Jane of PH.
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Jane of PH.
@ChaisofPH
Don't take me seriously. Except when you should. Bitter Feminist.
Port Harcourt, Nigeria Katılım Kasım 2022
55 Takip Edilen102 Takipçiler
@nameisifeoma @margplaydirty Someone on this twitter shared that sibling sexually assaulted her multiple times as kids and when she went to her mom, she called her a liar and a witch. Her and that sibling currently don’t speak. No one knows which straw one will draw from this pool so not a good reason imo.
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Awwwwwn so I should have another kid for companionship? Imagine finding out you were born just because your parents wanted to give their ‘only child’ a sibling 😭😭😭
And I don’t know you so well so I wouldn’t speak to your case but people with many siblings still have life issues that impacted their lives negatively and permanently. There’s also only children who not having siblings doesn’t necessarily have any negative/permanent effect on their lives.
It’s been less and two years but the amount of selflessness I’ve shown to my child is more than enough to last a lifetime and we are only just getting started.
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As someone who had a zero risk pregnancy, no pregnancy symptoms, I went for routine checkup & was told I was having contractions, had my baby in 3 pushes no epidural and even now, he’s such an easy baby to take care of I still WOULD NOT do it again!!!
People make it seem like mothers are saying motherhood is tough because they had a hard pregnancy and it’s simply not true. Hard or easy oh, it’s such a wild experience and that’s why you’d often hear older women say things like they wish they waited till much later to have kids that’s if they even decide to.
It’s the hardship that women before us coined into ‘joys of motherhood’ and experience has made a lot of people realise it.
𝐿𝑢𝑠ℎ//𝑃𝑒𝑟𝑓𝑢𝑚𝑒 𝑃𝑙𝑢𝑔 ❤︎@ms___dale
Really delighted to see more women speak up about motherhood and this whole childbirth thing.
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A known ugly man typing this on the internet is crazy
Olóyè.@Ol0ye
FK is overweight not ugly. If she puts in the time and effort to rebuild her body. Her facial structure will also change to show the beauty her puff puff cheeks are currently hiding.
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Suddenly Nigerian men love Chimamanda. The same bunch that nearly ran mad when she wanted to start breaking kolanuts like a man.
Ridwan Oke@RidwanuLlah
Chimamanda was always right.
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He abused his wife and left his child in the cold to hold his wife hostage. Be serious.
Pepperbody Paulo@bottledpaul
Too bad Odanz didn't live to see this. A casualty of the ten year gender war. Rest on, fallen soldier. Defender of men and all fans whether na standing, ceiling or only.
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I’m old enough to have seen dangotes bum bum here. Plis
Lumi@saintLumy
Nothing can top this on twitter ng ever This is the messiest
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And what makes you think I’m in the same time zone with you?
Aigbedion Onome@AigbedionOnome
@ritaUdominic This woman nor dey sleep?
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The irony of the Ezra fiasco is that it proves feminists right. Men shout “not all men” to the heavens, insisting women make room for the so-called “exceptions.” But when women do hold that space, and those “exceptions” inevitably behave like “all men,” those same men are the first to mock them for believing otherwise.
Crochet Creator🧶@OreAkinde
As a feminist, you’ll meet horrible(abusive) men trying to masquerade, camouflage as progressive men. You will meet men that will try to stain your white. You’d question every interaction you had with them but It’s very important not to internalize their shame.
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@wydysta From a faceless account that probably looks like the ass of a toad.
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@incoming_techy @mao_0k There were women before them and there’ll be women after them. Feminism no dey shift
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@mao_0k Eniola is back sha. Ff'd her new account yesterday
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Like no one is a class captain for feminists and you’re well within your right to not align with their views {ideological factions are not new)
But you CAN NOT DENY they are some of the OG contributors of Digital African feminisms.
Anyone on this app in the early 2010s knows this place was a hellscape. It’s absolutely not a good thing they have been run off the app. It’s a great loss actually.
