FinDaddy Joe The Mind Manipulator

Despite the fickle interwebs gods causing his Lovense Hush to constantly diconnect we enjoyed a great session. I allowed him (a privelege) to unlock and he was edged over and over, we had to calm him down once or twice as I think an ‘accident’ was imminent! 🤭 I decided as he had proved to be a very good boy again to grant him release, but nothing as you know ‘cums for free’. He was forced to milk himself like dairy cattle into a tumbler of his very expensive artisinal rum, having given said rum an extra burst of nutrition he naturally toasted me with it! Don’t I look after my boys well ensuring they get a hit of protein, vitamins and minerals 😌 Sounds fun right? What are YOUR thoughts on the matter? Excites you? Amuses you? Gives you warm fuzzies? Jealous maybe? Let me know!

@gaggedboi101 And rightly so, he chugged the ‘elixir’ with gusto!

@FindaddyJ lol. Jealous

Despite the fickle interwebs gods causing his Lovense Hush to constantly diconnect we enjoyed a great session. I allowed him (a privelege) to unlock and he was edged over and over, we had to calm him down once or twice as I think an ‘accident’ was imminent! 🤭 I decided as he had proved to be a very good boy again to grant him release, but nothing as you know ‘cums for free’. He was forced to milk himself like dairy cattle into a tumbler of his very expensive artisinal rum, having given said rum an extra burst of nutrition he naturally toasted me with it! Don’t I look after my boys well ensuring they get a hit of protein, vitamins and minerals 😌 Sounds fun right? What are YOUR thoughts on the matter? Excites you? Amuses you? Gives you warm fuzzies? Jealous maybe? Let me know!

@gregcrew20 I think it would add new dimensions to tease and denial or ruined orgasm sessions.

@FindaddyJ That does look fun

@gregcrew20 They are the best, I need someone to get a Gush though too!

@FindaddyJ That hush plug is such a fun toy

@gaggedboi101 Always the right response! Viva la Dachshunds!

@FindaddyJ No. And I’ll fight those that say otherwise

Is there ever a day or instance that cannot be enhanced with the supreme preciousness of Dachshund? If there is I have not discovered it! Such a precious baby!

@outofofficbe Always, the real ones get it!

@FindaddyJ Findom has a lot of nuance to it and I think this debate is more prevelant with the new popularity of it. OGs understand that it goes deeper than mere transactions.

Ethical v’s Unethical findom, Had some really good chats with subs around this topic recently. On one level there is an argument that findom is inherently unethical and exploitative (though that is EXACTLY why so many of you twitch and crave it). On another there is no doubt that for many the connections made here, the erotic or kink outlet and authenticity on offer here more than make up for any ‘exploitation’. And then there are the subs saying, shut up about ethical you are ruining my fantasy, I want the hardest, darkest violation. I want to hear YOUR thoughts, both subs and Dom/mes but especially subs, and we can always discuss personally over a few sends..

@Jake63097450829 I think so too! It’s all about the layers to it!

@FindaddyJ Never thought of diapers this way. Adds an interesting framing to them

So apparently the diapers were truly brutal for his ego 🤭 He had been holding on for hours but finally under instruction he ‘broke’ and just ‘let it happen’. I told him it was an important step in dismantling his male ego. The only ego should be Me. Anyway he is now in bed in a fully soiled diapy. A perfect start to My birthday. What are YOUR opinions on dismantling egos and what are the best things you have experienced?

@B917833214072 Haha so we know what you do love!

@FindaddyJ I hate English breakfast

Repost if you EITHER like the full english brekkie OR your orgasms being controlled 😂

@50Mond I rather thought so too, very priveleged.

@FindaddyJ lucky boy

Once you learn to submit properly, that is when the magic happens. Stop trying to hold onto your ego, rather sink lower, spiral further and embrace what’s happening. It’s good for you I promise 🤭 When was the last time YOU got this deep?

@HadrianTemple Thanks for sharing!

@FindaddyJ I wrote a whole blog post about this issue—I discuss the ethical objections in the second half of it. gaybdsmfiction.blog/2020/12/31/why…

@cayenneboy1 I love their products, it majes controlling my good boys so much simpler.

@FindaddyJ Nice. I wear lovense hush. I literally drop to my knees when strangers activate it. I LOVE it

Here is a nice mental picture for you all, at this very moment he is: ~ Naked ~ Plugged (Lovense hush) and buzzing ~ Sending ~ Humping his bedroom wall on his knees Does this sound like something YOU might enjoy?

@ISpiralled Creativity for the win! Is that the same sofa you had ‘relations’ with..

@FindaddyJ Oh the worst was I once had to shower fully clothed and then sit and watch an episode of gossip girl whilst dripping wet on my sofa. Although in fairness it was a punishment

We have decided today that he will start wearing diapers at nightime. He said it was very embarrassing but also strangely exciting when he swung by his local store to purchase the adult diapers (I think some funny looks 🤭). This is what good submission looks like, a willingness to experiment, a willingness to descend deeper and a willingness to park ego at the door in order to please Me. What is the bravest or most embarrassing thing you have done to prove your devotion to your Superior? Happy hump (your pillows) day!

@ISpiralled Ah the joy of shameful deeds done in dark alleyways!

@FindaddyJ It was at night and I had 1 minute after buying it to shove it down there. Thankfully there was a dark alley so I could do it without anyone seeing.... The worst thing though is it took about 4 washes to get the butter smell out of those trackies

@SirMasterChub A point that many oft miss!

@FindaddyJ The only way to unconsentually drain a sub is to somehow get their credentials and to take their cash when they told you to stop. Any kind of draining that involves initiating transactions or accepting requests are consensual. The sub makes all the final decisions in this dynamic

@Pup_WithPurpose This is I would agree a fair position to take on the subject. Thanks for sharing your point of view!

@FindaddyJ I think putting findom in constraints of ethical vs Unethical is a mistake to begin with. Its like a Casino. You're gonna lose your cash! "Ethical" is just an emotional defense to make people feel better about engaging in something that is inherently exploitative.

@TinySub101 Trade secrets, if I said them, people might be able to resist them. But in all seriousness every dynamic is different and it really depends on person and context.

@FindaddyJ What techniques do you use

@TinySub101 Very understandable, it can be so freeing and relaxing to just let go can’t it.

@FindaddyJ Yes I enjoyed the relaxing feeling