Why is it that people want you more once you are with someone?
Once they can see that you prioritise someone and they do the same, that is when they want to be with you.
If you are a beneficiary of someone, avoid talking about them, whether you are right or they are wrong, because the people you are talking to might go tell them, and they will cut you off.
If your girlfriend is sharing a space with another girl, it will be sensible for you not to go there every day as a man.
What is the logic behind going to a woman's house every day, to do what exactly?
Don't you know, her roommate will need some space?
Borrow some sense will.
People who go to work but don't want to do anything, they just want to sit down in one place and order people around, not that they are your boss/not feeling well.
What's your problem?
You can sit at home and no one will disturb you but once you're at work, be ready to work.
Being ambitious is not a bad thing. What is bad is when you have to walk over people, push them off, or pull them down to achieve something.
So, in your quest, be careful not to throw people off.
Don't be so ambitious that you forget to be human.
No matter how desperate you are to fix things, never tell anybody that you can do ANYTHING, because ANYTHING can mean ANYTHING.
Be careful when using the word, especially if you are of the opposite gender,, for example, from a woman to a man.
Have you noticed that people who care for their family (spouse and children) are very attractive?
Attractiveness is not just about clothes, shoes, cologne, and hair.
Try investing your time, energy and resources in your family and see how you glow differently.
Do life with someone who is INLOVE with you. Someone who will be emotionally available for you always. Someone who will prioritize you.
If you do otherwise, you will suffer.
Moral police won't let you rest while growing up as a girl. If you use nail polish, they will complain. You wear a mini, they will complain. You use long hair extensions, they will complain.
The complainants all have grown children and none of them can be compared to you.
I don't see any need for a woman to deny her child or children because she wants a man to marry her.
That's such a disservice to yourself because you are choosing a man over yourself. I pray you heal soon.
One day, you will discover that action wasn't worth it.
There is no way you are willing to marry a single mum but you do not want her child or children in your home.
Marrying a single mum means you are willing and able to be a stepfather. You can't say you want a tree but reject the branches, leaves/fruits. You should know this.
Before I do anything, I ask myself the following question:
• Is it repugnant to natural justice?
• Am I breaking the law... will the law come after me?
• Am I a nuisance, causing nuisance, or hurting anyone?
If I am not doing any of the above, I will go ahead and do it.
You can joke with your family and friends, but not random people like colleagues, associates, or people you are not close to.
Understand BOUNDARY and act accordingly.
If someone has $ 5 million and they give you $500,000, and another has $100,000 and they give you $25,000.
The person who gave you $25,000 has given you more than the person who gave $500,000.
How will I explain to you all that the 'family' relationship is absolute?
When the time is right two things will either happen and there are:
• It is either you look for your family or your family will look for you.