Oburu James Chinedu
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Oburu James Chinedu
@Chin1James
Always ready for business! Very open to meeting people. A journalist by profession
Abuja, Nigeria Katılım Ocak 2022
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My husband di£d… then his elder brother asked me to have a child for him. When I refused, my mother-in-law told me to either agree or leave the family.
“Four months after I stopped wearing my mourning clothes, my husband’s elder brother called and said he wanted to speak with me. I agreed, but made it clear I wouldn’t return to the village. He said he would come to see me instead, and I accepted.
When he arrived, I wasn’t prepared for what he was about to say. He told me he wanted me to have a child for him. I was shocked and immediately asked why. He explained that he and his wife had been unable to have a child for 17 years, and that he wanted me to bear one for him.
I asked again, “Why me?”
His answer was simple—because he wanted it to be me.
I refused. I told him clearly that I couldn’t do such a thing. No matter how much he pleaded, I stood my ground. I explained that I could not have children for two brothers in the same family. It didn’t feel right to me, and I wasn’t going to agree to it. He became angry and left my house.
That same evening, my mother-in-law called and said she wanted a family meeting. I agreed and went to the village. When I arrived, she didn’t waste time. She asked me directly, almost harshly, “Why did you refuse to have a child for my son?”
I was taken aback. I responded, “Why would I have a child for two brothers in the same family?”
She replied that it was simply because she said so.
When I told her again that I wouldn’t do it, she gave me an ultimatum: either I agree, or I leave the family.
At that moment, I didn’t hesitate. I felt disrespected and pressured into something I could never accept. So I made my decision.
I said, “Fine, I will leave the family.”
Now I’m asking—if you think what I did was wrong, please tell me.
And if you were in my shoes, what would you do…?

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@ellyserwaaa Can't even take one with one child let alone with 3😭😭😭😭
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@PoojaMedia Am surprised your Gabriel is not on the list self 😂😂😂😂😂
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@StatiSense This guy just roasted one man that has been claiming to know it all before @renoomokri please come out for clarification abeg 🙏🙏🙏
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UK 🇬🇧 VS NIGERIA 🇳🇬: IS PETROL MORE AFFORDABLE IN THE UK THAN IN NIGERIA?
Petrol Prices (USD per litre)
🇬🇧 UK — $2.13 (₦2,890 per litre)
🇳🇬 Nigeria — $0.96 (₦1,300 per litre)
Minimum Wage
🇬🇧 UK — £1,953.60/month ($2,656.90/month using £1 = $1.36)
🇳🇬 Nigeria — ₦70,000/month ($51.60/month using $1 = ₦1,357)
Fuel Affordability Relative to Minimum Wage
🇬🇧 UK — 1,247 litres
🇳🇬 Nigeria — 54 litres
Hours Worked to Buy 50 Litres
🇬🇧 UK — 6.2 hours
🇳🇬 Nigeria — 192 hours
While petrol prices were higher in the UK than in Nigeria, UK workers could afford far more litres of fuel relative to their wages compared to Nigerian workers.
Note: Exchange rates used—£1 = $1.36 | $1 = ₦1,357
#Statisense
(UK Government, GlobalPetrolPrices, NLC, CBN, XE)
Instablog9ja@instablog9ja
Petrol Price is three times higher in England than in Nigeria – Nigerian Diplomat, Reno Omokri
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@FabrizioRomano Real Madrid got him on free therefore they have to terminate his contract so he can go for free too I am not happy with this development at all
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🚨 OFFICIAL: Kylian Mbappe’s camp reacts with a statement to AFP on recent criticism.
“Part of the criticisms are based on an overinterpretation of elements related to a recovery period strictly supervised by the club”.
“This is NOT corresponding to the reality of the commitment and the work that Kylian does daily for the good of the team”.

