d'spencer ⛵

Hi!! Wanted to share my author website here: dspencerluyao.wixsite.com/site The 1st chapter of my book is there, plus 16 short stories and 2 poems! If u want cool short stories regularly u can put in your email and get notified when I add stuff :) Would love to get my stories out there!

It doesn’t matter if your pronouns are He / Him She / Her They / Them At the end of the day, it’s night!

@duder4nchnurse gender presentation is the same way . whatever you benefit from, in whatever form you benefit from it, it is on this earth for you to be more joyous . there's no shortage of transness or gender nonconformity on earth, so feel free to take some ! best of luck to you 💝🏳️‍⚧️

@duder4nchnurse presentation brings you the most joy and comfort, even if your agab doesn't cause you particular distress. i like to think of it like mobility aids- even if you Can walk without a cane, if you benefit from the use of one, you should feel free to use it ! -

people going “everyone hates their body during puberty!” did you as a child pray to get breast cancer so you could get your chest removed?? did you sit in front of a mirror pulling at your skin when you started developing curves because you just “wanted it to sit right again” ?

@duder4nchnurse you don't need a certain level of discomfort to be allowed to find what feels exactly, perfectly right for you, and that rightness doesn't need a label attached either :)

@duder4nchnurse maybe a haircut or a new wardrobe and then you're set, or maybe something more and you learn something new about yourself, but if you are questioning, never feel like you're just outside of the group of people allowed to do something about it !

god forbid a trans man refers to himself as a passenger princess.. everytime i say it someone is like “erm wouldn’t you be a passenger prince” NO princess is a state of mind let a guy get a little faggy with it

Da LGBT!

@caekiin and im def trying to be careful about not lifting stuff too soon, i forget a little bit though 😭

@caekiin ah yeah ive heard that can happen, im not mega concerned about it bc ive got spine injuries that pinch my nerves weird so i already have some places that are without sensation, so it wouldn't be a completely new feeling lmao

surgery went very well btw!! thank u for all the kind messages i was not expecting that tweet to blow up LOL

Built a trans tree 🏳️‍⚧️

@caekiin anyway thank you and congrats on 18 (ish) months!!

@caekiin feel like its a good preventative measure for dysphoria later on if that makes sense? like i have a more realistic idea of what my transition will probably look like yk

‘I can't think of anything more vile and small and pathetic than terrorizing the smallest, most vulnerable community of people who want nothing from you, except the right to exist’ ~ Pedro Pascal

Spine tie