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@meutiafaradilla Gue jarang liat cowok2 speak up tentang ini bahkan gak pernah liat mereka speak up, yg paling sering gue liat yg speak up malah kaum cewek itu sendiri, padahal dlm konteks ini cowok2 lho yg dilecehin, cowok2 tuh suka kali ya digituin makanya gak pernah keliatan speak up 🫤
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Dikira perempuan-perempuan yg protes soal KS di grup chat mahasiswa FH UI (dan point out soal obrolan tongkrongan laki-laki) nggak protes apa kalau sesama perempuan ngomong "rahim anget" atau "pepek berkedut"? Sama jijik dan tau bahwa itu pelecehan kali.
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@Due_For_Therapy @yaudahjawa Generalisasi ajaa soalnya gaada laki2 yang mau nyiptain ruang aman, kemarin aja ada di FHUI ternyata dia termasuk di GC laknat itu 🙄🙏 terus yg laki2 lain sibuk bilang jgn generalisasi buat nutupin diri sendiri 🙄🙏 YES all men
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MARRIAGE (GENERALLY) DOESN'T BENEFIT WOMEN
If it did, it wouldn't be encouraged! In fact, look at your mother. Do you think she might have been happier if she hadn't married your father?! This ancient idea that we need a "provider" to live a good life is just that - ancient, antiquated, and quite frankly, untrue. Let it go and live life on your terms instead.
Yves ౨ৎ@yvessirae
Unpopular opinion about marriage that would get you in this position???
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@drearystar_ @yaudahjawa well, I'd say generalization is not important to the discourse, because it adds nothing to the conversation and drives actual people who care away, but go off I guess.
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@Due_For_Therapy @yaudahjawa Ya klo ngerti lu gak akan bilang itu gender war, yg bikin ga produktif itu ya orang2 kayak lo yang sibuk debatin hal ga penting geser gawang alias THAT IS NOT THE POINT YOU DUMBASS
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@yamato46_ @Askalani_mgd sebenernya ini sangat tidak mungkin diterapkan, soalnya ga semua kekerasan seksual bisa terbukti. kalo prinsip ini dilakukan semua kekerasan seksual yang tidak terbukti (note that tidak terbukti belum tentu tidak terjadi) bakal jadi bumerang buat si pelapor.
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@Askalani_mgd Jangan pernah harap penuduh palsu apalagi kalau ia cewek, bakal diberi hukuman. Yang ada malah si penuduh tu didukung dan yang seharusnya korban, apalagi jika ia cowok, akan terus ditindas.
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Si penuduh harusnya diberikan hukuman, karena memberi kesaksian palsu.
Pentingnya percaya barang bukti, bukan percaya perasaan atau individu belaka.
Ricky@ayammcdd
⚠️TW demi allah gue gemeter banget tiba2 diteriakin mba mba di tj kalau gue ngelecehin dia, padahal gue ga ngapa ngapain. posisi gue berdiri dengan tangan di handle grip dan tangan satunya megang hp. tj nya bener bener full. posisi juga gue di belakang bukan depan
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@drearystar_ @yaudahjawa ngerti, but then what's the urgency to generalized one gender? emang ga bisa shaming sexual harassment tanpa generalisasi? emang kalo shaming sambil generalisasi satu gender bakal jadi lebih produktif? so what's the urgency?
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@Due_For_Therapy @yaudahjawa Ya iya emg exist di both gender tp masa lu ga ngerti sih kalo kuantitas casenya berat di satu gender
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@buruburu012 @Kaito_Da_Wolf well I could also just say that flying spaghetti monster made it so and you have no way to disprove it 🤷♂️
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@Due_For_Therapy @Kaito_Da_Wolf is that so
see
you don't even sure yourself
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It wasn't "developed by coincidence" it evolved
Take a biology class
Trad West@trad_west_
God is real. Jesus Christ is God.
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@buruburu012 @Kaito_Da_Wolf no what I mean is, there's a bazillion planets that don't have consistent orbits, or is too close to their respective star.
so if there's one out of a bazillion actually support life, it is possible that it's just coincidence
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@Due_For_Therapy @Kaito_Da_Wolf so do you mean there are other life forces beside earth?
where's the proof of that
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@buruburu012 @Kaito_Da_Wolf there's bazilions of cases in the universe where this happened, so yeah just a coincidence
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@Kaito_Da_Wolf well I want to join this topic
but I'm Muslim so
God is real. Allah is God.
let's say to be easy
astronomy
why the orbits keep going that way
if the orbits off it will be disaster
and if Earth get too close to Sun we get burned
if too far we will be frozen
coincidence isn't it
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@baseconvo if you got money, konsul ke bedah plastik, mereka jahitannya lebih halus, for a price ofc
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💙 tw // luka, jahitan
guys adikku habis kecelakaan dan dahinya harus di jahit. aku gak tega banget kira2 bekasnya bisa ilang ngga ya? atau ada salep yang bisa menyamarkan bekas luka boleh spill? dia baru 14 y.o (aku takut dia insecure
sama keadaannya setelah ini
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@Imas_uni disini dokter internship punya jatah sakit 4 hari(Itupun kalo disetujui wahana), kalo lebih internshipnya terancam extend. dengan "bantuan hidup" 3 juta sebulan harus siap ditempatkan dimana saja tanpa jaminan transportasi dan akomodasi.
