Mx. Ella David-ette (She/Her)

Man, I really traumatized the first person I dated because I had a crazy level of internalized homophobia. Post nut clarity + being overly religious + internalized homophobia I would start preaching to him, guilty tripping him about how he is making me sin. Until the next time I get horny again and all over him. I was such a terrible person lol. I wonder how he coped. Crazy how 9 years later, we are now best of friends now and laugh over it but Damnn that was some time

When Chude Jideonwo, a popular Nigerian TV host, was diagnosed with Tourette syndrome, he was advised to keep it private for fear of judgement. Now, he’s speaking openly about living with involuntary movements and challenging misconceptions about the condition in the country.

Y'all do realize the only forced sexuality is heterosexual, right?

If you’re gay, read this! Growing up as a feminine man, there was one thing that stood out to me; the disdain and disgust in the eyes of men when I spoke, walk past, greeted … basically my simple existence disgusted them to their core! But you know who never gave up on me? Who looked at me for how well I did in school, my industrious flare, my resilience and taught me to fight and stand up for myself? The women in my life! They never for once treated me differently, nor told me “how to walk or talk like a man”. Because they understood I didn’t have control over that except the “men”. Isn’t it ironic then, how I’m older now and people still think I’d rather “choose” to be with a man if I could “choose”. The difference is that I like men who also like men, not seeking validation from the eyes of my oppressors. That’s why when I like a man and find out he’s straight, I’m immediately disgusted to my core, I look at them with the same disdain and scold myself for wasting my “crush” on someone like that, including DL men or whatever the fuck they call themselves. So before you pass any ill comment about the way I live, know that I’m a fucking double master, who’s achieved so much your little homophobic brain cannot comprehend! And if you try as much as speak directly to me in a disrespectful manner, I won’t instigate, but litigate after I’ve dealt with your entire family! Oh, I don’t believe in forgiveness when it comes to homophobia. So dear young gay man, you’re fucking worth it! You’re amazing and nothing is wrong with you— your walk, your talk, your intelligence is freaking amazing! Keep telling yourself that, especially my African men living in those homophobic countries with unintelligent bigots as leaders, so pitiful and shameful! With love ❤️ Hassan Cole (Nana Kwési Antwi)

The thing about Islam is, if we all live like them, we’ll go back to the days of barbarism. Islam is dragging civilization backwards. We’ve grown past this.

" I recommend touching yourself , it reduces stress" " We have alot of lady bosses that are cranky because they lack sêx " -53 years old woman