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🚨 The feeling in football circles is that NO ONE will meet Nottingham Forest’s £120m asking price for Elliot Anderson. #MUFC [@hirstclass]

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@realwolog Because you're wearing condoms does not mean you should 4get yourself! Most condoms do tear in intense sexual activity! When using kiss use gently or be ready to change it when it is broken or torn
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@vickybest283 HIV is not a serious sickness, is manageable there are sickness that are not manageable therefore if this is true he just have to visit the hospital within his area and get his retroviral medicine that's all . This is not supposed to be news now
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@Pharmacio001 This is unacceptable abeg there are other modern ways they can show their grievances now I don't support this and I stand to condemn it in totality
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@AgbugbaBk @NC_Okonkwo @benmurraybruce @Ojukwu_Bianca My point is that the husband has already continued in one Nigeria even before he passed away but some people are not happy with the woman's progress as if, if it were they it would be different.
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@Chin1James @NC_Okonkwo @benmurraybruce @Ojukwu_Bianca He even contested for president so what's your point?
Ojukwu fought against oppression and bigotry he hated injustice, he also fought for NDIGBO which Bianca has not been doing since hob nobing with APC.
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Long before Bianca Odumegwu-Ojukwu, @Ojukwu_Bianca became Ambassador, Minister, and now Nigeria's Foreign Affairs Minister, I had the privilege of accompanying her around the world as she represented our country on the global beauty stage. In those years, she was without exaggeration one of the most beautiful women on earth. Also the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria, Miss Intercontinental—a face that carried Nigeria's elegance into every room she entered.
But what I saw then was not just beauty. It was poise. Intelligence. Grace under pressure. The unmistakable presence of a woman destined to serve.
The years have only confirmed it. From her distinguished service as Nigeria's Ambassador to Spain and to Italy, to her tenure as Minister of State for Foreign Affairs, Bianca has carried herself with the same dignity that defined her on the world stage decades ago; except now, the stage is diplomacy, and the audience is the entire international community.
Today, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu has elevated her to Minister of Foreign Affairs. Congratulations, Mr. President, on a truly excellent appointment. Nigeria's foreign policy is in safe, capable, and elegant hands.
And I will say this without hesitation: I believe Bianca Odumegwu-Ojukwu will, in time, become the first elected female governor in Nigeria's history. The trajectory is unmistakable. The country will be the better for it.
To my dear sister Bianca, the world has always looked up to you. Now it must listen to you.

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@Uchennannadi @UNIBENALUMNIHQ @NC_Okonkwo @benmurraybruce @Ojukwu_Bianca Yes now and someone somewhere is against her alignment with the ruling party as if she is his sister he would not support the woman. Please allow the woman to enjoy her appointment in peace please.
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@UNIBENALUMNIHQ @Chin1James @NC_Okonkwo @benmurraybruce @Ojukwu_Bianca Ojukwu was military Administrator of Eastern Nigeria, Head of State of Biafra.
He contested for Senate under NPN. And contested for Presidency of Nigeria...!!!
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@AgbugbaBk @NC_Okonkwo @benmurraybruce @Ojukwu_Bianca Imagine you in as much as we're still in Nigeria the woman is free to represent her people even the husband is proud of her in his grave If you doubt it go and verify 😭😭😭
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@NC_Okonkwo @benmurraybruce @Ojukwu_Bianca The said husband that contested for governor and senator of the country she's serving now ? Abi you no know?
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She has failed her husband, she now believes in what her husband fought against, Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu fought against injustice, oppression, intimidation, harassment, embezzlement, corruption and nepotism in Nigeria as the military governor of Eastern region.
Now his darling wife is working for the government that has all the qualities that her husband fought against, Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu will be crying uncontrollably inside his grave yard.
Saying she will be the first elected female governor in Nigeria is a joke taken too far, Anambra state my darling state is not Bayelsa state, we the people of Anambra state wholeheartedly give her to you people of Bayelsa state to govern you people.
@benmurraybruce use your brain when tweeting most times Sir.
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@Somtolism7 Slap me like this and am fully armed I will send you to your maker is swear!
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@Hassypinky @kogi_xcommunity @EbiraConnect Na only in nigeria that this type of thing used to happen and 99.5% of Nigerians are not righteous then this brings the question begging for an answer . These things are lies .
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