👑 Ḓembe

I have a terrible habit of leaving things unsaid for the sake of peace

I'm not sure if I'm depressed. I'm not sad, but I'm not happy either?? Like I seriously just wake up and kind of get through my day because I have to. But I never feel any motivation. I can joke and laugh with people but once I'm alone I don't even know what to feel💯.

Bumile uBomi Msaki.

I don't know who needs to hear this, but start living. The days are flying by, and all you do is work, pay bills, and stress. Enjoy what you can-walks, sunsets, music, laughter. Joy doesn't have to be expensive. You deserve it.

For the record, Trump's decision to halt all foreign aid, no matter how haphazardly enforced, is good for you as an African. The fact that so many African healthcare programs are dependent on USAID funding in the first place, is NOT down to American benevolence. It is in fact, a deliberate US foreign policy decision to make your essential systems dependent on the US government, so that Washington DC gains functional control over the day-to-day running of your country, much like how a drug dealer gives his victim their first dose of heroin for free, knowing that the victim's body will become physiologically dependent on heroin, and they will die without it - which will make them do absolutely anything for the drug dealer. Your African government is currently that heroin addict, and the US government is the drug dealer. In exchange for that hit of healthcare funding and other types of funding which your country does not need to beg an outsider for, but somehow only seems to be able to get from USAID, your government is forced to play whatever economic and geopolitical role asked of it by the world's biggest gangster in Washington DC. Trump is obviously not trying to help you (quite the opposite actually), but his decision IS helping you in spite of himself. So instead of crying about how Trump is condemning HIV positive people to die, maybe ask why the money for antiretrovirals only seems to come from USAID, in the same countries with political appointees who get paid more than even American political appointees. Then ask yourself why a philanthropic donor would watch the people he is donating money to live more lavishly than him, and yet decide to keep giving them more money. He must either be the world's greatest dumbass, or he has another reason for giving them that money. I think it's fair to say that you know which one the US government is.

Day 21

@Joyfield16 @MaDhlomo_ Girl, same! Never

@MaDhlomo_ Nah. Even R50000 can't make me do it 😭😭

We listen, we don’t judge as oomfs?😭

@BonakeleMavuso Right? 😂

Aramex never fails to disappoint 🚮

@Bussai_m @Malatjie_ Nwamitwa side as well, twice a day without fail. "Load reduction"

@Malatjie_ Also at my home village Praktiseer Burgersfort, there's loadshedding twice a day everyday

My grandmother tells me the load shedding never stopped at the village, every morning and evening they experience power cuts.

I thought all couples who get engaged on camera go on the retreat and we get to see their journey. Didn't know the producers choose. Why show a couple's story and engagement and then exclude them going forward? #LoveIsBlind7 #loveisblind

Leo is annoying . He kept telling these women he is undecided and now that Hannah says she could get married he’s buggin out. Grabbing onto pillows, raising his voice, & stomping. He is all over the place #LoveIsBlind

Leo!! My gosh! Why is he mad Hannah chose Nick when he (Leo) was unsure about her #LoveIsBlind

@RasKelis @METROFMSA @FaithMangope @AndileNcube I'm with her

@METROFMSA @FaithMangope @AndileNcube @Dembe_Dee

Part 2 of the Heated!!! @faithmangope and @andilencube argument tonight #SportsNightsAmplified #METROFMTALK

Out. Eating. Taking pictures. Spoiling self.

One day men will understand that women are reciprocators, not initiators. They step AFTER y’all step. You lead, they FOLLOW. Idk how else to explain this but it’s really SO simple.

Why are the hosts interrupting each time talking about “let’s stop it here” NOOOO LET THEM READ EACH OTHER !!!! #LoveIsBlindUK

I need God to come down and speak to me in person, I don't see or understand the signs he's sending