DERA.YOU
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Picky about who i go out with because i make a man look 10x richer just by standing next to him” — Lady reveals So na true say na the kain girl wey you dey with people go use sabi your standard 👀
If you’ve dated an anxious person, you’d know this is funny cos yea, Avoidants are bad but you see anxious people, they’re worse. Avoidants control themselves when they get triggered, anxious people try to control you, it’s crazy. You could be going through it at work and an anxious person would hit you with “so you’ve forgotten me Abi”. They don’t know how to communicate, so they accuse.. “You didn’t call me today” “You’re not taking me seriously” “You’re making me feel like I’m disturbing you” all so you’ll apologize, they’d get that dopamine hit to signal “I’m not being abandoned” and life’s great again for them. It’s crazy cl
