@Rxssa____ @StewardessChick There is nothing to get here babe. OP is talking about soul ties. Soul ties are no joke, especially toxic ones. If you find yourself reminiscing about a toxic soul tie like OP, that is not a good thing, ever.
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@EnigmaticCharl @StewardessChick Yeah it’s not about missing being lied to or being cheated on, if you don’t get it you don’t get it girl lol no worries
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That’s not a soul tie, you just have low self esteem.
OSIRIS ASSAD@Osirisassad
Soul ties suck, why do I still miss you after you showed me I mean nothing to you
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@LowkeyLegolas @StewardessChick The problem here is we are debating different stages of the grieving process. OP is talking about soul ties. Soul ties are no joke, especially toxic ones. If you find yourself reminiscing about a toxic soul tie like OP, the call is coming from inside the house.
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@EnigmaticCharl @Rxssa____ @StewardessChick Given low self esteem because of abuse sure. Abusers often belittle and isolate for that reason. But again, to say that they just have low self esteem and it should be easy to “not miss a cheater” is not right. Call out the abuser or signs of abuse if anything 🤷🏾♀️
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@hairbybare @Lammie_Art01 the man of yours might be onto something because why do I even go as far as offering to send a link or give them the discount code I used as well as sizing recommendations. I’m tired guys 😔😂
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@Lammie_Art01 So i did this at a restaurant and my husband said i shouldn’t do it case it looks bad …. And i dont understand how. I feel like i would be gatekeeping if i didnt tell where i got it from
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Me at Walmart: No one will ever know I bought this dress for $7.
Stranger: I love your dress.
Me: GIRL, IT WAS $7 AT WALMART AND IT HAS POCKETS
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@y2kpopart This takes me back to “Exactly! Looking crazy 🎶🎵🎶💃🏽🕺🏽” 😭😅
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@_phophoh @PriestH1mothy The plot keeps thickening. Story time!🙊😅
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I once had this situation in bed, man cleaned everything with soo much ease, and that’s because he was expecting someone else over🤣🤣🤣
LADE HERSELF@Thebiglade
Bro to bro, your girlfriend did this, what would you do??
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@LowkeyLegolas @Rxssa____ @StewardessChick I think low self esteem comes with abuse. Predators literally rely on you not trusting yourself. Hence why I am against missing certain people. And if you’ve been with an abuser, don’t miss them. They rely on that lingering connection
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@EnigmaticCharl @Rxssa____ @StewardessChick Or you have just mastered detachment so well that literally nothing means much to you anymore to the point it can be gut wrenching to let it go. YOU are not everyone. This isn’t low self esteem , it’s the effects of abuse and I want yall to realize it’s not a one size fits all
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@LowkeyLegolas @Rxssa____ @StewardessChick No I have not mastered detachment but I also know that what you are saying is one of the fastest ways to land in abusive cycles. You are better off weaning your brain off whatever crack they gave you because you will look for it in the next person.
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@PhantasticPink @alexissimone03 @SanPants @StewardessChick You felt you were at your happiest while being lied to. That’s that low self esteem creeping in because why would you even want to entertain the thought and then defend it publicly…over someone who does not value you?
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@EnigmaticCharl @alexissimone03 @SanPants @StewardessChick You can miss multiple parts or just the part that evokes a desire to return to a point when you both were your happiest. It’s grief of what could’ve been.
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@Rxssa____ @StewardessChick The real question here is why do miss being lied to or manipulated? Unless you are just choosing to conflate mutual break ups and f*cked up ones just to make your point stick? Because once again, why would miss a cheater unless you have low self esteem 😭😭
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@EnigmaticCharl @StewardessChick I’m sorry but you can’t convince me that caring for others is having low self esteem. If you’re allowing them to constantly mistreat you then yes that absolutely is. But memories and feelings do not disappear fast, this is a very common phase for people that are processing loss
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@onlydubsX Reacting like this to your best and most successful role is actually wild. I didn’t even want him in dreamgirls…he is annoying 😭😭
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@Jordansthegoat1 @onlydubsX Ok but this is different…don’t ask me why or how, I just know it is 😭😭😂😂
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@onlydubsX One time I did extra work on One on One with Kyla Pratt and someone started talking about Flex Alexander when he played Michael Jackson and he got super pissed off and walked off the set for at least 20 minutes. 😭🤦🏾♂️
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@DAnteFourPrez I wanna throw more gasoline into this fire by highlighting that Bradley Cooper is in fact very proud to have voiced Rocket….a raccoon. He would have never had someone fired someone for this😔
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Hollywood is so ass kissy how is this a good reason to fire somebody lmao
Dubs⛧@onlydubsX
Jamie Foxx tells Cameron Diaz they had to kick an extra off Dreamgirls after Eddie Murphy walked out and the extra asked if that was the donkey from Shrek 😭🫏
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@Keanu_Pitt @DAnteFourPrez I know him and his work but it still doesn’t change the fact that his most successful project is Shrek (imo). So if I ever meet him, he will always be the donkey…..from Shrek
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@DAnteFourPrez Imagine trying to break into Hollywood and not knowing Eddie Murphy. Yeah send them back home so they can do their homework.
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@SomaKazima2 She’s so funny for trying to put everyone in Maroon 5 😂😂😂
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@poisonhoneybee_ @Beyonce Hamlet being mentioned in the question before is frying me. Cuz context clues was right there!!! But yessss the only right answer Ms. Ma’am 😂😂🔥
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@4theloveofdre @StewardessChick That’s that low self esteem right there I’m afraid 😭😭 You can think of people, but missing is very intentional and often means that person still has a home in you and you want them back. You can’t miss something you don’t want hence the low self esteem
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@StewardessChick It’s not always this black and white tho. People have deep desires that can be hard for them to let go of.. especially when they felt close to receiving what they wanted out of it, now they’re left grieving what they thought would have been. also normal to miss ppl/experiences
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@Rxssa____ @StewardessChick Sorry babe but it is. Once you make it to the other side you will understand…provided you’ve actually learnt your lesson. You can’t truly miss something that wasn’t genuine or real to begin with
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@StewardessChick It’s annoying that yall respond to everything as having low self esteem, such a flawed way to view things. It’s natural to miss people you once cared about. It doesn’t mean you have low self esteem, it shows you cared deeply for that person and maybe still need time to process
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@alexissimone03 @SanPants @StewardessChick Do you really miss them or they just popped in your mind or you saw something that reminded you of them? Missing is a very intentional act and often confused with just thinking of someone. Now after this clarification, if you still miss them then its definitely an esteem issue
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@SanPants @StewardessChick Thank you because I absolutely think you can miss someone after yall are not together. Now if you go back to them after they showed you that you mean nothing, then that is low self esteem.
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@SanPants @StewardessChick No, psychosis is why “Black folks stay mentally ill”. Whether that be religious or whatever the fuck this is.
Soul ties are not real.
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