rising game

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Ifybambi
Ifybambi@ifyumez00·
The current economic situation in some places has quietly changed the way some people view marriage,for some, it is no longer mainly about love, companionship, or building a life together, it is becoming more about survival, shared bills, shared rent, shared childcare, shared responsibilities and labor. Some people are not desperate to get married because they are deeply in love,they are exhausted from carrying life alone and are looking for relief in partnership. That is why you now see people rushing relationships, forcing compatibility, tolerating nonsense, or treating potential partners like job applicants instead of human beings. Marriage built only on economic pressure can easily turn into resentment once the excitement fades.
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But how can you be with a man for more than 5 years and you are not married? What kind of course are you studying with him that you haven't graduated and entered marriage? Some women will always want to complicate things.
Talk2veee@talk2veee

You people should read o 😆😆😆 They said you should grow with your man , now they’re blaming you for waiting for 5yrs. If you wait less than 5yrs =impatience Wait more than 5yrs =you lack insight 😆

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Women, Do you take men who flaunt their wealth seriously?
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Why is "sugar baby" even a topic of public discussion in the first place? Has society sunk so low in moral decadence that such shameless matters are now paraded on public platforms? It seems that rubbish is being rewarded, while sensible topics are drowned out by the noise. Frivolity has become the order of the day, and I feel utterly alone in this fight against nonsense. But who is willing to speak out against what actually pays?
YabaLeftOnline@yabaleftonline

“Being a sugarbaby can make you a lot of money, but it's almost never going to make you wealthy” — Media Personality Raye

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Ifybambi@ifyumez00·
Ever since I confronted two of my relatives about their selfishness and entitlement, they became more strategic with it 😂. Now they no longer call only when they need something. First comes the “How are you and the family doing?” phase. Then one week later,BOOM The actual reason for the call finally lands. All i can say is : May God continue to bless and provide for us, because being dependable attracts both genuine love and professional users. 😂
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Men, Never ask a woman to wait for you when you are not ready. The one you ask might leave and marry another man who’s ready. That’s simply a woman in her natural element. The only chance you’d have with her later is if she’s dishonest and shameless, then she might still sleep with you after marrying someone else. You could even end up secretly fathering her children. But you’re a man. Don’t stoop to being a bastard, no matter how much she mistakes your patience for madness.
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Diogenes
Diogenes@Xokalled·
Even if we concede that marriage is sex work, marriage cannot be the lowest paid form of sex work. More women have become millionaires & billionaires from marrying up or divorcing their husbands than they have from being prostitutes. You won’t find a single prostitute on Forbes.
𝓵𝓸𝓷𝓮𝓻𖤐@wyd_loner

Chidera Eggerue says marriage is “the lowest-paid form of sex work” for women and claims wives are often expected to perform sexual favors for their husbands just to get things done 😳👀 “Women are expected to perform sexual favors for their husbands in order for things to be done…”

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