Harrie || a.k.a TheLesbian on twitch 🫶

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thats how you know it's a good joke

fond chuckle as i remember this one breaking containment to general transfem twitter and transfem tumblr

@lunarhorrors no thats So fair i should Not be awake right now its just so got dang hot LMFAO

@CaptainHarrie i would say more but i’m seconds away from falling asleep so just know i fully agree & i think this is so interesting and a valuable discussion to have

thinking abt how ppl claiming avid’s coming out was disruptive & there was no space for him bc they’re so clearly masc-presenting are conveniently overlooking how he’s been being treated by the community for being more visibly/audibly feminine. #muchtothinkabout 🚬

@lunarhorrors such that theyre unable to recognise the closeted transfem experience even when its screaming at them w/ a deeply unsubtle metaphor for an unwanted puberty bc they just dont ever talk to transfems & listen to their stories. weakly.. tiredly.. everyone get more transfeminist now..

@lunarhorrors if i think abt the transfem coding of vavid (deeply compelling writing) i actually get so pissed bc of how overlooked it was, in part bc people didnt want to make their m/m ship complicated, but i honestly think a bigger contributor is how little ppl listen to transfem voices

thread of important clips from avid’s most recent stream! please take the time to watch and listen so you can understand a little more about where he’s coming from instead of jumping to misinformed conclusions 💜 (1/4)

@Anna__Malkova @megiibyte tears up... so cutieful...

Let the good times roll~ #TheFlightSMP

@basketofbrushes Second screenshot is me and this is what I meant by using agab does not tell you anything about the body of the person in question and leads to assumptions that may very well be incorrect

@basketofbrushes I would say it's better to say people who have periods/uteruses than afab depending on what you mean, as not everyone afab has these, & also ppl on estrogenising hrt do experience almost every part of a period aside from the bleeding itself as they undergo the same hormone cycle!

I've said it before but I'll say it again—you should remove agab language from your vocabulary. It is not a more progressive alternative to "(fe)male (bodied)", it is not an adjective, noun, nor an identity, it is a coercive process that happens to everybody at birth

@justdandi_ LOL i read acab as assigned cop at birth sometimes and then the uchiha clan from naruto manifests in my minds eye

@CaptainHarrie Gunna be so real with you, I saw agab and read it as “all guards are bastards”… The Flight has actually brain rotted me 😭

Be specific about what you mean—if you are talking about people who are affected by misogyny, say that (misogynised). If you are talking about the marginalisation of non-cis men, say that (marginalised genders). If you mean people with uteruses, say that. So on and so forth.

Agab is useful terminology but only in the very specific context of discussing how the institution of sexgender is upheld and enforced onto people at birth. It is not very useful outside of that.

I have recently seen some harmful rhetoric surrounding discussions I am centred in. I want to express my concerns surrounding it. This is not to take away from my previous apology. I want to separate the conversations so as not to mud the waters of genuine critique of my actions

Over the past day, I have been fairly criticized for my impulsive decision to respond to OwengeJuiceTV's initial stance on genAI in game development. I want to express my deepest apologies for the rash response and explain my thoughts

@basketofbrushes Of course no worries! Transmisogyny is an insidious thing that often permeates through false progressivism, masquerading as feminism and leveraging genuine grievances with misogyny, it is easy to internalise and repeat these ideas without even realising it.

@CaptainHarrie Honestly its a bit too easy to fall into transmisogyny, thank you so much for screenshotting and spreading these. I definitely myself still have work to do

@Snooboo_ One can only hope that this will be learnt from and that there won't be future incidents!

@Snooboo_ Absolutely, it's unfortunate. I am "lucky" enough to have had brushes with internet popularity since a young age that I had my trial-by-fire pr training while the stakes were low, but anyone can suddenly gain an audience at any time and find themselves ill prepared for it