Dami A. Adeniyi

@thetobiadeosun_ Yes my baby!

@DforDami Love it for youuu😊

I heard it in my 20's and I quietly obeyed.

February was beautiful!🥰

@0x9nn No😭

@DforDami No way you haven’t seen it since.

How come no one told me about Breaking Bad all these years?

@Isaiah_at It's really good!

@DforDami The best series ever! It's never too late to be happy bro 😂

The safest way to travel is by plane. Do you know why? Because they crash. A few months ago, I learned a concept called Black Box Thinking which is a system that defines how entire industries respond to failure. In aviation, when a plane crashes, they don't just look for who to blame. They find a device called a Black Box, retrieve the data, and then ask what went wrong with the system. And there is a reason for this. To explain this, there is a famous story of a crash involving an Asian airline years ago. When investigators listened to the recording from the black box, they found the engine didn't just fail on its own, the junior pilot actually noticed a mistake. But because of a cultural hierarchy in Asia that demanded absolute respect for elders, he didn't question his senior pilot. Instead, he hinted and spoke softly and the plane crashed. That tragedy changed aviation safety forever. It moved the focus from "Who made the mistake?" to "Why did the system allow this mistake?" As we stand on the 29th of December, looking back at 2025, I want you to adopt this strategy of Black Box Thinking. Most of us look at our failures this year and feel shame. We hide the crash, and blame the economy, government, or something that does not exist. But Black Box thinking demands a harder question: "How did I contribute to this problem?" Did I stay silent when I should have spoken up? Did I rely on motivation instead of a system? Did I ignore the data because of my ego? Don't bury your failures of 2025. Open the box and analyze it. Because that is the only way to fly safer in 2026.

@Ola_Dinero Yes!

@DforDami Dammy!

@olajumokelight My baby 😂😂

@DforDami Fell on on my knees in Egbeda Local Government 😍😍😍❤️

The year is about to end....again.

After a quick review of my finances, everyone is going to have to be happy with a forehead kiss for Christmas

@XivTroy This was beautifully written. Such a paradoxical life.

Man, I don't have much to say lately. It's a chaotic world. The poor marry, so do the rich. Some die, some are born. I ate meat, I ate veggies. I lost my job, but I got another. And I love it in nature, man. The ocean, the trees: they do something to me, man. And when I am running, the wind feels like therapy in my face. I also concluded that I have no type, no mechanical standards with people: everybody is an experience. A book I unravel. There are times I wished the novel would go on forever, but I guess I am no life's author: I am only a reader. I can only exist in the moment. Not focus too much on the ending. There are women I thought I would marry, man. And I loved holding their hands, kissing their foreheads. But I guess it was never meant to be. And it is sad, but it's life, man. That's the joy of it. To feel with abandon. Then heal just as resolutely. I used to believe I was entirely good. But I got blocked for the first time this year, so I guess I can't be all that. When I tell my stories, I am an angel and rainbow, but I must have hurt people in my past, and I guess I am a little heartbroken by it. I wanted to be perfect. And I always meant well but intentions never count when we hurt people, do they? And I want to live with the rules, man. But they are so exhausting. Do this, and do that and they still don't guarantee shit. Because after all of it, I am still going to die. You could do everything right, and still lose. And that's just how it is. That's just how it is. So I guess my only rule is living for now. I will be more pessimistic when I give up. But I have hope still. I see myself with a nice house somewhere with a lot of trees, man. Someone I will wake up to and call "baby". I mean it's stupid when you think it up, but what's the alternative, man? Wake up to a fucking cactus in a pot in my 40s?! Call a cat "honey"? And my friends look at me and say,"you are too white, brother". Too romantic for life. But I am not the one chasing emptiness with gin. Night after night with nothing to show for it, except bland tales about the pretty girl at the bar, and the big boys that spend cash like it's water. Knowing everything about everyone except ourselves. Chasing everything but us, man. Living vicariously through others, delegating our existence to another. Like a man who has love at home, but won't stop lamenting doomed love. Parroting hell for relevance until he becomes the statistic he spoke into life. And why must it always be investment. Can't even spend my money in peace. Everybody is preaching and the gospel is all stacking it up. But I saw a local dude in some torn shorts, with his wife and kids in Lamu, laughing to their last teeth by the beach. I mean it's not much, and it could be better. But it's not nothing. Right? We are not going to be dollar millionaires, and I guess that's fine, man. We don't have to be to live life. Most of us won't. But we can still be loved. We can still eat and drink. And that's what they call living, man. So I don't want to talk about the latest cars and flashiest watches. I will settle for the occasional laughter God sends my way. Until I have lost the light in me, then I will join you. But for now, I want to live. I want to wake up with some excitement. I want to exercise, man. I want to dream. I can't be mechanical about it. I am not a car. Just another dude, who a million years from now won't mean shit. But I've got to live. I've got to live.

Everywhere I turn, billing awaits. God abeg🤣🤣🤣🤣

i'm a type C girl... - i can deep clean the whole house. or ignore a laundry pile for days. - i can give a motivational pep talk, or need one myself. - i can be 20 mins early or walk in 20 mins late. - i can go to bed at 8pm, or scroll reels until the sun comes up.

I think I've now come to terms with the fact that getting 0 or 10 hours sleep means nothing to my eye bags. They just wanna be sat there anyway

Boys over Flowers OSTs>>>>>>>

November, you dey go nauu!

@TheMartinsIsaac I wouldn't say i found it boring, but I also found the excessive splay of emotions super annoying. Them just dey cry dey go. It's just a game fgs!🤣🤣

Yes, all the characters in squid game have been overtly emotional and uninteresting. Terribly boring show tbh. Hardly a deserved winner lmao.

Haven't looked back since

4 years a graduate!! Defo due for a Master's.