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Katılım Ekim 2015
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cleansing oil hadalabo and aloevera benton they’re marvelous beneran ngeredain jerawat kecil2 dan ngangkat sebfil
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di sini PANAS BGT bro dan banyak yg blm paham bahan baju yg nyaman dan emg murahan baju polikatun dan crinkle sih daripada katun atau linen😬
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@primawansatrio lagi di tahap sadar dan unlearning. kukira di umur sekarang (23) udh ketuaan haha. deconstruction takes times!! tp gapapa relearning is waiting patiently 😊
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Prima プリマ 🦉@primawansatrio·
Jadi inget dulu sering dimarahin ortu karena ngelakuin kesalahan, terus akhirnya terpaksa bohong biar ga dimarahin. Terus pas ketahuan bohong, ditanyain kenapa kok berani bohong? Aku jawab, “soalnya kalau jujur nanti dimarahin.” Ortu respon, “ya kalau ga mau dimarahin jangan berbuat salah dong.” Sempet bingung gimana caranya ya haha. Akhirnya jadilah pribadi yang risk-averse (menghindari resiko), supaya ga melakukan kesalahan. Atau ya bohongnya mesti lebih jago biar ga ketahuan. Pas udah dewasa (lulus kuliah), tau ga sehat. Akhirnya pelan2 merbaiki pola pikir dan karakter sendiri, dan akhirnya menerapkan pola pengasuhan yang sehat ke anak supaya ga kejadian di anakku. Breaking the cycle 😄
@Ahmaadnajib

Sebenarnya, anak-anak yang "jago bohong" dari strict parents itu sedang mempraktikkan cara bertahan hidup paling dasar. Dalam psikologi, ini adalah mekanisme pertahanan diri yang muncul ketika kejujuran tidak lagi menawarkan rasa aman, melainkan ancaman hukuman. Saat ruang untuk berbuat salah ditutup rapat, otak anak otomatis beralih ke mode survival. Ayo kita bahas:

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When you’re komik strip minggu di harian kompas
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Wanda@wandaxrxn·
Kawan-kawan, ini ada revisi. Silakan mendaftar/merekomendasikan ya. Awalnya mau bikin diskusi kelompok, tapi jadi kelas tematik dengan isu terbatas. Semoga usaha kecil ini bisa jadi ruang aman, belajar dan tumbuh bersama. 📢 BEASISWA KELAS FEMINISME PEMULA #1 (Online) — GRATIS!
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Ody Dwicahyo@odydc·
Alma mater itu artinya "ibu yang memelihara," Berpendidikan di universitas itu sejatinya mengandung penghormatan atas kaum perempuan.
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laura@brewedkidney·
Gue sendiri pun coba reach out ke akun organisasinya, tapi sama sekali gak dibales. Sampe sekarang. Mana habis bikin postingan against sexual assault, wkwk.
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agni@fahkta·
Sebagai orang yg berpengalaman ngeladenin tipe² cowo rape jokes. Laki² kalo ditegur secara privat soal obrolan tongkrongan, yg ada malah lu diketawain terus dibilang emosional/dramatis. Paling bener ya dipublikasi biar penjuru internet tau dan dikasih sanksi sosial.
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常赛@ChangS69585·
你是不是有什么大病?日本女性体型小甚至到了进食障碍边缘,你居然把这个当做“优点”去抨击自己国家体型大点的女性?是日本文化教给你这么厌女的么?我觉得你有空传播什么异域文化不如好好学习一样清理一下体内的厌女症。还有把日本女性看做体型纤细 小巧的存在也是厌女症。日本有6,340万女性,里面有高有矮有胖有瘦,不要随便传播什么恶心的厌女刻板印象。还有我就说了吧,日本狗男人天天传播恶心的文化导致最后吸引过来也是其他国家厌女的狗男人。太恶心了🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Lauren Chen@TheLaurenChen

Today was the Cherry Blossom Festival here in Nashville, which is an annual event that celebrates Japanese culture 🇯🇵🌸 After spending 3 months in Tokyo last year, I was curious to see what a Japanese-inspired event would look like in America. The first thing that I noticed, however, was that other attendees were disproportionately overweight white women. And among the people dressed up for the event, they were almost exclusively obese white women with colorful hair. This struck me as strange, because this is not what the average person in Nashville looks like. Despite being in the south, Nashville is a relatively lean city. I definitely think that the Cherry Blossom Festival itself was attracting a specific type of crowd. And I find that so curious, because these overweight, unkempt women were clearly fans of Japanese culture and esthetics, but they simultaneously couldn't have been further from embodying Japanese beauty. Japanese women tend to be lean, feminine, well-groomed, reserved, and modest. The women at the Festival were basically the complete opposite of that. It seemed like they thought they could just put on a costume and emulate Japanese culture, but what they failed to realize is that Japanese culture is considered so beautiful and desirable because it's disciplined. It's precise. It's intentional. From the looks of it, these are not values that any of these women hold dear. The image of a tattooed, 300 pound woman, with unbrushed hair, spilling out of an anime cosplay outfit is... jarring, to say the least, because it goes against so much of what makes Japanese culture Japanese. It seemed like they believed Japanese culture was beautiful, but didn't understand that that beauty took work and a certain character to achieve. Work they weren't willing to do, and a character they weren't interested in aspiring to. And the fact that this type of woman is so interested in Japan is also strange to me, considering that Japan possesses a lot of the same qualities that these women likely complain about when it comes to America. Japan is an ethnonationalist country with strict immigration. They are tough on crime. They are socially conservative. They value social cohesion and personal responsibility. These qualities are all strengths when it comes to Japan, but these women, once more, all but certainly oppose such practices in America, failing to understand that Japanese success isn't an accident. It's specifically thanks to these policies. In any case, I don't share these thoughts to body shame anyone, but rather to note how, despite their apparent interest in Japanese culture, western liberals are essentially its polar opposite. Esthetically, politically, and socially.

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