Jae (they/them) - (formerly Growhappy)

Starting a new thread called: Things I Wish Another Gainer Had Told Me When I Got Started

@aandliesubu @ravesixer @melrevia You can't Make a partner lose weight. If your partner wants to be big, or get bigger, it's Their body. If you don't want them to be big, maybe don't get with a large person to begin with??

@ravesixer @melrevia Also i just feel like a lot of you need to care about your partners health, even if it means making them lose weight

why do people always act like fat fetish killed their grandma lmfao

@wadokarts @ravesixer Either way, if you don't enjoy it just don't look at it?? There's so much other art that isn't "anesthetically pleasing if you're not into it" but no one is trying to crucify those artists. I think Picasso's work is trash personally, but I don't attack people who enjoy it.

@ravesixer It's not exactly an aesthetically pleasing thing to look at when you're not into it. Like 70% of the times it's drawn like a bad parody of the fetish OR irony poisoned. Unless you mean people who draw normal ass chubby girls then claim they have a fat fetish (they are wrong).

@ravesixer I often think it's just that they've internalized So Hard, that they have to stay skinny to be attractive, that seeing people not only appreciate fat but celebrate it and actively Enjoy being fat is just anathema to them. We're rocking the whole toxic boat lol

@cuppie_butter Mood 😩 need feeders in the chat

Same! Feed me!

Realizing I've worn this shirt in the last three posts lol, idk how it keeps ending up being what I wear while being a fat ass 😂

Bout to put a burger and shake in this bad boy

@SpeckleAlleyCat I wouldn't pressure yourself to feel any particular way. What you feel in any given moment is a natural reaction. Once you have them you can analyze what you're feeling and why, but I think it's perfectly understandable whatever is coming up.

my abusive dad is getting a heart transplant in a couple hours. i dont know what to do or how to feel

@SpeckleAlleyCat Meanwhile, they often only go after already fat mascs 🙃

why do feeders only go after skinny women

@BlossomsPiglet I actually like their reasoning :') hope they find a new way to keep making us fat

BOOOOOOO

March->May

@piggysmllz It's sad af

@EverHungrier I just hoping that finding now bad reviews means they haven’t broke

Has one one actually managed to break a BigFig heavy duty foundation and frame before? Are they me sized proof?

@chonkopus Oh, you've been Busy busy.

Big as hell

@DBear550 Yeah, I was curious, so looked myself after I made that comment. :/ It sucks it's so hard to find

@EverHungrier I’ve been intentionally trying to find reviews of the frame and foundation break but can’t. Only some about the mattresss

There's just something about a paunch in a button-down 🤌🏻

@piggysmllz Are you considering not? 🤔 I didn't realize that was possible

@A_Saleswoman Sending healing 💚

Plan changed... I managed to finish paid for comms... just some left that I'll communicate. I'll open comms soon. Not immediately, need some grieving time

I've added my Throne link to my bio! There are a handful of ways spoil me there :3