Ahh indahnya menjadi WNI 🥹
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Lu tau gak,
Surat dokter tuh surat sakti di Jerman
Kita punya hak 6 Minggu pertahun cuti sakit berbayar, selagi ente ada surat dokter, prusahaan gak bakal bisa ngapa2in
Tesla d Jerman juga Ampe tepok jidat, 😂 mreka pusing krywan d Jerman byk ijin sakit, sampe direktur nya nyamperin rumah kryawan apa bneran sakit apa gak 😂
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Take it with a grain of salt retweetledi
@iseeuliars tend to highlight the symptoms that aligned with the illness that they read, and dismiss the symptoms that doesn't align with them.
that's why it's sometimes frustrating to deal with
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@iseeuliars hhhh, there has been a commonly known thing between all of the medical students, they tend to "feel" like they have the symptoms of the illness they learn about.
for the same reason, patient who looks up an illness(not necessarily what they have)
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“It’s so annoying when my patients know stuff! How am I supposed to feed my need to feel superior—which was my entire motivation for going into medicine—if they don’t play ignorant and coddle my ego?”
Jonathan@jabberwock951
I'm not gonna lie, it is frustrating when you ask a patient what's wrong and they just give you a diagnosis. Like "I have a chest infection". OK, you're probably right but I need to know your symptoms to see if I agree with that diagnosis. I can't just take your word for it.
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@ragebaitea @whitelioonn @flofloret plenty, but most of them don't want to admit it is a sexual harassment
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@whitelioonn @flofloret Ga ush jauh2 bawa cewe jg lah dek, ini konteksnya ttg laki dan wlau cewe ad itupun ga sebnyk laki, ini fakta statistik loh. Why men keep inventing fake scenario abt women then get angry abt it duh
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Lihat deh laki laki di platform ini berusaha merombak ulang makna kekerasan seksual supaya pelecehan di grup chat itu dianggap hal yg gak parah parah banget. Segitu gak maunya "kenakalan" kalian terusik dan mengakui catcalling dan rape jokes itu perbuatan kriminal.
222 Mountains For 🇵🇸@kafiradikalis
...Gw ikuti secara hati²+teliti kasus kekerasan seksual yg terjadi di FH UI. Ternyata "cuma" chat² pelecehan secara verbal digital di grup WA tanpa terjadi secara fisik di dunia nyata. Agak aneh kalo itu disebut sbg kekerasan seksual padahal yg tepat: kenakalan seksual minor Hanya saja kenakalan minor secara verbal tsb bukan dilakukan oleh para remaja melainkan oleh para mahasiswa yg telah berusia 20 tahun. Maka secara usia, kenakalan minor tsb bisa dibawa ke ranah litigasi (hukum formal). Tapi apakah fair kenakalan minor seperti itu sampai harus dipermalukan terbuka seperti itu oleh UI? Sementara kenakalan mayor seperti skandal disertasi Bahlil tidak dilakukan investigasi secara terbuka? Dalam hal ini UI melakukan standar ganda. Karena jika profesor² yg meloloskan disertasi Bahlil tidak dipermalukan secara terbuka maka 16 mahasiswa tsb pun tidak berhak dipermalukan seperti itu. Karena yang dilakukan Bahlil dalam konteks akademik merupakan pemerkosaan intelektual. Pemerkosa tidak dipermalukan, yang nakal² minor malah dipermalukan. Pret... (``,)
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@GamefaqsIDN @flofloret makanya bang klo kyk gini barus speak up masa cwe lagi cwe lagi dikira smua cwe itu waras? ada yg 11 12 sama kek cwo yg suka ngelecehin dan jokes seksual, tp reaksi lu para cwo apa? malah pada mau kan bukan ngrsa di lecehin malah pengen digituiin
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@daengih on and I'm sorry for all the actual retards out there because this one is definitely beyond the scope of retardation
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@daengih "dumbo, goblog, tolol, bangsat 🤬"
"he called me a retard 🥹🥹"
because that's what you are you windowlicking spastic bitch.
don't give out more than you can take. 🤷♂️
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