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first of all, i hate the term “cishet women” i am simply woman. a woman in my natural habitat, no prefix needed.

So a man saying he wouldn’t date a woman if she slept with 5 partners is not devaluation? So what is the point of our argument against body count policing then if we are not pushing back on the idea that the act of sex done to someone by a man doesn’t damage them? Explain.

It is bigotry to reject someone because they have sex with men and for no other reason. It’s the same body count policing that implies sex with men damages someone’s desirability that happens to women. You guys’ feminism isn’t based on education in feminist theory and it shows.

it was never about "owing" anybody anything it's about not acting obtuse when your prejudice is called out. i don't get how it's so easy for yall to understand how everybody else's preferences can be rooted in isms and phobias but yall can't grasp this. if johnny had THREE APPLES

Accept my interpretation of your choice…and your choice is based on bigotry. Y’all really learned how to dodge accountability from the white oppressor class so well. Gotta give them their 10s for that

Nobody has to approve of your dating preferences. All they asked is you admit they are phobic.

Y'all are fighting against bi men because you talk about only being interested in straight men. So don't pretend it's about feminism when you want to be with the most oppressive group of men possible lmao.

Mind you biphobia is rooted in patriarchy too. Nobody is trying to protect men’s dating prospects. They’re asking you to be consistent about the fact that body counts and how many men have fucked you do not make you a less valuable person

Your problem is that we need to focus on one and not the other, when people are very capable of doing both. Does that make sense for you now?

We can talk about more than just one thing, yk? Like I can pointing racism, misogynism, validism, texturism, colorism as a black woman with a handicap. Why would you think pointing homophobia would be too much for me? I'm multitask.

This would be such a read if misogyny and homophobia were not connected. But it's also bold of me to assume you have that kind of nuance for this conversation.

do yall not understand that a root of how bi men are treated is misogyny??? that a root of homophobia in GENERAL is misogyny? that y'all letting this shit fly is absolutely gone come back and bite yall in the ass?