Lisa Nakayiza

Last World Cup without a wife . Stamped .

GUYS! I got a job. Been unemployed since July. I start tomorrow. Please clap

@GODFREY_Kutesa @Joshwiz256 Mr. Kutesa though I agree to a certain extent, but I think Joe Jackson went too far. MJ missed out on his childhood and experienced emotional trauma. He trained him hard he forgot to love him. I will force mine to dance ballet and play instruments 🤗

Since the beginning of this week, I have been watching excellent videos and interviews of Michael Jackson. One thing that consistently stands out is how differently people describe him , yet those who worked closest with him all arrive at the same conclusion. Bruce Swedien, the sound engineer who recorded that #Thriller song, put it plainly: “Michael is a supreme talent… what I would like to communicate about Michael that is not often seen about him is what a fantastic musician he was and how the talent was just indescribably huge .” But here is where my real interest lies: his #father. The world has demonized this man Joe Jackson for being abusive, too hard on his son, for denying him a childhood, for forcing him into training every single day and pushing him beyond his limits. But has anyone stopped to ask what would have happened to Michael Jackson without that kind of father? Would we be celebrating this icon today if he was never pushed into that training room night after night? The Baganda say: Akutwaala ekiro omusiima bukedde. The one who takes you forcefully at night you thank them in the morning. Open your eyes and see the answer : the Jackson 5. How many of his brothers continued at the same level as the King of Pop? None. Because the father’s intense focus landed on Michael. Perhaps he released the others but he never released Michael the child. And that is why we celebrate one name above all the rest. I am a firm believer of intentional forcefulness: to produce a shining diamond, you need enormous pressure. Many people get excited about the #diamond. They pay so much money for it but they criticise and despise the furnace that made it possible. Oba ontegeera… Can anyone produce a fine diamond without pressure? That’s why I support parents who forcefully push their kids into something. They never give them a chance to decide if they want that activity or not. The parents choose a sport and force their children to practice it daily and without rest. They do this because they knw that in the end the child will benefit and appreciate this hardship. I keep telling parents that it’s wrong to keep asking a child if they like an activity or not. Many kids today are lazy and anything that puts them on pressure will be detested by them. When we let our children first decide if they want a sport or not, we will regret it tomorrow when they blame us for not deciding for them yet we knew that it was beneficial. I heard Celine Dion was pushed more to sing in choir by her mom. I also read somewhere that the Williams - Serena & Vanessa were forced to play tennis daily by their father…many examples are there. This Tiger woods we see dominating the game. His father Earl Woods pushed him to the edge. He could have given up. What the world looks at as the bad fathers for putting pressure on the child are the fathers who produce the diamond. As a parent are you ready to take this step or you’re waiting to first see ur child be interested. What would you like to force your child to learn and master at an early stage? 📸Google image.

@GUCCIAIRBAGZ @Stepyluv8 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Same. It's been 3 years. I think she's really close to budging, though. Blocking me, getting married, and having a baby was a nice touch to the mind games she's playing with me, but I know she's about to break soon.

A letter of Employment and a letter of Promotion is coming your way before May ends. Affirm this now!!!

Being committed to one person is a beautiful thing. Don't let damaged people lie to you. There's nothing better than having a soulmate, best friend, lover and a protector in one person. ❤️

The most dangerous form of blindness is believing that your perspective is the only reality.

@yesimthatdope I felt like this once only it turns out I was the one feeling we were soulmates😂. I wish you the best though! But check in if the feeling is mutual.

Our second date would be the next fucking day, cuz that’s absolutely a soulmate activity,

@benmwine Hi Ben where I was raised I was told that when you’re new in an environment, you have to take the initiative to introduce yourself to the neighbors if they haven’t.

We have at least 5 new neighbours. I don't know any of them. I tried to introduce myself in the parking lot and I think the chap thought I was going to beg for fuel money! Another one thought I was trying to hit on her and yet she looks like oli gundi.....

be open to the possibility that life may surprise you in beautiful ways you haven’t even imagined yet.

I will marry well. A life of love, peace, tenderness, and God’s favor is waiting for me.

I think we underestimate how difficult it is to find genuine partners.

Who is hosting a BBQ with their boys while discussing the current state of political affairs, Iran-China-US things, and DRC politics? As some old skool music plays in the background. I wanna come through.

@DaudiKabanda Honorable indeed Kisanjja No Sleep. We kept awake for your updates!

I don’t know what I did for God to bless me with such a day. Eeh!

Very few hold the same thoughts and beliefs 10 years later. Exposure, new data, new experience, New information all can lead to changes. Change is not wrong.

@Owishemwe @tandeka_mutebi 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I’ve booked Kampala road for when it’s Among’s turn.

@Otis441D @jalirabagi I love the change for her! Everyone should be allowed to have change in opinion, thinking and actions

Let’s cut deep into the Sheebah pain. And this is from the outside looking in. Queen is going through a therapeutic process called Corrective Emotional Experience (CEE). Let me operate. Musically, Queen has done it all. She rose from the trenches and became the most decorated and commercial female artist in Uganda, to a point of breaking into versus with the big male artists in the land. She amassed all this success with no one to share it with, no one to pass the throne to. In comes the need for a child. Before the glory, and at the back of all this, were toxic relationships.. men that didn’t treat her with respect. She was passed around like a blunt by fellow popular personalities(mbu). Only disappointments from the opposite gender. Then in comes the protective cynicism. “Love is a scam.” A bad partner meant “all men are bad.” Betrayal meant “nobody is trustworthy.” She became the “I told you relationships are trash” person. I do believe the wildcard (baby daddy) brought the Corrective Emotional Experience. All she wanted was a child to share her glory with, but that little bundle of joy came with a consistent, emotionally safe, trustworthy, patient man. This didn’t just feel good... it disrupted her worldview. Her internal script broke. The baby daddy even went ahead and posted the two baby mamas on Women’s Day, but she didn’t mind because the experience is worth it. She hated what love had repeatedly looked like in her life until someone showed her a different version. So don’t blame her for these contradicting stands. She has embraced something she can’t even fathom. Unfortunately, she will smear some woke Vaseline on it so she doesn’t lose her overfried fans who loved her for her toxic energy. This should also be a lesson to you out there... that when your experience comes, it will catch you off guard and unprepared, but embrace it. Yours Surgically #LoveSurgeon

@jodaonlineug @MarthaKayug 😂 I think that was way before our time. When I was there, pilau was for everyone. My siblings told me later on that they changed from meat to chicken

@ElizabethNakay6 @MarthaKayug Man pilau used to be oba fr muslims on frio…christians we had to eat posho n beef😭

There was a lady called Mama/Aunt Zainab who was the head chef at Kabojja Junior when I was there. Such a kind soul, and she made some of the most delicious meals ever. 🥹 Every once in a while I randomly crave her food. It’s rare that school food is nice. She really made school dope! And those samosas? Absolute fireee 🔥 I honestly still think about her sometimes. I hope she’s doing well wherever she is ❤️