The Emva

I know I’ve made God laugh at least once. 😂

@rosie_martinee True

You can be a Christian and still apply common sense. It's only God you are meant to have complete faith in.

@MaryRoseMalomo Guy e reach to ask

Every time she's cheating on you. You don't imagine a life where you will be happy and loved ni?

@PhatboiSham_ah But who said I want to be an adult now… abeg now 🥹🥹

You aren't truly an 'adult' until you’re married. Being single after 25 is just an extended childhood where you only have to care about yourself. Marriage is the only thing that actually forces you to grow up. Get married today! 🙏🙏

I wonder who God saw eating that he decided gluttony was a sin.😭😭

@Freyy_is Na me

praying over a big decision with your whole chest and then immediately asking God for a sign.>>>

“Deus videt, Deus audit, Deus scit God sees, God hears, God knows”

Someone could be online posting regular stuff while dealing with the worst season of their lives. Be kind always.

People don’t understand that it can REALLY be you. Homelessness, dęath, no job.. Literally anything unfortunate can happen in the blink of an eye, life crazy like that. Always stay humble & be grateful.

I've seen another perspective out there and thought to address it. People cheat because they are chasing fantasy. Marriages get boring especially when routines set in. Instead of doing the hard work to fix the disconnect at home, they look outside for a quick boost. It is rarely about finding love again... it is mostly about escaping reality and seeking validation. They want to feel young, desired, and alive again, falsely believing a new person will permanently fix their internal emptiness. Cheating boils down to pure selfishness. They love the stability, financial security, and comfort of their marriage, but they also crave the excitement of a secret fling. They convince themselves they deserve this extra happiness, completely ignoring the devastation it will cause. It is a failure of character and a refusal to respect the boundaries they willingly agreed to when they got married.

@thatgeminibloom I am 1000% in support of this woman! God bless scientists

Give her all the funding imagine just 4 cycles a year 💃🏽

The best Favour you can do for me right now is to help me repost my craft🥺🤲

Marrying a man that can cook🥰

While I understand the reason for this, telling a woman your problems and assessing her response is an unbelievably good strategy for choosing who you eventually pair bond with. Non disclosure is how you end up with nefarious characters with no regard for your wellbeing.

@IamJUSTaMUD And to also be a kind man

The most important prayer when starting a family is to have kids with a kind woman .

Doing laundry is really my worst chore 😭

I think my money spends itself sometimes.

This perfectly explains the dynamic in my home. We don’t do rigid traditional roles... we play to our natural strengths. ​Because I’m the early riser, I naturally handle breakfast most mornings. I bring that morning care so the food is ready before she and the kids are even awake. Then Shirley feeds the kids and get them ready for school. While I pack up lunch for them. Shirley handles dinner, and lunch is just tag team depending on the day. ​But the real polarity is this... I handle the brute force and heavy lifting, while she uses her composure and meticulous logic to manage all our finances. ​I bring the physical strength... she brings the operational command. When you trust each other completely, you don't compete, you just build a fortress. When you stop worrying about rigid norms and just let each other shine where your true strengths lie, the partnership becomes truly unbreakable.

The reason I made this post is because of my cousin that is always asking for a hand out and I do not give him even though I can afford to, stay with me. This isn’t about money, it’s about a debt that was settled years ago in a whisper. ​We were nine years old, living in two different Nigerian realities. His father was an executive at the Apex bank, mine was a lowly evangelist, carrying the gospel from one dusty village to another. He grew up in the "heaven on earth" of private nurseries and elite universities, eventually landing in the UK for his Masters. I grew up in the house he mocked, unpainted walls and small rooms. He used to say visiting us felt like "going to the village." ​I didn't hate him for it, he just didn't know any better than the luxury he was born into. ​One day, we went to visit a female friend who had just lost her father. As we stepped into their living room, my cousin leaned in and whispered with a giggle, "They’re richer than you people." ​That hit like a physical blow. Not because he was mean, but because he was right. I stood there, nine years old, swallowing the bitter pill of my own predicament. Right then, I made a silent vow: I would not stay at this level no matter what. ​I squeezed every drop of value out of the missionary schools and modest state university my parents could afford. I worked. I climbed. I built. Today, I am self-sufficient, I can afford anything I want at my own level. ​And my cousin? He went to the UK, squandered the opportunity, and returned without a certificate. The "Apex bank" lifestyle has evaporated. His family is struggling. When his father remarried after his mother passed, I was the one who called, took his dad's details, and sent the family support. ​But now, this guy calls me constantly, hands out, looking for "funds." I don’t respond. I don’t think I ever will because no be my money dem go use go beer parlour, smoke weed or gamble on bet9ja. Even the papa don chase am comot from house. Crazy thing is you can't even help him land a job, because baba went to private university and came out with a 3rd class. When you understand time and season, you envy no one, you can only vouch for yourself.