Bolatito

I MUST get back to reading novels, I'm slowly losing my vocabulary…….

Truth is, Family Background defines alot about someone’s future

@adesina_adepoju Are you my lost family member?

With this new law, na to go rest for Koinonia, hallelujah challenge and NSPD.

The concept of being a black woman living in a predominantly black country but choosing a white sperm donor so you can have a mixed race child. Can’t tell if it’s mental illness, colorism, low racial self esteem or all 3.

This money worshipping behavior in Nigeria is disgusting

Nigerian men swore women don’t provide, but if many married women should come out like franks wife, you’ll realize women lift the heavy load in most marriages.

I am buying - a KG of gas for 1,400 - a crate of egg for 6,000 - a bag of cement for 12,000 - a litre of fuel for 1,400 But I am supposed to believe Bola Tinubu is working & all I have to do is suffer in silence? Please, get your PVC. He needs to go!!

God please don’t stop giving me money. I love being able to fund my own enjoyment like crazyyyyy! Up the feminist ancestors!!!!😭🤍🤍

To the hiring managers and employers who gave us a chance when we had zero experience, THANK YOU

If nah Nigerians Egyptians enslave for Bible them go find way adapt to the slavery.

You think I'm happy living abroad? I have a family I grew up with, whom I love with all of my heart - and the reality keeps dawning on me, on how many times I will see them before I one day turn 60. People I saw daily, or once a month - I haven't seen in years, and would realistically only see once a year, going forward. You think I'm happy? That one day, I might end up having children and my siblings might not have the relationship with them - the relationship I had with my uncles, in my formative years? I remember clearly how they would take us to MrBiggs every Sunday - I am currently reliving the flavour from that meatpie. How we would go to the family house in Ikeja, every year for Eid. The grandchildren uniforms, the snacks while watching your uncles slaughter rams. You think I'm happy that I might one day lead a family of children who might not know their version of that? WTF will I be doing in another man's land, if I did everything they asked me to do from childhood (face your studies, be exceptional, stay away from crime, be hardworking) and opportunities lined up for me to be the best I could, in my motherland? WTF will I be doing here? Why will I condescend myself to living in a clime where I have to mentally switch from sun burning weather to teeth clenching winter - when I came from a land where I never needed gloves? You think I'm happy? If I could do honest work, be on my way home and not have to bother about the risk of getting shot by the people meant to protect me, because I have some lines of tattoos on my body - you think I would leave? If I could trust a justice system to defend me, ensure my rights even though I am a nobody - have trustworthy institutions banking on the highest standards, not have to worry about the bread I eat, the fake drinks from the club or streets, the fake drugs - you think I would leave? Don't get me wrong. I am grateful for the opportunities this clime has given me, to test my limits - to be everything I thought I could be. But all of these, in replacement for the soul I grew up with? You know the satisfaction that settled within me when I could wake up on a Saturday morning, stroll to the Iya wanke's place - relish an entire plate, or some ewa agonyin while watching children battle it out, in a 5 v 5 across the streets. That communal living that relished my soul, is now replaced with silent streets and finely divided sealed terraces. You walk through the city centres in the evenings - you see friends having an aperitif (they do so every evening), you see grandfathers meeting up with their children, you see entire families with extended families living across the streets, first cousins are even able to use the same gym and you remember what that looked like for you back home? You think of all your friends scattered across continents, some you might never get to hug again. For a lot of diasporans, you don't want Nigeria to work more than us. A lot of us want to come home, but what is home? Where is home? When will home feel like home? I hope to continue living life without lack, in comfort, with accomplished dreams - but I want to do so, with soul. When I die one day, I want to do so - with soul.

until it happens to you, you will think you are very careful, very responsible, very smart, very religious, very mature, very private, very etc.

Bro we used to buy cars for 2 Million naira, now that’s the amount we are paying to get a phone. 💔 All these happened in less than 4 years because of one selfish man. 😡😤

Society is in shambles because we’ve really allowed money to take precedence over character, principles and values.

Only having one child and it’s a girl? That’s so chic to me.

Am I the only one who hopes birth rates continue to decline Especially in Nigeria

I used to have this mental illness where l thought logical arguments would change someone's mind

I withdraw every negative statement i have made about my future, and I speak favor and purpose over my life, in Jesus name, Amen!

ChatGPT really needs to learn how to end a conversation .

The audacity to even ask for a second tenure! Blood sucking demons!