Lisa Charuma

@equityechoes @Shadaya_Knight You are the G.O.A.T

Breaking down this advice: - Trust = Undermined - Respect = Optional - Commitment = Part-time job - Security = Never guaranteed The real relationship equation: Flirtation to "keep options open" + Partner's discovery = ? (Spoiler: The answer isn't "stronger relationship") "The game never stops!!!" Translation: "I'm terrified of genuine vulnerability" What if instead of: - "Abundance mindset" (aka backup plans) - Fear-based relationship strategies - Treating commitment like a prison - Calling insecurity "strategy" We tried: - Actual communication - Genuine security - Building trust - Real emotional maturity The irony is calling this "abundance mindset" when it's actually... scarcity thinking? True abundance is being secure enough not to need constant external validation Maybe the real "game" is growing up? Just a thought

Men, even when in a relationship or married, never stop flirting with other women. It's very crucial to do so, it kills oneitis, you'll always have the abundance mindset. This will even help your relationship as you won't end up suffocating your woman. The game never stops!!!

@ehoneahobed Very true

You want a friend that: - cares for you? - checks up on you? - is there for you in difficult times? - can make sacrifices for your sake? - etc Start by being that friend to someone else and the universe will pay you back in your own coins.

@ehoneahobed @nuux_tv Thank you for believing in me and modeling the role so well 🥺

@CharumaLisa @nuux_tv Best news I came back to see. You are an inspiration even to me. If you were able to go through this and successfully complete, I don't see what should stop me. You deserve to be celebrated for this milestone.

Ebenezer, thus far the Lord has taken us 🙏🙏 It wasn't easy, it was difficult but Jehovah has taken us this far... Special gratitude to people like @ehoneahobed for always being there since Jan 2023, @nuux_tv for answering the silliest questions and many more that I will mention

@ehoneahobed 🥺🥺🥺 thanks for believing in me

Best news I got on my return: @CharumaLisa made me proud and I celebrate her today. If she has done it, I don't know why any one else would say they can't do. Your dreams are valid and you can achieve them. Learn from @CharumaLisa and don't give up. I celebrate you Lisa

@nuux_tv You are not alone Nuux, love how you have taken the right steps towards healing. I admire that courage. Best wishes

🌟𝐁𝐞𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐞: 𝐏𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠: For the first time, I’m opening up about my personal journey—one that has been shaped by both pain and profound healing. Sharing not for sympathy, but to inspire others who might be struggling🔗Link in comment🤝💖

@jbarbier Very true

“FROM NOW ON, accept complete, 100 percent responsibility for everything you are and everything you will ever be. Refuse to make excuses or to blame other people for your problems or shortcomings. Stop complaining about things in your life that you are not happy about. Refuse to criticize other people for anything. You are responsible. If there is something in your life that you don’t like, it is up to you to change it. You are in charge.”

@husamahmud Congratulations 🎊

Look who has finally graduated from the #alx software engineering 12-month program 🎉 I am an ALX graduate. I do hard things. #ALXEgyptianGraduate #ALXGraduate #ALX_SE

@Marwaas88963252 This wasn't easy, congrats 🎊

🎉 Excited to announce that I've officially completed the #ALX_SE Program! After 12 months of dedication and hard work, I'm proud to have earned my certificate. This journey taught me the value of persistence and resilience I do hard things...💜 #alx_africa #ALX_SE

@chela_ruto Congratulations 🎊

Congrats dear self 🎉🎊🎈 Excited to share that I’m officially a software engineer🎉 Thanks for all the support along the way.

@GikonyoMwema @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Thanks so so much

@CharumaLisa @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa

It's officially official 🥺🥺 I came, I saw shege and I conquered. @jbarbier thank u 4 the motivation. @ehoneahobed I'm forever grateful. Thank you @alx_africa for making the dream a reality. To all #c17 peers, congrats, we did it. From c12 to c15 to c17, here we are.

@MGhareieb @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Thanks mo

@CharumaLisa @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Congratulations for you lisa

@ernest_b_shong We did it

We did it!!! 🥳🎉

@TheGREA66381897 @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Thanks ikenna

@CharumaLisa @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Congratulations Dearie 🍾 🥂

@obika_viola @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Thanks Onyinyechi

@CharumaLisa @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Congratulations 👏🏾🎉👏🏾

@KelechiGift12 @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Thanks cc. Thank you

@CharumaLisa @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Congratulations Sis🎉 You made it!❤️

@pcosby50 @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Thanks Cosby

@CharumaLisa @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa You did it again 🎉

@Iam_solomon9ice @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Thanks Kachi

@CharumaLisa @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Congratulations. Cheers 🍻

@MungaSoftwiz @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Thanks so much Munga

@CharumaLisa @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Much congratlations!👏

@theChosenDevop @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa It wasn't at all. Nearly gave up but here we are

@CharumaLisa @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Congrats Lisa. It wasn't easy starting from last year till now. Cheers to us

@marcelinus_ilo @jbarbier @ehoneahobed @alx_africa Thanks soooo much