Ede

Most effective warning ever

when i get more active on twitter thats how you know im getting insane again

i used to think being patient and understanding would make people value me more, but sometimes it just teaches people that you’ll tolerate things you shouldn’t

Avoidant: "You did nothing wrong" Me: I know I didn't, I accepted all your flaws and loved you for everything you are and that's why you're running.

Forever traumatized by realizing that no amount of love can change someone who finds losing you easier than facing their own behavior.

People need to stop acting surprised when others pursue them while they are already in a relationship. Attraction does not disappear just because you are committed. Other people do not care what you and your partner are trying to build. If they want you, they will try to get you - And that exactly why it becomes your responsibility to shut the door before they ever feel welcome enough to enter. Because not replying is a choice, not entertaining is choice, not smiling back, flirting back, or allowing unnecessary closeness is a choice. But many people leave the door slightly open because, they enjoy being desired by others while still wanting the safety of a relationship. Then they hide behind excuses like... "I was just being friendly." "I didn't want to be rude." Until the attention turns into attachment and the attachment turns into betrayal. Real loyalty is not passive... It is active discipline.

It sucks getting painted as the villain when you tolerated so much and gave multiple chances before walking away lol.

being kept around, but not fully chosen, has to be the most draining and confusing thing ever.

just APOLOGIZE to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… all that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. people love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.

If a girl starts doing this while Im sleeping she can have whatever she wants

"u attract what u fear" AHHHH a healthy relationship that last forever so scaryyyy

all relationships can survive mistakes, but they cannot survive patterns. Repeated behavior isn't a mistake, it's a decision, apologies lose meaning when the actions never change

Not a single person has tried to fight for me to stay in their life, yet I fought for everyone I lost.

i genuinely think one of the most intimate things ever is wanting someone when you’re exhausted. like damn, i had the longest day and don’t even wanna talk to anybody… but i still want you beside me. just kiss me, cuddle me, and stay for a while