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Once a woman starts to have sex, it's difficult for her to abstain from it.
If she is not sleeping with a man, she'll be masturbating or craving for sex.
There are exceptions to this though.
But do not be that man that would be sexually active, & then you allow a sexually active woman to decieve you with "no sex before marriage".
Except you decide that it's what you want.
Other than that, please do not accept that condition.
You deserve to know if you and the woman you want to marry are sexually compatible.
And vice versa.
God's standard is that both the man and the woman must abstain from sex before marriage.
However, we are humans and not God.
And godly people are not hypocrites.
It's religious people that are hypocrites.
And God has no religion.
Sex in marriage is a big deal.
And the dearth of it in marriage can frustrate you and cause significant crack in it.
It can be exciting in the beginning. But overtime, you may start to lose interest in your spouse because both of you are not sexually compatible.
You want different things.
You crave different things.
And before you know it, sex becomes a chore. Instead of it being pleasurable to both of you, you lose interest and hardly do it.
Even if you marry your wife as a virgin, she may one day start to lose interest in sleeping with you and vice versa.
If both of you date with sincerity, you'll not withhold sex from each other. Because yout body would crave for it.
It's only when you have both had sex severally, and you the man doesn't feel tired, and you begin to see her far more than sex, that is when you'd know that you have found your wife.
Because sometimes, you'd think that you are in love. But after sleeping with her, you start to lose interest and withdraw.
That same thing can happen in marriage.
The difference is that you're now hooked with someone that you don't enjoy sleeping with.
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