Woman of undisputed wealth 🪭🪭🤑@Ehneskay_Tim
Some are getting a lot of vitriol now but idc. These 5 women contributed a lot to nigerian online feminism. They were fighting literal demons on this app back then. Dgaf if it was “performative”, at least their public efforts were positive. Ozzy. Kiki. Uloma. Eniola Hu. Mo.
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@Echecrates What are you on about? Who are the real niggas? You? (I fully expect to be blocked, no worry)
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And these were the women you niggas wanted to cancel real niggas for.
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@datcapitano Lmao Someone married that idiot? Truly some niggas no get level
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@jessica_xls And you can prove, with your full government name and chest, that she knew? Be doing careless shit for the dopamine hit of likes o. Ozuo
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P.S. this is not discarding the sex for grades work. The point is she was ignoring (and still is) the depravity. Someone was openly talking about raping women, sleeping with underage girls and his animals.
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Kiki Mordi was doing sex for grades to expose “sexual predator” lecturers in universities meanwhile the chief of them all is her best friend.
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You made a sex video without the babe’s consent and sent it to your friends, why the fuck are you sounding like a victim? Are you twitter boys all mad?
Mayowa A. Balogun@Sweeegu
I went through a lot of pain, personal and career wise due to this. It is what it is. Learned my lessons and rebuilt my life brick by brick. Didn’t run away from my mistakes then, will not run now. I am who I am, I was who I was, I did what I did.
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The feminists of that time fought battles, BATTLES !! In a time when common sense and decency failed us, watching how their efforts built awareness on this app over the years was something. Those were not easy times at all, especially cause they were not as many as we are now.
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You were caught on camera being unkind to a child who was begging you.
Your husband runs a blog that exposes women to daily bullying on this app. You only started co-opting feminism after those same men turned on you and that girl-to-girl thread.
What about feminism do you know?
ỌMỌ́TÁRÁ LAWRENCE@theladymotara
If I speak I’m in trouble
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Raging degenerate misogynists, plus women who intentionally partner with them are piling on her out of not only jealousy but because they’ve been looking for a reason to. They don’t really care about the issue, all they are doing is gloating that someone who was a voice against
Ụlọma@ulxma
I have seen some of the resurfaced tweets. They are dark, disturbing, unacceptable, and the exact kind of behaviour I’ve spoken against for years. Nothing about what has unfolded is trivial or entertaining. It has sat heavily with me. It has made my mouth bitter and my belly ache. I believe in creating safer communities and my stance has not changed. I have always opposed every form of rape culture — in words, in behaviour, in the excuses people make for it. That commitment doesn’t dissolve because someone I know is implicated. If anything, it strengthens my resolve. This period has also been a reminder for me: no friendship, no history, no sentiment outweighs my principles. I do not excuse or defend what I read. I do not align myself with it. I abhor it, I spit on it, I forbid it. My loyalty has always been to my values and that does not shift based on public pressure or private relationships. I will always choose accountability, honesty and growth over silence or defensiveness. And I will continue using my voice against every form of harm whether it be online, offline, in language, or in action.
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@Victoroluwamayo @egi_nupe “Except she”
can’t even speak properly but want to have opinions on shit. Who let all of you in ffs?
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@egi_nupe You people still don't get why she's being dragged.
Everyone knows all these things you stand, except she and the cult she's leading. If it were to be another person, they'd be at the front of the whole issue, dragging the person to speak against his/her friend or relative.
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That you do not speak against your friend, publicly, when others pressure or expect you to, does not make you a bad person or an accomplice to whatever your friend allegedly did or does. It is only a reminder that when we find people who are not our friends in bad or terrible situation, we should at least try to extend grace to them; especially if we acknowledge the fact that they are humans. To err, they say, is human!
Also, it is not your fault that your friend chose to be whoever he chose to be, as long as you play no role in influencing their choices. As you rightly said, your personal values should not be based on the closeness or remoteness of your relationship with others; provided you are true to your values and conscience, do you, the world will adjust.
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